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If you both think of each other as the right person, then it is only a matter of you adjusting your mentality, getting married and fighting together. If you don't think he's the right person, or if his goodness doesn't dispel your current vision of reality, then you still know what to do, and it's a multiple-choice question for you, and you need to look inside yourself to understand.
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Actually, you can rent a house first, you're still young anyway. In marriage, feelings are still the most important, and money can be earned and saved slowly.
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It's not a problem of housing, it's a problem of money, no one can solve this problem, there are too many people who don't have money, they all want to have money, there must be a good way, and it will be solved as soon as possible.
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There is no good solution, either you marry him and make money to buy a house. Or find someone rich and come in and enjoy the blessings. I feel like you're leaning towards the latter. Don't grieve yourself, you still have to have some bottom line in life.
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Two people work together to get the best, and even if you don't, it doesn't matter, because you work together.
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Let's do it......Even if it's in a very small house, as long as you love each other so much, then it's worth it even if you are suffering! No one will live their entire life without a ...... houseIt's just like that, little by little, and it's okay to save it......
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Life is very realistic, love is also very realistic, you can choose one of the fish and bear's paws, depending on whether you want to live a good life or true love, I advise you to choose a good day, true love will deteriorate.
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If you really think he's good, follow him! Although the house is very important, it is not easy to find someone who is really good to you! Buy the house later, if you get married, ask him to open a room in the hotel, take you to the room, his family should have a house, or his parents live **?
Live there first, and buy it later when you have the money.
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There are two obvious obstacles to your love.
Obvious 1, your father's opinion.
Your father's distribution of the house payment is very correct for two families who are financially okay, but now the man's family is not very good, so this distribution method will not work. If this method is forced immediately, the man's family can easily be impoverished by this marriage.
Obviously, 2, you and his mutual encouragement.
He turned off his phone, whether it was the torture of self-pressure or the powerlessness of grief, he needed the other half to be relieved. And you are so anxious and anxious that you also need the other half to comfort you. If there is really no estrangement between two people, then any sorrow and suffering can be told.
And then there's the way I can think of to ease things up at the moment:
Find a weekend, a working holiday (preferably his), quietly, two people, sit down. Is it to slowly save money to buy a house or borrow, or if you can go out, or buy a cheap one, or ......It doesn't matter, the important thing is that we still love each other, right?
Money is the hard issue, we can only reduce spending with increasing income time).
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It is the greatest luck of his life to meet you who is empathetic and considerate of the director, and how many people now make it clear that they have money and love, and there is no love without money. But his situation is really helpless, and I want to say that your parents can't help you with a little, even if it's borrowed, I myself am also a daughter, and now I plan to have another one, but my husband and I both said that no matter whether the son or daughter is born by ourselves, since we gave birth to them, don't favor one over the other.
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In fact, if this man loves you very much, you can marry him! Maybe he'll be a potential stock! It may give you a better life in the future, but your father is also important! You also want to get the blessing of your family when you get married! Discuss it with your parents!
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Human value is both internal and external.
The house is a kind of extrinsic value, a symbol of monetary status.
You deliberately cover up your external value to see how much she appreciates your inner value, and it turns out that you are disappointed, and she is cold to you.
This illustrates a point.
Your intrinsic value is not high, and she doesn't look down on your intrinsic value, so when your extrinsic value decreases, she is disappointed in you and doesn't want to pay attention to you.
You are poor, poor inwardly, and you need to elevate your intrinsic worth.
No matter how rich you are on the outside, you can only attract a while, you are really rich on the inside, and you can attract a lifetime When you lack intrinsic value and cover up your external value, even the temporary attraction is lostWhen you are rich in intrinsic value and lack of external value, you can also attract girls who know how to appreciate inner beauty When you are rich in both internal and external values, you can attract all girls, you are a male god You can ask her like this: Do you want to find a boyfriend with high external value or find a boyfriend with high intrinsic value? Or is it higher inside and out?
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You asked him about his criteria for choosing a mate!! If you have the ability, find someone you love, and if you don't have the ability, find someone who loves you!!
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