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You're saying she's lived with someone else before, and now she's with you, right? And it seems that you only found out that she had lived with someone else after being together, does that mean?
Although cohabitation is common nowadays, I have always believed that what is common is not necessarily a good thing. It seems that you are also a person who can't accept cohabitation, and since you don't accept cohabitation in the first place, you can't forgive her behavior, so you can simply do it. Don't say anything about losing her and you'll be more miserable, if that's the case you won't be obsessed with not forgiving her at all.
You are depressed now, and you may indeed have a revenge mentality in the future, then when the time comes, you yourself will harm others, harm other people's families, and your behavior is more serious than your girlfriend's unmarried cohabitation, and it cannot be forgiven. When the time comes, it's time to change you and hurt your girlfriend. If you really love her, you need to think about whether you can really forgive her, stop getting into the horns, think about her past, and if you can, everyone will be happy.
If you can't, you leave her quickly, and both of you have the right to pursue what you think is better. Stop thinking too much about the pain of losing her or something. Thinking so much can only show that you are also an indecisive, even cowardly man.
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If you are in such pain with her, then I suggest you give up because loving someone is a lifelong thing, and since you have this idea now, there is still a long way to go, how can you go smoothly ??
Either he has a showdown with her, but he doesn't want to contact his former boyfriend, hehe, love is selfish, if you really can't talk about it, then there is no other way, hehe, maybe breaking up is also a good choice, sometimes what you love is not necessarily suitable for you
I wish you to come out of the shadows soon
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You're right, if you love her, you should tolerate everything about her, but it's unforgivable to live with other men after being with you, break up.
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It's not that you don't know your feelings, it just reminds you to be careful, be careful, be cautious, be cautious.
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What is she doing with love on her lips all day long! It's obviously with that mature man, playing for a few years! Finally, I dropped the man, and I'm with you again! Treat you as a reserve, what else do you have to do with such a woman, divide it, you will definitely find a better one when you are so young!
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There is usually this kind of mentality, but you don't really love her yet, if you love her so deeply, you don't care. It's better not to get married, you won't be happy in the end, and neither of you will be happy.
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I'm also breaking up with my girlfriend, I'm really uncomfortable, I feel like I've lost a lot of things, and I'm still figuring it out, why? I can't speak, I don't know how to say it, it's a good thing that you can figure it out, I'm also 23 years old, and it should take time to make people better
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Unmarried people are able to cohabit. Marriage is not mandatory under Chinese law in order to cohabit. However, if the parties are unmarried and cohabit, their cohabitation relationship is not protected by law.
For example, if a cohabiting party initiates a lawsuit only to request the dissolution of the cohabitation relationship, the people's court will not accept it, and if it has already accepted it, rule to reject the lawsuit.
Legal basis
Article 3 of the Interpretation (1) of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family.
Where a party initiates a lawsuit and only requests the dissolution of the cohabitation relationship, the people's court will not accept it; where it has already been accepted, a ruling is made to reject the lawsuit.
Where parties initiate litigation due to disputes over the division of property or child support during the period of cohabitation, the people's courts shall accept it.
Article 7. Where a man and a woman who have not completed marriage registration in accordance with Article 1049 of the Civil Code and live together in the name of husband and wife, and file a lawsuit for divorce, they shall be treated differently:
1) Before the promulgation and implementation of the Ministry of Civil Affairs' "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" on February 1, 1994, where both a man and a woman have met the substantive requirements for marriage, it shall be handled as a de facto marriage.
2) After the promulgation and implementation of the Ministry of Civil Affairs' "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" on February 1, 1994, if both the man and the woman meet the substantive requirements for marriage, the people's court shall inform them to reapply for marriage registration. Where marriage registration has not been completed, it is to be handled in accordance with article 3 of this interpretation.
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Unmarried cohabitation is not supported, in case of an accident, it is possible to live together unmarried, but if something happens, you will be responsible for the consequences.
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First of all, I think living together out of wedlock is a very serious matter.
Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship before the two individuals do not understand each other's temperament and character.
First, if you cohabit with the man too early, it is very likely that the future in-laws will despise you.
Second, after living together, what you face is not the romance of love, but a bunch of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you live with a boy inevitably have to wash clothes, cook and clean the house, you let him experience married life for free in advance, so what about another two years?
The third case is even worse, which is an unplanned pregnancy after cohabitation.
In the event of such a result, it will be more difficult to get out of the way.
If the man is a responsible person, maybe it's better, if the man is irresponsible, then the woman will be completely passive, and then talk about marriage at this time, the meaning is completely different.
It is difficult for parents in traditional families to accept couples living together too early.
If you tell them when the relationship is still unstable, the change in the relationship will only add trouble to the parents.
In the minds of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will marry in the future.
In the lives of contemporary young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.
This gap in awareness not only affects the communication between parents and children, but also affects the emotional direction between couples.
Cohabitation is really something that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions.
In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, at this time, when two people get to know each other to a certain extent, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.
When you decide to live together after careful consideration, be sure to tell your parents first.
You can choose to have a tentative chat with your parents, talk about the examples of your friends who live together, and listen to your parents' views on the couple.
If your parents agree to live together, congratulations, you can save a lot of tongues, but if your parents don't agree to it, don't quarrel with your parents.
After all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, and you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and kindness into your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and tell your parents about it when the time is right.
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If you are unmarried, you can live together, but it is not recommended, it will be nothing for men, but for women, it is okay if you finally get married, but if you are unmarried, the injury will be deeper.
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Unmarried, cohabiting, there are more and more people who may accept it, but there are still people who do not accept it, they feel that there is no shame in living together before marriage!
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First of all, I think cohabitation is a more serious matter, and couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stage of the relationship. If you still decide to live together after you have thought about it, be sure to tell your parents first. You can choose to talk to your parents tentatively, talk about the cases of friends living together, and listen to your parents' views on living together as a couple.
If your parents agree with the couple's cohabitation, then congratulations, you can spend a lot less words, but if your parents don't agree with this matter, don't quarrel with your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in the world, you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and good things for you in your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and wait until the time is ripe, and then tell your parents about it.
1. I want to get tired of being with each other.
In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together in love, because women want to be tired of being with men, and if men do not agree to live together, women will be sad, or they have to live together because women care very much about living with men. In this way, she can easily cook for men and can have more time with men.
2. Be open-minded.
In the modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together in love, because they are open-minded, Liang Di feels that they are adults, and their parents have no right to interfere with their freedom, and they feel that there is nothing wrong with living together, and the two people are in a love relationship, and both men and women have the right to decide whether to live with each other. In fact, these fully illustrate a common phenomenon in this era, strict family education is also one thing, but it is not against the trend of this era, so if two people have no opinion on this, they will naturally live together.
3. I want to form a family with each other.
In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together, because they want to form a family with each other, and feel that living with each other is more free than living with their parents, or for other reasons, anyway, they are rushing to get married, so it doesn't matter sooner or later, and it can make each other live a more comfortable and pleasant life, so then men and women naturally come together.
4. It is very suitable to live together in a shared house.
In modern society, men and women are basically unmarried and live together because they feel that it is very appropriate to live together in a shared house, after all, they are already in love, for example, men want to go to work and rent a house, and women also think the same, so they feel that it is more convenient to take care of each other together, so the two people will reach a consensus in this regard, so as to live together. Therefore, why men and women in love in society are basically "unmarried and cohabiting" is actually inseparable from the progress of modern society and people's ideological concepts, and it also depends on personal choice and self-restraint.
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1. Is it illegal to live with someone else's wife unmarried?
Suspected bigamy of cohabiting with another person in the name of husband and wife. 1. Legal bigamy: refers to the fact that the previous marriage has not been dissolved, and the marriage is registered with another person.
In China, where marriage is registered as a single registration, bigamy is constituted as long as both parties have registered their marriage, regardless of whether they are cohabiting or not. 2. De facto bigamy: refers to the fact that the previous marriage has not been dissolved, and the person lives together in the name of husband and wife with another person, but the marriage registration formalities have not been completed.
As long as the parties openly live together in the name of husband and wife, even if the marriage is not registered, it constitutes bigamy.
2. How long cohabitation with another person is considered the crime of bigamy.
If you live with someone else in the name of husband and wife for more than half a year, you are suspected of the crime of bigamy. The crime of bigamy refers to the act of marrying another person while having a spouse or marrying another person knowing that he or she has a spouse. The so-called spouse refers to a man who has a wife and a woman who has a husband, and this kind of husband and wife Li Xiao relationship is still existing without legal procedures, that is, a person who has a spouse; If the relationship has been dissolved, or if the relationship has disappeared naturally due to the death of one of the spouses, i.e. it is no longer a person who has a spouse.
The so-called "marrying another person knowing that he or she has a spouse" refers to deliberately marrying another person (including a registered marriage or a de facto marriage) even though he or she does not have a spouse, but knows that the other person has a spouse. Such an act is an act of intentional destruction of another person's marriage. Article 258 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China provides:
Whoever has a spouse and marries another person while knowing that he or she has a spouse shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.
3. Whether cohabitation with a mistress is considered a bigamy crime.
Not counted. Bigamy refers to the act of marrying again if a person has a spouse. Available in two forms:
1) Legal bigamy, that is, bigamy constituted by the fact that the previous marriage has not been dissolved and the marriage registration formalities are completed with another person. As long as the parties have registered their marriage, whether they live together or not, or whether the marriage takes place, bigamy is formed.
2) De facto bigamy: that is, the previous marriage has not been dissolved, and the person living together in the name (or relationship) of another person in the name (or relationship) of husband and wife, although the marriage registration formalities have not been completed, but in fact it has constituted bigamy. Article 258 of the Criminal Law [Crime of Bigamy] A person who has a spouse and marries him, or who marries another person knowing that he has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.
4. Is it illegal to live together unmarried?
1. Unmarried cohabitation is generally not illegal.
2. However, if one or both of the cohabiting parties already have a spouse, it is illegal for both parties to cohabit in the name of husband and wife, which will constitute the crime of bigamy, and the crime of bigamy will be punished by fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention depending on the circumstances.
3. Legal basis: Article 258 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China provides that whoever has a spouse and marries another person, or marries another person knowing that he has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.
Article 1051 of the Civil Code shall invalidate a marriage under any of the following circumstances:
a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;
3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.
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