Should I continue? Seek enlightenment

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Did she treat you as a confidant? Or do you want to wait a few more years for her?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's put it this way, she doesn't hate you, but she doesn't like you either, and if there is one she likes at this time, she will not hesitate to throw herself into someone's arms, nothing to do with you.

    Of course she is very beautiful in your eyes, who makes you like people. But who can fully understand another person, not to mention that you are only her classmate, and it is impossible for you to look at her every day. That's what she says.

    Either she really doesn't believe in love, or she's a little vain, no matter whether there is something she likes now, at least one person has always liked herself, that's very dignified.

    That's what I'm saying, it's your own business to make up your mind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She just doesn't want to fall in love in college, I'm like this, I think that falling in love in college is meaningless, it's all lonely and looking for someone to accompany you There are also a minority, and you are in a different place, and there are various problems in my classmates who are in different places one after another, which is inevitable Long-distance relationship, which can be said to be unreliable in college days

    If you think about it, you really like her, you can wait until the time is ripe to chase her, it's yours and yours, if you two don't have that fate, then you have to accept your fate If you just want to take one step at a time, just want to have someone to accompany you in college, and it doesn't matter what happens in the future, then chase it now, but it is too difficult to get married after more than four or five years

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Didn't she once say that she didn't believe in love? Someone must have broken her heart before she met you, and it hurt very badly. If you really like her, you have to pay more than you usually chase girls.

    We must care more about her. Since he contacted you, it means that you still have hope, what you need to do is not care about the result first, pursue it with 12 passions, it doesn't matter if you are crazy, go to his school to see her. Just open her heart lock and you're going to succeed!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Brother, to sum up what you said, I analyze:

    You are very hopeful, because you have been in contact for so long, there is no refusal, and she will take the initiative to contact you if she has not been contacted for half a month, and it is undoubtedly funny to let you be your godson, she has a sense of humor. But you mishandled your relationship and many opportunities came to naught, but now the opportunities are still there.

    The landlord, she said that to be her godson, why don't you take advantage of the situation to agree (36 plans will be calculated + golden cicada shelling), in the name of her godson, she will not refuse (if she refuses you to refute you refute that you are not sincere and do not sincerely admit your godson), and then you can play together, you can chat together, you can go shopping, you can watch movies, etc. In fact, there will be obvious subtle changes in your relationship. In the end, you will undoubtedly be married.

    If you don't seize the opportunity, I'm afraid that one day when she meets the object of her crush, you will miss out.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, love is not a good thing, it depends on your own decision.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How many good women are there, brother, I support you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go on, I believe that Jin Shi is open, and one day it will move her, believe you... Support you. Give it a few points.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not easy for two people to be together, and I hope you think carefully about breaking up

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems that it is not interesting to continue, and I am not considerate of my boyfriend, I don't have any money and a house, and I hate people who want a house before they get married.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's her parents who are afraid that your family will bully her, so they will buy another house, she has no opinion, and she can't just listen to you now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it seems that your mother-in-law and your wife's thoughts are very normal, but your strength can't be satisfied, then let it go, what you need to live is mutual understanding and tolerance, if you follow her like this, you can only seem to separate. I advise you to find someone else! You'll be happier that way.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Talk to her, talk about it, pay attention, don't be impulsive, discuss problems well, accommodate each other, after all, this is related to the future of two people, don't be reckless, otherwise, it will be too late for the two people to regret it in the end.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is about tolerating and understanding each other. Women are born in need of coaxing, personal advice, and striving for the initiative.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After all, love sometimes temper tantrums and the like will always appear But I can't find a reason for you to break up, if you don't like it, break up, why bother, if you like it, the two of you don't meet and want to give each other a beating** Tolerate each other, sometimes the woman has a temper, and the heart breaks up in a word, not worse than her, if you really like it, do you still have to worry so much, after all, there is a conflict between the two people to reconcile It also depends on the future to pinch your nose every day, the man's family is the first career is also the first But there is no stable family ** to the career Unless the single noble. Do you want to break up Do you want to reconcile , a thousand reasons to be sad What is it Now the infatuated man is not that era.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's all little things, you need to understand Doesn't she need to understand? Men should be able to "bend and stretch" and say more good things, and then they will be fine.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Admitting mistakes is to let the other person know what you think, not to think you can. Only by being open and honest can there be communication. Is it ignorant or ridiculous to create obstacles for yourself?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Friends, true love is hard to find, and it is really difficult to find a partner with a similar temperament and temperament. But we can't give up, we have to keep looking. Good luck.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    So what's it now? There is a solution to everything, it depends on whether you can find the key.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can only say that the personality is like this, listening to you say this, I can feel that your girlfriend is a little bit of a woman's personality, women need to say more good things, although sometimes it is okay, but I want you to say more and apologize in person. But I can understand your situation, girls are sometimes a little willful, you have your pressure, sometimes you feel very tired, think that many little things girls will make a lot of trouble, can't understand you. This needs you to communicate more, I and my family are also running in this way, mainly to see which of you has a better temper, easy to bow down, many small things don't have to be so tight, first reconcile, and then slowly talk about your thoughts, I believe she will understand.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your girlfriend is such a headstrong person, you know? So if you can bear it, you can continue to dating, and if you can't bear it, break up! The nature of the country is easy to change, and the character cannot be changed in a day or two!

    I advise you to think clearly! Ask me if there's anything you can't figure out! Because that's what my character is!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that little girls need to be coaxed, maybe you hope she can understand you, not noisy or noisy, but have you thought about it? Maybe she just wants to hear some sweet words, or coax her, and when she thinks you're angry, doesn't she soften and beg you for forgiveness? You're still young, aren't you?

    Don't break up because of a momentary mood, love needs two people to run in, you can calm down first, and then tell her the next day or now, what you think, I think if she loves you, she will understand... There are some things that girls don't understand, and they won't know until they say it... Don't let such a small misunderstanding make yourself tolerant...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You better stay, the real problem now is to raise money, how many people in this world can do not bow to reality, since such people are not worthy of love, then correct the mentality, you don't want this kind of flowery man, not that he abandons you, standing in front of him with his head held high, you can have a high profile.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it is I will choose to continue to do that job, the top priority is to solve the difficulties at home, but I can't break the connection with the man, work and feelings are separated, never forgive him, remember that infidelity is not tolerated a hundred times. Solve the urgent need and then seek another development. Sisters, come on!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    --Very simple.

    Go back to work and tell your boss.

    I'm back for work and your sister.

    Not because of him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think bai is too, do it in your original company first, du

    Wait until the problem at hand is solved. Make another plan in the DAO. Since there is such a good foundation, Quan is afraid that he will not be able to find a good job.

    With your previous customer chain, it's not hard to find another one. I wish your sister a soon**, I am very optimistic about you, you are a woman, and you can carry such a heavy burden at home alone! It's not easy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Is your sister's illness more important or is it important to be a flowery person? Now that you've decided to ignore him, it's none of your business what he wants to do. Just work hard and earn money. It's OK to cure my sister's illness.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Choosing to leave is actually the most rational behavior, it will take a long time for such a man to stabilize, and you will definitely not be able to bear this process. Rather than suffer, it is better to leave.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Keep doing it and address the urgency of the moment. Don't have a relationship with that man!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I understand how you feel, first find a job that can support yourself, and then seek development. Unless all you need is to learn the trade. In-depth knowledge can be done at any cost.

    Find a job that can support you first, the purpose of work is to live a good life, and never treat work as life, if you are sure that you are not suitable for yourself then make a decision early, because hesitation will make you more hesitant. In today's society, there is no basic salary and pure commission, unless your industry development is very good to ensure a good income, otherwise you can only expect you to have superb marketing methods. So don't hesitate to make a decision early.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I also want to be a car salesman.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Measure it yourself, and if you really don't see any hope, give up;

    Believe in yourself, you can find a job that suits you;

    What's more, you've been sticking money upside down;

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I may understand your feelings, and I understand your feelings now, I suggest that if you really can't do it, don't force it, I think your colleagues let you persevere, but what do you think you get after persevering, ability or money? If you don't get anything, do you think it's necessary to stay?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't know if you're married, but you don't seem to be married. As a son of man, he still has to have a certain amount of filial piety, and when two people are combined, they can't treat their parents favoritously. Suggestion, first of all, what you said and what I wrote, express it tactfully in your own words, if you can't listen to it, I'm sorry to say, this kind of man is too domineering, too careful, break up.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    My sister also has the same troubles as you, I think you can use the following methods: first, find a way to make your husband a little afraid of you, so that he does not dare to do what you want, if he is still like this, you can take an attitude of ignoring him, or buy yours, don't mention it to him, don't seem to have to call the shots of everything, usually do things decisively, don't look at his face. It saves him from having his tail cocked to the sky.

    Second, if it is convenient, after getting married, you should save some private money, and don't tell him about the current finances, so as to save him the idea of playing that money now.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It depends on whether you still love him, and if you love her, then you have to think more about his strengths. If you feel that he is always absent when you need him most, you feel unhappy. Then it's better to break up with him.

    Maybe he did this because he wanted to break up with you, and he didn't say it. He wants you to talk about the breakup, and he wants to go to his ex-girlfriend. So you have to think about it.

    I don't regret breaking up with him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I feel like he doesn't necessarily love you, or doesn't love you enough. Because he doesn't value you anymore. For oneself's sake, let's divide it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Be ruthless and divide him, he doesn't care about you or not, he has no sense of responsibility! What is the purpose of finding a partner? To put it simply, it is nothing more than that you can rely on each other, and you can have someone to accompany you when you are lonely" When your relatives in this world leave you, there is still a person you can accompany to old age!

    To hell with him!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You said it yourself. What else enlightens.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's time to go on, he doesn't care about you and doesn't pay enough attention to you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    1.Games are a common topic of conversation, but is there anything else you can talk about besides games? Your relationship is the main thing, how can the game occupy 70% of the topic?

    You can talk about some interesting things in your life, tell him some jokes between couples, and pay more attention to his life situation.

    2.The student is under pressure, his spirit is pinned on the game, there is a you in the game, he may think that at least one of you is his only one, but you play games with other girls, and forget about her existence! (This jealousy is very big, and you may think you are very distracted).

    3 He may have thought about following you for the rest of his life, but the game occupies your heart, he has no place in your heart, and he has no sense of existence. , promise you happiness? Are you playing the game for him? Have you ever given up your game for him?

    4.Love is slowly cultivated by staying together, she may decide to leave you, but she is reluctant, you have to come on! (I don't hope much, do you think you can afford to lose this feeling!) I tried to give him a safe and only harbor that he wanted).

    5.Self-feeling: feelings can't stand waiting (waiting is the biggest killer of feelings, I have experienced it myself, and the discarded love is no longer that taste when picked up) and girls always have a few days a bad mood every month, it is recommended to agree to be his friend, but like a boyfriend (the purpose is to cultivate feelings, boyfriends are upgraded from friends) Gu She is suitable to confess again when the time comes, (I feel that the hope is greater) If you confess like this or stalk again, there is no result.

    6.I still want to pick her up as before, but as a friend, (one point must be received, otherwise you won't have a play).

    Believe it or not, love doesn't stay, feelings can't stand waiting, friends are boyfriends.

    First worship, then love, love comes quite quickly! (The concept of love after the 90s).

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