My wife is at home with children, can I support my wife and children with a monthly salary of 3,000

I think so! After all, how to live life is a matter of the two of you, there is no way to live without money, there is a way to live with money, there is a way to live with money, spending 3,000 a month is life, and you can live with 300, but the quality of life is different!

Yes! It can only be frugal. It's still something that can be fed. It's better to be your wife. You have to have your own job.

After reading your description above, your salary is 3,000 yuan a month, can you support your wife and children?

I think that your wife is at home with children, your monthly salary is 3,000 yuan, and you use this 3,000 yuan to support your wife and children. If you can change to a higher-paying job, it will definitely be a blessing for your wife and children, and there is a saying that low wages are low.

If it is in an ordinary county town, there is naturally no problem. But if it's in town, 3,000 yuan a month is really not enough. Now it's just raising children, and there will be more places to spend money on children going to school in the future.

The child is small, there is no way, you can save money, but you can't save money, and when the child grows up, the two of them will earn money.

A salary of 3,000 yuan is really not enough. You can try to change jobs and find a job that pays better. If you really can't find it. Then earn less and spend less. Tight on some budgets.

If you are the only one who works, it is really difficult to support 3 people with 3,000 yuan. After all, in addition to daily expenses, you also need to save money for emergencies.

It depends on how your consumption is, if you are careful about your budget, if your wife is at home in the countryside, it should be no problem.

If you can't get a salary of 3,000 yuan a month. Unless you don't have to eat and wear yourself.

I feel that this mainly depends on the level of consumption back to the local area, if the consumption level is not very high, your wife and friends are late in the phone bill to save more, and I feel that it is still good to give 20,000 yuan a year for living expenses.

My wife doesn't go to work and I take care of my children at home, is it enough for me to give 20,000 yuan a year for living expenses? : Maybe not enough, it's nervous. Why?

20,000 yuan. On average, in December, one is in 1,600 dollars. The key is that there is also a child to spend, change diapers three times a day, every day.

3. Sidelink four times, three yuan each time. Spend 12 yuan, 360 yuan month,The annual expenditure is 4360 yuan. There are also personal toilet paper, sanitary napkins, etc., one yuan a day, 360 yuan a year.

Milk powder is 15 yuan a day, 900 yuan a month. The annual cost is 10,800 yuan:Infant clothes are new, three months tall and new, four sets of 400 yuan.

Emergency expenses for medical treatment, 500 yuan per year. 300 yuan for infant enlightenment education, toys and other expenses. 1200 yuan per year.

Personal living expenses: 150 yuan per day. The annual expenditure is 1800 yuanChildren's living expenses:

150 yuan a day,1800 yuan。Birthday gift: 300 yuan.

Total annual expenditure: 20,260 yuan. Not necessarily accurate.

But I personally think that life is more stressful, and I can't make a big deal of it.

This depends on the place, if it is in the countryside, it should be enough, if it is in the city, 20,000 yuan is a bit unrepentant, it is a lot, especially now that the society is scattered everywhere and most of them are using money.

It's definitely not enough, 20,000 a year and less than 2,000 a month, this level of respect for stupid ** daily expenses are not enough.

This is also based on how much money you make each year, and then you can measure how much!

My mother brought me a child, and she asked for a salary of 3,000, do you think the old man should pay the salary with the child?

Maybe it's because of busy work, or maybe it's other reasons, many young parents now "just give birth, don't care about raising", and push their children to their grandparents.

I don't earn much money myself, because I spend more time at home, my salary is less, my husband is still studying for a doctorate and has no income, and my younger brother doesn't go to work at home, I know that my parents give money to my younger brother, of course, the money is given to my mother, and I can't care who she spends money for.

From a legal point of view, who gives birth to who raises, raising and educating children is the obligation of parents, the elderly have no legal obligation to support their grandchildren, and helping to take care of the baby is actually fulfilling the obligation of support for the young couple, which belongs to the legal management without cause.

Therefore, the elderly have the right to ask the young couple to pay the necessary expenses for bringing the baby.

In real life, if you pay the elderly, you basically take the initiative to give it, and most of them ask grandparents to bring their babies to pay. Under normal circumstances, few elderly people take the initiative to ask for compensation, but some elderly people will ask for a baby fee when the young couple divorces.

My parents gave birth to me and raised me, and my mother gave me a child, and I am grateful and grateful. I will provide for my mother, I will take care of her, I will give my mother a red envelope when I have money, and I want to save money to buy a house for my parents to support the elderly.

I think "can't afford it", "it's not necessary", "it's all a family" such words are a bit redundant, the old man helps to take care of the child just out of affection, but not the duty, and we give the old man "money", does not mean that it is a salary, but a heart, is a recognition of the old man's pay, a kind of feedback.

And many times the red envelopes we give to our parents will go around and around in different ways back to our hands, we can't use money as a way to measure love, but we can't also use love as a reason to arbitrarily loot our parents, if we feel that talking about money at home is too foreign or economic conditions do not allow, we can also express a heart to the elderly in other ways.

That's definitely what you should pay, because I think the elderly should have a good rest when they get old, and not just take care of your children.

It must be paid, because the elderly also need to live, although it will affect family affection, but it is still necessary to consider the reality of the situation.

I think it should be, the elderly also need time and energy to take care of their children, not an obligation.

What city are you in? If you're in the countryside, that's absolutely fine, but if you're in the city, or in a second-tier city, you'll just have enough for yourself! If you are in a first-tier city, in addition to paying rent, water, electricity, food, and transportation, you probably have to borrow some from your family!! Serious.

If you treat each other sincerely, you can do it.

The wife must not be raised, and it may still be enough to give the child diaper milk powder in the big city, be realistic!

In fact, this problem also needs to be explained in many situations, if a man earns 4000 a month, sometimes he can support his wife and children, but sometimes it is really not good at all, so let's analyze it in detail.

First of all, if the pillar of the family is completely the existence of this man and wife as a housewife, I don't think this amount of money is enough to support family expenses. The most common household expenses are utilities and grocery shopping. The money spent on water, electricity and vegetables every day is a little less, even if it is a total of 20 yuan, then your basic monthly expenses are 600 yuan, and then the man will definitely not go home to eat at noon, eat outside, a meal is basically 20, a month is 600, then his salary is 2800 yuan.

Usually men need to take the bus to and from work, even if it is 10 yuan a day, it takes 300 a month, and then the mobile phone bill of two people and the usual purchase of some daily necessities are excepted, then at most 2000 is left.

If the child is relatively young, you also need the child's milk powder money, now the child's things are very expensive, buy clothes for the child, buy clothes for yourself, these money will definitely not be low. Then going out on the weekend to take the kids out will definitely cost money, after all, it is impossible for the children to stay at home all the time. If the child is already in school, the cost will be more, and the cost of enrolling the child in cram school will continue to come anyway.

These situations are based on the fact that you don't have to pay rent, in case you are renting a house or a mortgage house, there are still a lot of expenses every month, so if the wife is a housewife, it is not enough to take care of the children.

If the wife is also working, then the salary of the two people can continue to live normally. If a man has a monthly salary of 4,000, then the two of them together must have seven or eight thousand, such an income can live normally in the first-tier cities in the mainland, everything here is much cheaper than the first-tier cities in the coast, and the expenses are smaller, so it can be said that this income is just right. But if you talk about the first-tier cities in the coastal cities, this income is not enough, after all, the coastal prices are more expensive and the consumption is higher, especially the growth of children, and the cost here is much higher than that in the mainland.

The life of a family will definitely get better and better, and in my country, many parents will start saving money when their children are very young, so that they can get certain financial support for their children to grow up in the future. If there is only so much salary every month, basically there will be no surplus after paying off the mortgage and other expenses, which is very insecure in our country, and now the only thing that can bring people a sense of security is money.

Therefore, if the monthly salary is only 4,000, the family can have different living conditions in different places, but there is one thing in common, such an income does not bring them a sense of security, nor can it relax the nerve in their hearts.

The living expenses of 2,000 yuan a month are too little, your wife goes out to make money by herself, and she earns more than 2,000 yuan a month, but now you want to buy out his career with 2,000 yuan, and ask him to be a nanny at home, how can he agree? You must know that 2,000 yuan is not enough for living expenses, or the living expenses of the family, what do you want him to do?

2000 dollars is too little. Let's calculate an account, a child's milk powder and diapers for a month need at least 1,000 yuan, not counting the money to buy clothes and daily necessities for the child, then 2,000 yuan is only 1,000 yuan, and then deduct it, the child usually wants to buy toys to buy supplementary food, to buy clothes, and then deduct 500 yuan, only 500 yuan, 500 yuan, is it possible for you to let a woman live for a month? Even if a meal costs only 5 yuan, it will cost 15 yuan a day, and it will cost 450 yuan a month.

It's still very poor, and you can't use phone bills, electricity bills, etc., so you just want to give your wife 2,000 yuan to take care of the baby at home, how can he agree.

Let your wife give you 2,000 yuan, and you stay at home with the baby. I believe that if your wife goes out to work, she can earn at least 5,000 yuan a month, then he can also give you 2,000 yuan to let you take the baby at home, if you can accept it, then you will take the baby at home, you try, what is it like to spend 2,000 yuan a month as a nanny at home, try to see what tricks can be made of this 2,000 yuan to spend.

The children are common, and the wife cannot be sacrificed alone. Bringing a baby is never a matter of one person, but a matter of two people, you said that you want your wife to resign and take care of the baby at home, so what about your wife's career, her career, maybe he doesn't earn less than you, why should he sacrifice, not you sacrifice, your wife can earn five or six thousand yuan a month, why should you endure the living expenses of only 2,000 yuan a month, and take care of the baby at home, cook, and do housework to be your nanny?

So your idea is very undesirable, 2,000 yuan a month is not 20,000 yuan, if you can give your wife 20,000 yuan a month, it makes sense to let him quit his job and take care of the baby at home, but only 2,000 a month, are you calling Hanako?

Because my wife didn't want to be out of touch with society, and the living expenses given were too small, my wife didn't agree.

2000 yuan is really not much for the current family, it is very tiring to take care of children, if your wife resigns to take care of the children, your wife will also be very depressed you, and will be out of society, and you will dislike your wife for a long time, which is very bad for your wife.

This is because my wife is also a career-minded woman, and she also feels that she will be very happy if she has her own job, and she is not willing to be ordinary, and she also wants to have her own job and her own economic income.

Summary. So if you want him to stay at home with the kids, you can't deny him his job. It can't be said that he makes less money.

Hello, it's an honor to answer for you. No, in your eyes, it's just a simple 2,000 yuan, but for my wife, its life is a lot fuller, after going out to work, life has become fulfilling, there is something to do every day, not a person who has nothing to do. Two thousand dollars is not much, but it will make your wife spiritually rich.

So if you want him to stay at home with the kids, you can't deny him his job. It can't be said that he makes less money.

Consult with him. Tell him that there is always a need for someone to take care of the children, and I have wronged you. However, this is also for the overall development of the whole family, I hope you can understand, when the children are older, you can go to work at will, and you have been wronged during this time.

How beautiful your words are. He definitely didn't feel aggrieved anymore. If you deny him, hey, what are you doing with so little money? He must be angry, you haven't reached the bottom yet, and it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.