What do you say, I feel like I m nervous?

Two people want to form a family, and the run-in between the two parties is in all aspects, including the three views of the two, such as values, marriage, and outlook on life, as well as the run-in of the two families behind the two parties. People who grew up in two different families need a lot of effective communication. And your disagreement requires you to make a judgment, is the man's family unable to get the bride price or does not cherish you enough?

What kind of emotions do you have for him, is it worth your hard work, and if you figure it out, you will have your own judgment and decision!

First of all, your love can't stand the test, and it can be seen from some things that your boyfriend is not true love, and he is hot and cold to you, and I feel that you are really not suitable for marrying, because there are many contradictions before marriage, and it is conceivable after marriage, the man does not know how to be humble and does not know how to understand, so this marriage should be considered twice for you.

In this case, do what you can, no matter how much you say, it won't help, see how you can afford it! It is also necessary to see the attitude of the other party, whether it is sincere.

Why do you have to ask for a bride price, the 46,000 taels will be spent, what can you use to prove it? The bride price is either more than 100,000 yuan, or don't ask for it, it's like a sleeping girl. But now, you can't "drop the price" anymore, it is recommended that you delete your boyfriend if you can't block it and delete it, WeChat** is like this.

Then separate and be good for each other.

Such a boyfriend, and family, will not be happy if you marry in the past, your regression and sensibility have become a weight, and it can also be said that the other party has seized your weakness. Don't be entangled, cut through the mess quickly.

I think you should let it go, you are now so divided and united, there are so many contradictions before you get married, and I'm afraid your life will be even more difficult after you get married.

When you're tired, take a break and think about whether you should get married.

I thought in this case, you could. Find some. Outdoor hermits. Fight for their opinion if there is more. Oh, you can also consult. That's what senior professionals do to you. There are some good ones in the record. Prompt.

Modern life is very stressful, and there will be many problems in social and personal family life.

Every day, every moment is testing the mental endurance and psychological adaptability of each of us.

But the most important thing is our own self-'psychological regulation' ability, because it is very likely that the problems we encounter will destroy our psychological defenses in a moment. It is often seen on the news that because of some trivial matter, that person 'jumps'.

This situation can be considered a sign of psychological vulnerability, but it is the final 'outbreak' caused by the accumulation of many problems for a long time.

The problem you are talking about, whether it is someone else who says that you often have 'nerves' or you yourself notice that you often 'have nerves', it is worth affirming that you already know that you have such a manifestation as 'nerves', which is normal.

Each of us, at some stage, will 'send some nerves' to do some inexplicable behavior, as long as it is a behavior that you understand psychologically and can control, then it is not a problem.

Some people also have nerves, but they don't know it themselves, they don't adjust to the reactions of those around them, and they don't think they're ...... nerves

That's really sick

I hope to be specific. I don't know what you mean by nerves, nerves.

Don't label yourself like that, or it won't be fair to you. I'm a psychology major, so I can responsibly say you're not! Because you just don't know how to get along with your "brother-centered" family, but you can happily get along with your classmates outside, it means that it is not because of your personality, but more about the family atmosphere, or the lack of communication with your family.

I can understand your situation very well, if Fang Fanguo's family is biased towards his brother in all matters and small things, then he will definitely not be able to get along well in this environment, unless this person himself has complete dedication. However, there are some examples that you can try if possible:

Method 1: Maintain the status quo first, don't talk to them, but make it clear what kind of person they have in mind who is excellent, and then silently set a goal for yourself and complete it seriously. (In fact, her family will slowly feel that her daughter has become obedient after finding out that she is working so hard.)

But the most important thing is the result, and the result is that her daughter has become very good. ）

Method 2: Use text communication (a method I used before) to prepare hailstones. There are many words that I have repeated countless times in my heart, but I really can't open my mouth in front of my loved ones, so I might as well write them down, not to communicate directly face-to-face, but also to express my thoughts clearly.

If possible, leave a pen next to the letter and wordlessly tell the person you wrote to that can reply to you in a written way.

Method 3: On the other hand, in fact, there is an elder brother who is very happy, if you get along well, he can take care of you and give you a sense of security, don't care about the gains and losses between too many relatives, so I hope you can cherish the feelings of your relatives and take the initiative to take a suitable step.

It's very simple, you recite the mantra (very short) 27 times to resolve the grievances between you and your mother, and you recite it 27 times to resolve the grievances between you and your brother. Read it once a day for a month and you'll know the effect. If you recite the Great Compassion Mantra 13 times before reciting the knot mantra, you will see that the effect of the prayer stool is faster!

Before reciting, I must say, I pray for Liang Bird Brigade to ask Nan Wu Great Compassion and Great Compassion Guanyin Bodhisattva to help resolve the grievances between me and so! Can! This is.

If you have cognitive ability, it means that you have no problems, study more, accumulate more social experience, and you will become more and more mature.

There are many reasons for talking in sleep, and it may be caused by excessive stress and mental tension.

Therefore, people who often talk in their dreams must strengthen exercise, and at the same time, they must pay more attention to rest and adjust the pressure brought by work and life. It may be a manifestation of neurasthenia, just adjust the rhythm of life to eliminate yourself, relieve stress, regulate nutrition, and increase some exercise appropriately, and the problem will gradually get better.

Frequent sleep talk is most likely caused by excessive heart fire, liver fire and mental stress.

I don't know whether talking in dreams is a pathology, but according to clinical experience, most people who often talk in dreams are overheated in their hearts, overheated livers and nervous. The physical condition of the manifestation is bad breath, dry throat and tongue, and the condition will improve after clearing the heat.