I don t like my boyfriend, what should I do for him to let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then ignore him indifferently. The best way for a person is to ignore him, and when he is discouraged, he will naturally let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really don't like the boyfriend, you should clearly tell him that the differences and problems between the two are best to break up, so as not to cause trouble and hurt that you don't have to play because of your feelings in the future.

    If he still insists, he is puzzled, it still depends on your final choice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't like it, you can tell him, don't end up losing both, if he doesn't let go, you can slowly alienate him, if he's a stalker. Extreme, you really have to be careful. And finally hurt yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you can talk to him in person, you can tell him directly, we are not suitable, let's break up!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't like your boyfriend, you should break up with him.

    And also make it clear to him that you don't like him, don't give him any chance, let him find someone he loves more and someone who can give him happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't like it, you have to say it directly, and the two of you can make it clear.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Open. Direct instructions. It can also be said tactfully. But be sure to break up. Leave no room for error.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you should make it clear to him, let him understand your current attitude towards emotions, and be patient to persuade him, or he can also ask other friends to help enlighten him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't like it, you can just let it go, so just talk to the other person about it, and don't try to use any method, because such a method may cause more harm to the other party.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What I wonder is, they don't like each other, how did the other party become your boyfriend, is this kind of thing still forced, or did you like each other at the beginning, and now you don't like each other again.

    If the other party's three views are okay and you don't want to talk about it, say it early, say it directly, so that everyone is good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do more things that the other person doesn't like. Maybe the other party will take the initiative to break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then let him give you gifts every day, give them to your family, pick the expensive ones to buy, and he will definitely run away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Slowly distance yourself, or politely decline him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't like him, just say something like this to him, and solving the problem is the solution.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you don't like why you're together, the problem is still yours, and you'll be truthful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's better to explain it sooner if you don't like it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, I think you should let go, and if you continue to entangle, you will only hurt each other, this is not for you, I believe you will definitely meet a man who loves you, and you must not compromise!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I don't think you're a good fit. Although it is more shocking to say this, I will say it for your happiness. First of all, the difference in your academic qualifications will lead to fewer and fewer topics in common in the future.

    Secondly, long-distance relationships are not long-term. Third, he is still only a student and has little contact with society. Many things only look at the surface, and when you really get in touch with society, it is not certain whether it will be so good to you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as you are not married. All have the right to choose. It's better to let go as soon as possible, since your boyfriend doesn't love you.

    It's even more troublesome after getting married. Inevitably, there will be little three and four. Don't take advantage of the fact that there is still a chance.

    Willing to let go. Three-legged ones are hard to find. Something that has both legs.

    Or find someone who loves you and asks you to love. In this way, the happiness index will be high.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The long pain is better than the short pain, what is the woman looking for a man to affirm, good to you or rich, if you don't have one of the two, then let it go as soon as possible, even if you are reluctantly married, you can guarantee that he is wholeheartedly devoted to you, maybe he just uses you as a spare tire.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can try to talk to him again, for example, in the future, if it is a different place, go to work in the other city, usually take proper care of him, and often go to his current location to play and deepen the relationship.

    It's okay, learn to cook, cook for him with your own hands.

    If he still doesn't love you like this, then you can only think about whether you and him have a future, and whether his family will like you or something.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it's okay, you can love him. He also said that he cares about you, that's it, and he also said that it's okay to marry you, so you can marry him and don't let go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If he really thinks so, he just doesn't love you, you better let go as soon as possible! There will be someone who holds you in the palm of his hand.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    From your words, I know that you love your boyfriend very much, but he has not really entered social life, and it is normal that his love for him has not reached a high level, he is relatively simple, and it will be more difficult for you to communicate in the future, and he will understand that he will not love at that time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What does it mean to like you, but not love you, I believe you are a ghost, you are a bad old man, very bad!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First you have to be independent. Then don't be off-site. In the end, if there is no problem with getting along, we will continue, and if there is a problem, we will break up. Online dating is indistinguishable.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's a bit contradictory, I don't love you if I like you, I just don't love you, break up while you're young, don't delay your youth.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since it's not suitable, why be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let it go, leave yourself a little dignity, and also leave the last bit of good memories in his psyche.

    In fact, it makes no sense whether you let go or drag, you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, whether you are engaged or not married, there is no guarantee for your relationship, what can you do if you drag? He can still pursue new romances, fall in love with others and even get married. You're dragging it, who are you dragging in the end?

    Actually, it's yourself.

    And he doesn't like you, it's not worth wasting your beautiful youth for someone who doesn't like you, it's better to find someone you like and like yourself to talk about a happy love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think break up, you have to know that real feelings don't need to be chased at all. The tacit understanding between the two people is slowly shortening the distance between the two hearts, and they are gradually getting closer to each other unconsciously. From good friends to lovers, it doesn't take long for real feelings to come.

    A true lover from the moment you like him, maybe he also likes you at that moment. Love in the same rhythm can often play the most harmonious and beautiful movements.

    What does true love entail? The need for two people to be together is relaxed and joyful, without stress. Is loving someone unreserved? No.

    Each person is an independent person, we belong first of all, we have thoughts, we have personalities, and we don't give everything we have to each other. We can have reservations, such as privacy that you don't want to say, and people with secrets are mature, aren't they?

    Like someone, too eager, but not good. Because the more you want to get it, the more you can't get it, but it's hard to cherish it if you get it, and it comes and goes quickly. In fact, if the water flows longer, the love will last longer.

    It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with. The most important thing in getting along is tolerance and compromise, on the basis of trust and understanding.

    No two people can get along without tolerance and compromise.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Many people may also feel that together, bit by bit, the long years are quiet, all because of the time they have been together, and now one party is not in love, but they can't just say goodbye, go their separate ways, because two people together, once not only loved each other, the soul cherished, but also the physical and mental investment, the body and the heart also fused together.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since he doesn't like you, let it go decisively, he doesn't like you, it will be very tiring to drag it like this, be kind to yourself, and there will be better people in the future.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Let it go. People don't like you anymore, what are you still dragging?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, if you let it go, you will not be able to bear fruit if you barely stick to it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Let go, people don't like why you have to drag, let go is better for both people.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Break up, don't like you, what do you still rely on, we also have to be dignified.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Let it go, I don't like you anymore, so why force it to be together.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let go. The twisted melon is not sweet, and letting go in time is a sign of respect for each other.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's too painful to break up decisively and be with someone who doesn't like you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Letting go decisively, dragging it will not end well for you, and you will be even sadder. It's not worth doing it for him.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hurry up and divide it, don't grieve yourself, what kind of love do you have if you are unhappy.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    In fact, there are many such couples in life, even if they don't love each other, but they still get along all the time, so what do these people think, which can be summarized in these points.

    1.I'm used to it, and I'm not willing to give it. My boyfriend and I were, when we started getting along, I liked him very much, but after a long time, I saw some of his shortcomings and bad sides, and I didn't like him very much, but I was really reluctant to let me break up.

    Because we all have a habit, sometimes it's terrible to like, he already likes to have you, is used to you being with him all the time, if he separates from you, he will be afraid of losing you and regret it, so even if he doesn't love you anymore, he is not happy to break up.

    2.Don't want to lose your kindness to him. Boys and girls, like the feeling of being loved, when you are sick, you go back to accompany him, the weather is cold, you will buy clothes for him, etc., if you are good to him, he is naturally reluctant to give up on you, there are many people who don't like each other, just like each other's good to themselves.

    So your boyfriend may be greedy for your kindness to him and is reluctant to let go.

    3.He was afraid of loneliness. You fall in love with him by his side, eat with him every day, chat with him at night, say good night to him, hang out together on Sundays, so that he is not very lonely. If I break up with you, wouldn't it be boring to be single.

    4.Anyway, the pit is empty, let you occupy it first, and you won't suffer. This kind of person is a bit scum, but some people really think so, he thinks that he has no goal now anyway, and he doesn't suffer a loss for boys, and he can continue to take advantage of you.

    When you have a goal, it's not too late to dump you, and your boyfriend probably thinks the same way.

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