What if your boyfriend is obsessed with Buddhism?

If your boyfriend is obsessed with Buddhism, first of all, you can try to understand his belief in Buddhism and his way of practice. You can join him in Buddhist rituals, chanting, meditation and other activities, as well as learning about the basic teachings and values of Buddhism. This will not only help you better understand his beliefs, but it will also deepen your mutual understanding and communication.

If you know something about Buddhism, you can ** the teachings and ways of practicing Buddhism with him and share your views and experiences. If you don't have an in-depth understanding of Buddhism, you can also ask him some questions about Buddhism and listen to his explanations and guidance.

If you feel uncomfortable or upset about the beliefs and practices of Buddhism, you can communicate openly with your boyfriend and express your concerns and concerns. You can tell him about your feelings and thoughts and seek ways to solve them together.

Most importantly, respect your boyfriend's beliefs and free choice. Buddhism emphasizes respecting everyone's beliefs and choices, and you should also respect his choices and not try to force him to renounce his faith or change his faith. Instead, you can try to understand his beliefs, support his freedom of faith, and work with him to explore and understand each other's different beliefs and cultural backgrounds.

As someone else's boyfriend who is studying Buddhism, my biggest feeling is that don't bother me and let me do what I like, I don't have much interest in falling in love, and my girlfriend's constant entanglement will only make me feel guilty, and it won't change my motivation to explore. You have to know that if he really bent on seeking the Fa, no matter how much you stop it, it's best to let him go, it's best to be able to support him, don't bother frequently if you can't do it, and if you can't stand it, you can consider breaking up, because if he reluctantly gives up his exploration because of you, you will both be miserable together.

It's not a bad thing to believe in Buddhism, but if you are too obsessed, you will be greatly affected in your life and you will not be able to live a normal life, so you should use some real-life things to guide him and change his thinking.

I read the answers of all of you above, and it is obvious that most of the respondents are people who believe in Buddhism, and there are even people who advise you to choose between the Dharma and your boyfriend, I really don't understand, so you are still qualified to educate others, and the Buddha is not so arrogant and arrogant to make any trade-offs and decisions for others. Every religion is a faith, and so is Buddhism. I may feel that you are now in the process of understanding Buddhism, or that your relationship with the Dharma has matured and you have come to know it, and your object may not be in the same state as you are now.

Buddhism also pays attention to following fate rather than climbing. First of all, you have to realize that the fundamental reason and purpose of your belief in Buddhism is really as Buddhism says, whether there is any other cause for having compassion and rejecting the worldly cycle of birth and death, or if there are other causes. If you think about it carefully, on the issue of your object's attitude towards your belief in Buddhism, you should think about the highest state of Buddhism, harmony without obstacles, selflessness, and obedience to sentient beings, and your belief in Buddhism is not to bring troubles to others, but to empathize with the sorrows and troubles of others, even if at this time, he does not understand you, or you think that it is an obstacle to your practice, but the foundation of the Buddha's Buddhahood is also the two-legged deity of blessing and wisdom who has practiced the right path in the world of sampa.

Think about it. Don't be in a hurry to listen to other people's gossip, think about what you want, think about the meaning of life, think about the root of the Dharma! As for some religious fanatics in the back, don't give people ideas to abandon their boyfriends and choose the Dharma, you are the ones who have set up a negative teaching material for the Dharma, as if the Dharma is the same as all the emotions of the world, either/or, and are about to catch up with the members of the Islamic Jihad.

It looks like a loyal apologetic, but in fact, it is a demon son and a demon grandson, commonly known as a high-level black !!

1.Faith is everyone's freedom.

2.Taking refuge is just a person who confirms that he believes in Buddhism and is a Buddhist, but he is still far from becoming a monk. If you are worried that he will convert to Buddhism and become a monk in the future, then you are worrying a little too much.

There is an answer that people who have taken refuge in Buddhism get married, eat, drink, and have fun and scroll through Weibo, which is reflected in the fact that under years of atheistic education, many people no longer understand Buddhism. Taking refuge in Buddhism is not the same as "escaping into the empty door" as the traditional concept is, and to use an inappropriate analogy, taking refuge is equivalent to the opening ceremony of primary school. After the conversion, he was still him, still an ordinary person, who continued to work, earn money, provide for his family, and have children, without any obvious difference.

The only difference is that he has his own beliefs and that's it.

3.Since you are against it, what is the reason for it? Afraid of him becoming a monk? I explained above. Don't like Buddhism? Then you have to communicate with your boyfriend in depth, you haven't fully understood his beliefs and thoughts, and it's not too late to make a judgment when you understand it deeply.

4.If you have a different faith from a person, either you understand his faith and respect his choice, then continue to be with him. Either you choose to continue to oppose and break up. I don't see a third option yet.

1. Explanation. It is very good to have faith, and first of all, it is necessary to make an effective distinction between faith and superstition. Second, see if there is a conflict between your own beliefs and the beliefs of the other party, and finally, be careful not to impose your beliefs on others.

2. Communicate more. It shows that there is still a lack of communication between the two, and if you have time to exchange ideas, you can better understand each other.

3. Be respectful. Even if it is a boyfriend and a girlfriend, you must know how to respect each other, people have feelings, and don't blindly think that you can possess it if you have it, which is not correct.

4. Give a little more personal space. Everyone has their own space, and it is undoubtedly a bad practice to blindly compress the space of others with little or even no space.

If you really love, why give up this relationship for the existence of this faith, in fact, the central problem lies in the relationship between you, one: you may not have enough grasp of him, this grasp refers to some bad habits when you usually contact him, you are not very sure that he can completely correct it, if not, then you will regret it in the future. Two:

It's really because of your parents' opposition, and because of the former, plus your parents' opposition, you start to sway from side to side. But the only thing that is certain is. You still love him.

There is no regret medicine in this life, once you give up, you can never turn back, and you will compare the relationship again, unless your future boyfriend treats you a lot better, and the good is beyond the realm. So you must think about it well, and you can't be swayed by others, whether you love it or not.

Amitabha!

1. The problem is not in others, but in yourself.

2. You root. If you don't understand the Dharma, how can you let others see the benefits of believing in Buddhism from your version?

3. Your belief in Buddhism is simply for recreation and play. The phrase "Actually, not the kind of believer who is very obsessed" includes your understanding of the Buddha.

4. The most important thing for people is self-esteem, and it doesn't matter whether others respect us or not. His heart is not strong enough, begging for the respect of others, but it shows his inferiority complex even more.

There is no good way to communicate more, so that he knows that learning Buddhism is not superstition, and you just want to be a perfect person like the Buddha. This faith of yours will do you no harm in the rest of your life. He will understand you slowly, as long as he doesn't object to you.

It is normal for everyone to be free to believe.

It's normal for everyone to think differently, cherish fate.

If he is interested, you can take a look at "Buddhism of Righteous Faith", "Anshi Quanshu", "Baofu Law", "Kangshou Baojian Vernacular", learning Buddhism is a plain life, breaking evil and cultivating good, family harmony, happy marriage, people who study Buddhism are soft in body and mind, understand cause and effect, have a sense of responsibility, and be filial to their elders, you do it in life, let him see with his own eyes, even if the ice will melt.

There are many unsatisfactory things in the world, and we can't see through many causes, so don't be discouraged, you won't do it in front of him if he opposes it, and move forward in twists and turns!

If your boyfriend opposes you believing in Buddhism, it proves that there is no Buddha, and if there is a Buddha, the Buddha will not let you meet someone who does not believe in Buddhism.

Your boyfriend looks like a person with little culture. Respect for each other's beliefs is the minimum quality issue, this is true between friends, let alone husband and wife? This is a matter of ideological consciousness and quality!

How many Buddhas have you seen? What does the Buddha bring to you? N people are born every second in China. Even if there is a Buddha, he knows how old you are? Your letter indicates that there is a problem with IQ. If you can't see the problem, it means that there is a problem with intelligence.

After strengthening the meditation on the Dharma and establishing a correct view, I will explain the truth to him. Or we can improve our minds according to the requirements of the Dharma, and then tell him about such changes, so that he can understand why we should believe in Buddhism and study Buddhism.

Or, ask him why he objected. When we study Buddhism, we learn to "refrain from all evil, and practice all good", and to be an upright person who is compassionate, kind to others, self-interest and altruism, which will only be good for society and family, so what's wrong?

Convince him that faith is spiritual sustenance!

Amitabha, now it's just a boyfriend, and he restricts you so much before he gets married, if he really gets married, I'm afraid you're just an object in his hands.

Respect is mutual, it's good that he doesn't understand Buddhism, you have to convince him. If you can't convince you, just accept it. If he really can't tolerate it, he can only say that you are not wise enough in your regard. You'll be responsible for the consequences.

Life still needs some wisdom to point to my name, and there is a link to the Sanhui Zen room on the point space, and there is one. Amitabha!

Yes, respecting the beliefs of the other person is right for the individual, and if not, it does not reflect upbringing.