Those who study Buddhism must see how to deal with marriage

Faith is not faith in the mouth. It is true belief to cultivate the ten virtues and correct the concept of wrong behavior according to this. Why are people's marriages bad.

All the people who engage in activities are not good, and they belong to their own "doing". Marriage is a matter of two people, unless two people have common hobbies and talk together, otherwise normal people will instinctively resist.

Nonsense! Wouldn't it be better not to learn your life? Does it make sense to generalize like this?

Learning is to receive the education of wisdom, and under the guidance of wisdom, the family should be more and more. If a person learns and brings greater mental pressure to his family, then we have to think about whether our own way is wrong, which leads to the family situation.

We often see that some senior brothers around us are often very persistent in burning incense in their own homes, and other issues. If the family is not, we should also take into account their feelings. Try to minimize the sense of ritual, the family is not our own, and there is no need for the family to follow us.

There are also some senior brothers who do not keep their family duties and do not take on their family responsibilities, but quit their jobs and live every day, participating in things, running hills, like star chasers. Why are people who study easy to get divorced.

It's fine if the financial pressure on your own family is not great, but after a long time, the family will gradually complain. The thirteen ancestors advocated that "scholars should do their best", that is, scholars should handle the relationship between the five worlds.

Scholars at home should actively take on family responsibilities, which is the attitude and behavior that a scholar should have. If we don't get along well with family members after school, it must be our own problem, not the problem of others. Whoever believes is not in a good marriage.

We have fulfilled our family responsibilities, which are the resources we have accumulated. Therefore, scholars at home should be able to learn the Tao in the dust, do their best, and follow their efforts to the dojo. Why people are not good in marriage.

It will be more difficult after school, mostly for these reasons:

After 5 years of schooling, my face has completely changed.

We all know that learning can be eliminated, but there is one that is difficult to eliminate, that is, the karma, of course, here is to explain, the karma is not that it cannot be eliminated, it is relatively difficult to eliminate, don't misunderstand. Although it is difficult to change careers, after studying seriously, the sins suffered will generally be reduced.

Second: Grinding.

The quality of a person's heart is not to see how good he is in good times, but to see what kind of ethics he has in adversity. In other words, if it is so easy to achieve, then there are no ordinary people in the world, so when you encounter tribulations, you should continue to have a normal heart, a pure heart, and even a joyful heart, and the greater the tribulation, the greater the achievement. There are many women who believe in divorce.

Third: the process of elimination.

Bad luck is an increase in the upper edge", blessings and misfortunes are a consumable, and happiness will be reduced, so what about sin, it will be relatively reduced, like a scale, one will eliminate the other. For example, the three major aspects of learning: wealth, law, and fearlessness correspond to personal wealth, wisdom, and health and longevity.

Because they have Buddha in their hearts, there is no place to pretend to be married, and there are still some places in Buddhism that are contrary to the reality of marriage, and there are also misunderstandings or applications of Buddhism by people who study Buddhism.

Not necessarily! I've seen very good families of Buddhist students! There are several categories of unhappiness:

1. The mind is not on the family, and sometimes the family is a drag on oneself;

2. Do not work steadfastly, earn money seriously, so that the family has no material worries, and the family life is happy;

3. Disrespecting family members' hobbies and demanding too much from family members;

4. If the practice is not steady, it cannot be implemented in the usual thoughts and actions, and if it is not actively accumulated merits and merits, it will change for the better, and of course the fate will get worse and worse.

Because I'm not happy, I studied Buddhism.

Is there any basis for your conclusion?

If they have come together, according to the words of Buddhism, they must have cultivated a lot of blessings and accumulated a lot of yin virtues in their previous lives. If you can't be sure of the unknown, you will generally use: there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, and there is no chance to meet on the other side.

We are all people of the new era, and we have the right to pursue what we like.

The twisted melon is not sweet, why don't you ask the Buddha family directly?