Why is it so hard to let go of someone who doesn t love you

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because you love each other deeply, even though you really know that the other person does not love you ... There is sadness, there is grief and anger, and more often than not, they are incompetent... Can't win each other's hearts.,PS recently read a book talking about the cost.,For example, two people who love each other often ask for food.,One is to laugh.,(Don't shirk and ask yourself back),Of course, there will be people who often treat people who feel that it's not cost-effective,,, and put these into the cost of love (it's the same situation when you send things) As a result, the more you send, the other party may not really like these things, but these comparisons are the cost of their own time and money,,, the situation after the two parties break up is a feeling that it doesn't matter,, Anyway, I've eaten it.,I don't feel a loss after using it,,, but people who often treat people are unbalanced.。。。

    This is the cost beyond the heart to bear, and then desperately entangled in the intention to get back some of the cost,,, to the end... Killed the other party by mistake for a while, this is the reason.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Human emotions are complex and difficult to define, although you don't love your own person. Although you let go of a person who doesn't love you, after all, you have gotten along, especially the first time you get along, and he will leave an unforgettable one. Impression, but since you don't love anymore, you have to change your mentality, change your way of thinking, and make yourself happy again.

    Don't think about it, he lets time dilute everything.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is more difficult to let go of a person who does not love yourself, because you love more deeply, so it will be like this, so in fact, you can slowly forget it after a long time, and love someone is like this, so love should be happy with each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because your heart was all about him before, and now let you let go, you can't break so many habits. Time will change everything, take your time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't let go because you have given love to this person, but you haven't figured it out, since the other party doesn't love you, you can wish him happiness, and having love for a person doesn't necessarily have to be the other person's person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It shows that although he doesn't love you, in fact, you still have him very much in your heart, and you still love him, so it's difficult.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you think that he doesn't love you anymore, that he is already in love with someone else, and there is no place for you in his heart, I think it won't be difficult.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because you love him, you love him deeply, so you can't let him go easily.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This friend, there is no right or wrong in the world of feelings, if you want to let go of a person, it is not that you can let go of it, only by slowly changing from the heart, transferring in memory, and forgetting at work, can you really let go of a person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello is mainly because you like each other, and at the same time care too much about each other, you will find it difficult.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because you love him, you can't let go of him only when you love him, don't you?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since he doesn't love you, I think it's actually very simple, I think I can not think about him, so I can give up. People who don't love you are easy to forget.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's just that it's not long enough, and after a long time, everything is gone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why can't you let go of a person who doesn't love yourself, it means that you like him very much, so you can't let go, even if you know that there is no hope, you are still willing to try, you always have a fluke mentality, so you can't let go of him. That's why you can't let him go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because he is really attractive, there is an independent emotion in the world, and he once stayed with you in the thick of fate, and then it became your impression time, which is always closer to you than the person you like, which is also a result of more charm.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you can't let go of someone who doesn't love you, it means that you love her very much, but if he doesn't love you, there will be no result for this relationship, because a person who doesn't love you will not give you happiness and joy, and after a breakup, find someone who really likes you and the person you love will be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because there is no way to easily separate everyone and the person they have been in love with, if you meet this person who doesn't love you anymore, you may choose to give up, but the process is very painful. Because you don't think about how good he is to you all the time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't love you but your preference is given to the other party, what you can't let go of is not the feeling of not being loved, but the person you love and can't ask for, what you can't get is the best, the more you can't get it, the more you want it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It may be that you feel that the other party does not love you, and you are a little unwilling in your heart, so it is difficult to let go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you say that there will be such a situation in your life, then it may mean that you still care about this person, although it is not love, but you still have feelings for it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because you love him, but he doesn't love you, it is recommended that you should still find someone who loves you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To love oneself or to fall in love with another person is still dead.

    I have a way to speed up my heart, as for falling in love with others quickly and loving yourself, it's up to you, do you need it?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello dear <>

    I'm glad to answer for you: the best way to do this is to be busy and fulfilling. When you want to forget someone, don't give your brain time to remember how beautiful you once were.

    Keep yourself busy, find something to do for yourself, learn something you can't do, like learning a dish, learning a musical instrument, learning a dance. In short, don't let yourself be idle, because when you're idle, you can't help but think of him, and then you don't want to do anything, and you feel that nothing is interesting. Doing things can distract you.

    When you keep your life busy and fill yourself, you will find that there are many other things in life besides love. So, if you want to forget about a person, but it's hard to do it, you have to allow yourself to live a full life, and only by allowing yourself to live a full life will you find that life is actually beautiful. Hope it helps you <>

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How can someone you love forget, maybe you can't forget it in this life, but you have to remember that he hurt you.

    What is the origin of the fact that you are not allowed to be together?

    Don't just think you remember him and just want to say that you still love him, although it is possible that you really still love him.

    But you have to understand that if you can't be together, blessing each other is also a kind of happiness, don't take the relationship too seriously.

    Do your own thing.

    Live your life.

    Nothing, when he was just familiar with strangers about it.

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