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In fact, there are many reasons why you don't believe in love, and it doesn't have to be your emotional disorder. It is possible that you yourself have no emotional experience, but you have seen and heard a lot of other people's love experiences, and hearing too much or seeing too much negative news will also bring you a disguised impact.
Now there are a lot of so-called love together around us, and there are many seemingly sincere feelings in the TV entertainment industry, but in the end, we find that the truth is so embarrassing, a feeling that I have been deceived, it seems that I have never found that it is like this, so I will feel that everyone is like this, love is not strong, it is all changeable, so I no longer believe in love, this is actually reasonable, not that you say that you have emotional disorders.
Of course, the above is not the only reason to make yourself disbelieve in love. It is also possible that it was influenced by the family.
This can only be regarded as a psychological problem.
In psychology, affective disorders are divided into: depressive episodes and manic episodes, which are mainly manifested as emotional instability, irritability, or elevated mood, and rushing thinking. It is a mood disorder, and people with emotional disorders are generally more energetic, speechless, elated and contagious all day long.
I guess you have heard or there are many people around you who are suffering in every way because of falling in love and love, and they want to die or live. Or because of the betrayal of the other party, immersed in deep pain and unable to extricate themselves. Of course, these are all problems that often arise in love and relationships, but many of these are individual cases and cannot be used as the mainstream to express objective laws.
In relationships, there are indeed many situations that are not so happy and not so smooth sailing, and many of them are full of twists and turns. However, there are also many people who have experienced a lot of ups and downs but still choose to be together, and they have been living happily together. So what you often see is not necessarily the reality of things.
I still need to believe in love.
There is a theory in philosophy that practice is the only criterion for testing truth. If you really want to experience love and feel the ups and downs of falling in love, you need to experience a love by yourself, really feel the laughter and tears in love, and taste happiness and joy. In this way, we can gradually understand love and finally grasp the true meaning of love.
On the other hand, this kind of psychological problem may also be that you are used to the current single life, and because of the fast pace of life, you are busy with your work all day long, so you have little time to think about this aspect of the problem, but this aspect should also be seen dialectically, because there must always be such a person in people's lives to make up for their own shortcomings, support each other with themselves, live together in this world, and warm each other.
Therefore, we always have to face such times, and we will not be alone forever. I still hope that you can let go of your guard and try to understand.
Of course, the above is just my personal analysis, which specific reason it belongs to, or it should be determined in combination with your own actual situation, and do not directly conclude that it is an emotional disorder.
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