What would you do first if you found out that your roommate was running on you?

If you find that your roommate is running on you, then you should first explain the relationship with your roommate and try to handle the relationship with your roommate.

There is also the need to have as little contact and talk as little as possible to your roommates. Try to avoid frictional events that shouldn't happen.

If, on the basis of what you talk about or cherish a small amount of contact or explanation of the situation, there is a run on you or a run on you, and then you need to fight back and refute it.

In other words, such a roommate must carry out a certain blow, so that he can be honest and dare not bully anyone.

Roommates always run you out, first of all, you have to think about what problems you have, whether it is your own fault, if it is really your own fault, admit your mistakes, and correct them in time. Secondly, if you can't find the reason, you can ask your roommate directly, if it is deliberately squeezing you, then you can also show your attitude and move out in time.

Actually, I've seen a lot of things like you, roommates and other things like if you don't eat together and play the same thing, whether it's a game or something else. It's easy to get into trouble if you don't have a common topic, especially if you don't have a particularly good temper and can't play with them. So this is also something that will inevitably happen, and there will be friction due to differences in lifestyle habits.

Now you don't have such a good relationship with people in a dormitory, and if you are afraid of conflict in the future, there are only 2 ways. One is to make some new friends, whether it is a fellow countryman or other classmates, which can make you less weak; The second is not to fight with them, at least if you are not sure. If all the people in the dorm are against you, try to avoid conflicts, if they are constantly pushing an inch.

Then you can only seek help from the teacher in this regard, and now college students can't solve the problem by simply fighting. If it's not bad enough that there's only one person in the dorm who doesn't want to see you, then you'll have to repair your relationship with the others, whether it's a dinner or something. Reach out and don't hit the smiling person, if people don't have a particularly big conflict with you, they will generally not embarrass you anymore, after all, you have to live for a few years.

Of course, it's best not to let another person know, but then he said that he didn't dare to be too arrogant if you didn't have anyone to help. Although these methods are a bit against your heart, society is like this, and only by winning over a group can you crowd out a group. I hope what I said can help you, and ask me if you have any questions.

The first thing should be quickly found in the root of the **? Did you offend him somewhere, did you misunderstand something? Or did you inadvertently hurt the other person?

If so, eliminate embarrassment and resolve contradictions in ...... timeIf there is really none, it is just the other party who provokes trouble, then there is no scruple and argument for it! As long as it's not too much, it doesn't hurt even if you fight for a red face! It's just an argument......It's just a debate to defend your personality!

If I find out that I am being run by my roommate, the first thing I will do is to think about whether I have done something bad, so that I will be targeted by my roommate.

If it's my fault, I'll fix it! If it weren't for my fault, I would have chosen to stay away from such roommates!

If I find out that there is a run on me, I will definitely talk to my roommates first to see if I have done anything wrong, if it can be mediated, then I can change it, if it is an irreconcilable conflict, I may change the dormitory.

First of all, you have to understand clearly, why did your roommate run on you? The reason is important, and it directly determines how long you can stay in your next unit. If you are run by the leader, either the leader is narrow-minded, or you can only do things and not be a person (since it is a run, it means that you have posed a certain threat to him, and it means that your work ability should still be very strong).

If you are too bad at being a person, then you have to reflect and correct it.

Don't think that it's enough to only do things, don't think that you can't be a person and appear to be simple and honest, and don't think that if you are capable, the leader will be jealous of you. Many times, it's not the leader who hurts the leader, but the whole team. The whole team may be depressed, complaining, poor collaboration, low efficiency, and spreading bad emotions because of your "can't be a person".

Of course, the above is just a common situation, you can ** know why he squeezed you, and then leave the heart is refreshed, right.

If you can open up with your boss through honest communication, you may be able to stay on the team. Of course, this is the ideal situation.

Therefore, I have to continue to look for a new job and start again in a different place. Since the leader didn't tell you to leave the job, then you can find it and leave again. If you really can't stay any longer, then just leave, maybe your work will be implemented faster.

If I find that my roommate is squeezing me, I will first reflect on whether I have done anything wrong, change it, and then take the initiative to communicate with my roommate to eliminate the misunderstanding. If it still doesn't work, then it's neither humble nor arrogant.

First of all, we will give him a good talk about this problem, solve the problem from the front, if he is not proficient, then we must carry out a-for-tat struggle against him, and the fun of fighting with others is endless, and we must protect our legitimate rights and interests from infringement. If it's caused by yourself, then correct it, and if it's caused by your roommate, then choose to deal with your roommate for a while.

First of all, you have to figure out why you are running on you, what the reason is, and it's easy to figure out the reason. If it's really your own problems, correct your shortcomings, and slowly integrate into the collective, and everything will be fine. If it's not your problem, it's your roommate's problem, and you can't influence them no matter what you do, you can ask for a change of dormitory.

Or you can also come hard, people are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, as long as you are powerful, they will not dare.

That is to shut him up and tell him in the most direct way possible. Shut up and stay away from me, don't mess with me, otherwise you will be unkind to you, you must show your attitude, and this is the first thing to do.

If she often squeezes you, either she is unhappy or suppresses you to be happy and have a sense of existence If you have a good relationship, forget it The relationship is average One day when she fights back when she scolds you Too many times, she won't dare to provoke you.

I've had this kind of confusion before, and the relationship with the dormitory is not too bad, but some people like to stab you a few words, to put it bluntly, it's because I seem to be more docile, but this kind of character is particularly easy to suffer.

Be confident and generous, don't tell your roommate too much, especially your flaws, etc., people will generally have an inexplicable fear of strangers, if everything is in your roommate's hands, she thinks she has pinched you, and she may look down on you in her heart, and it is also important to keep a certain distance.

Of course, no one should be born angry, and it's better to be more bloody when necessary.

People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, regardless of daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so that mutual suspicion, the mentality of self-deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life, and struggle is necessary. Otherwise, bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance their abilities, always remind themselves to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, it is not your subjective thoughts that can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

If you find that there is a run, what will you do first, first look at a few beans and beans to resist according to the size of the matter, if there is no need to hide a lot, if it is something fundamental that affects beyond the bottom line, then you have to fight back, so you must make the right choice for the run on oil.

The first thing to do is to reflect on what you have done.

If you want to be cool, demonstrate If you want to be recognized by others, start small, be humble to others, and often help others.

I'll find the right time to ask you what's wrong? Am I doing something wrong.

Work and graduate school are two different paths, I didn't go to graduate school, but there are more graduate students around me.

In my opinion, I found that in addition to graduate school entrance examination and work, there is another way, which is to take the civil service examination.

Most of the people around me will choose to work, a small number of them choose to take the postgraduate examination, a smaller part choose to take the civil service examination, and some people who fail to take the civil service examination and come back to take the graduate school entrance examination, and there are those who fail the graduate school entrance examination to take the civil service examination.

For several people in the entire dormitory, only they were squeezed out for graduate school entrance examinations, and there are still many factors behind this problem.

First of all, is it right to go to graduate school? This actually has nothing to do with whether it is right or wrong, this is a choice, life is the result of choice, the things we chose in the past determine our current life, so there is no right or wrong to choose to go to graduate school, but they run you, it must be wrong.

Second, why are they running on you? In my opinion, there is not only one way to choose a job outside of the graduate school entrance examination, some people may choose to take the civil service examination, some people may think that I should go home and farm (don't laugh, this is what I thought a few years ago) I go home and run the family industry with my family, I still choose to be a freelancer, there are too many paths to choose from, but why run you?

I think there are two reasons, one is that the graduate school entrance examination that has been popular for a period of time is a manifestation of not being able to find a job, this idea has been popular for a while, but it has not become the mainstream, but it may become the mainstream idea of the people around you, and the second is what is the mainstream idea around you, If you are in a place where your thinking is relatively backward (this is a phenomenon), most people hope to take the civil service exam, because it is an iron rice bowl, when everyone in a dormitory goes to the civil service exam, only you choose to start a business, Do you say that you can not be run, this has nothing to do with right or wrong, it is just a path to choose.

So, it's really just a choice.

At this time, you can see whether graduate school is what you want, if you want to do something, you will definitely persevere, even if he is wrong (of course, it is not recommended to insist on the wrong thing) At such a time, the more others disagree, the more you must insist on your own opinion, and see if the postgraduate entrance examination is what you want, this involves a lot, involving the cost of graduate school, involving whether you can be admitted, and involving the ...... of future work

Third, in fact, I think you should see if they are running on you, or are you joking, if they are really running you, you can not care about what they say, be realistic, maybe after graduation, you will never see each other again in your life, of course, it is normal not like this, if they are joking, you can stick to your own opinion.

Finally, it is recommended that you talk to your roommate about your thoughts about the future, and tell them that you did not choose to go to graduate school because you avoided work or anything, but because this is a direction you have chosen, the future is your own, even if we can't help others do something, we can't fall into the trap, but try to support them.

Like-minded partners are never randomly assigned by God, but will only be met after you go deep into a certain field. So your roommate doesn't have to be your like-minded partner, and as an individual, you have more ways to find a friend who is going to graduate school. There is also the road to success, which is destined to be lonely for a while.

I was the only one in my dorm room who was going to graduate school, but my roommates didn't reject me. But when I choose to devote my time to studying, I don't have as much time to play with them, and I may not have as much affection as before. But I can say responsibly that I don't regret it.

When I first entered the school, we ate and drank together, but as the graduation season approached, I suddenly woke up and felt that I had to take responsibility for my own life, even if I didn't succeed in the graduate school entrance examination, as a person who was about to graduate, it was always right to learn more skills to enrich my knowledge. So, I started to get up early every day, eat by myself, go to the library by myself, take a shower by myself, and go back to my dorm room at night. There was a time when I was really lonely and I didn't know who to talk to.

But gradually I met a lot of friends in the library, found people with common topics, encouraged each other to learn from each other, during that period, our friendship because of the common goal also warmed up rapidly, we would always dream, always fantasize that there will be a bigger library in the future, there will be more like-minded people, where I can realize my life dream ......

In retrospect, the gain is also proportional to the effort. When you become a self-disciplined person, you will naturally be surrounded by supporters and true friendships. However, time and choice help us filter out those who don't matter, and one day we will be grateful for the persistent self back then.