Is it okay to take my daughter to the cemetery to see her grandmother every time you go home?

There is nothing good or bad about this, if the weather can take children to the cemetery in all aspects, it doesn't matter if you take your children to see it, but the cemetery is the kind of place, it is best not to let children pass, although it is not a superstitious saying, it is better to pay more attention.

I don't know how old your daughter is, if she is too young, try to go as little as possible, after all, the cemetery is more yin, which is not good for the child, and it doesn't matter if the child is more than ten years old.

Grandma is the mother's mother, the mother is also a child, and she also wants her own mother, take the child to the grandmother's grave, nothing good or bad, the rural place, there are graves everywhere, the child has been playing nearby since he was a child, and he has not seen anything bad about others, if you feel inappropriate psychologically, and fear the ghosts and gods, then don't take the child over, because you will give yourself psychological hints, think a lot, and the impact on yourself and the child is also negative, it is better not to go, if you have no taboos, an atheist, then it doesn't matter, tell the child, Mom misses her mother, burn a little more paper money for her, so that her grandmother has money to spend in another world, buy something delicious, after all, this is a Chinese tradition, every family is like this, and tell her that people should be more filial to their parents when they are alive, otherwise there will be no chance....Take the opportunity to educate your child!

It depends on what you think. Superstition, if it is best to believe in gods and ghosts, take less children to the cemetery. After all, the older generation likes to have things that are not very clean, and it is easy for children to bump into unclean things.

But if you believe in science, I don't think it makes a difference to take it down. After all, it's just to remember the ancestors, and to have a sense of awe.

If the child is older, it should be fine, if it is too young, it is better not to bring it.

OK. Generally speaking, if a child is under the age of six, it is not suitable for both boys and girls to participate in the theme activities of tomb sweeping and ancestor worship.

But in fact, this is decided according to the customs and habits of each region, and some regions think that girls can also go to the grave, after all, girls are also one of the descendants; In some areas, it is inappropriate for the girl to go to the tomb, and the woman is not "her own person" in the concept of feudal society, so the girl cannot go to the tomb.

About the customs related to tomb sweeping

In some areas, the unmarried daughters are allowed to sweep the tombs, for example, in many Guangzhou areas, the unmarried daughters can go to the tombs to worship their ancestors. It's just that the old thinking situation in some regions is serious, and they feel that whether or not their daughter marries does not jeopardize the essence of her being a "foreign daughter", so even if the daughter is not married, she cannot worship in her own grave.

The girl who has already married is not suitable for going home to her mother's family to sweep the tomb, only in the mother-in-law's family to worship the tomb of the mother-in-law's family, and can not return to the mother's family to worship the mother's family's grave, because in everyone's traditional consciousness, the daughter is already married to the husband's family, and the mother's family is only the mother's family, and her name and household registration have already changed her surname to the husband's family, so the married daughter is the mother-in-law's family, and cannot return to the mother's family to sweep the tomb and worship the ancestors.