What hobbies are gentle and kind hearted young men suitable for?

What kind of man should a woman look for.

01. What is the difference between men and women's thinking about mate selection?

What kind of man should a woman find as a husband?

I had a client who was out of love and was in pain, and she came to me and asked me to help her adjust her emotions and train of thought. When I first contacted her, I listened to the details of her relationship with her ex-boyfriend, and I felt that this man was very unsuitable for her.

But at that time she was still trapped inside, and she loved the man very much, until she came out later, and she herself realized and agreed with what I said at the time.

The man's own condition is very poor, but he is very good at flirting with girls, there are many girls who seem to flirt, and he understands girls very well, but he has a very bad temper, generally speaking, a person is short-tempered, not because of his personality, but because of his low emotional management and bad life.

Generally speaking, men who can flirt are not single-minded, because normal straight men will not flirt with girls, of course, a man's own conditions are not good, and he must learn some skills in this area, otherwise it is really difficult to find a wife.

A man doesn't care if the woman loves him or not, the man mainly considers what his needs are, and considers the woman's weaknesses. Men are creatures with a clear purpose, they are like hunters, they look at their prey, choose the target, seize the opponent's weakness, and attack.

Women are not like this, women think mainly about whether the man loves her or not, when she falls in love with a man, she can go crazy for love, and girls also need to think more masculine, which is very helpful for finding a husband.

02. What do you want to see when looking for a husband?

If you just want a man to be good to you, this is very unreliable, because this kind of good, if you say disappear, it will disappear, he wants to be good to you, and if he doesn't want to be good to you, it is not good, this is completely beyond your control, and men are obedient to chasing you in the early stage.

So what should we look at?

Look at the hardware, reliable factors, and those characteristics that are not changeable, such as his background, family background, education, ability to earn money at work, personality, appearance and height, etc.

These are relatively clear and visible, not changeable, a man with good character and habits, life is self-disciplined, his temper is good, you get along with him, he will be more tolerant.

Education, earning ability to work, family background determines his economic situation, marriage is realistic, is a community of economic interests, so marriage is very important to look at the economy.

Girls can examine a man from the above, in addition to the appearance is obvious, the others need to get along for a period of time to see, sometimes it is very confusing, and it is not easy for you to judge the truth of what the other party says. The significance of one-on-one counseling is to provide targeted counseling, answer questions, and help clients improve their competitiveness in mate selection according to each person's different situation.

A young man with a gentle and kind personality, his hobbies are not what we chose for him. It's his own heartfelt hobby that is true.

Raising small animals, such as cats, dogs, rabbits, rats, etc., is more patient and loving.

Hobbies are actually my favorites, that is, interests, if you work hard to stick to the things you like, you will definitely do something!

Good for reading books! Play basketball! Listen to it!

My boyfriend is one such person.

In fact, simplicity is not stupid, but knowing the world but not maintaining the original intention. Gentleness is not weakness, but having a heart that can understand others. Kindness is not about seeking perfection from grievances, but about distinguishing what is one's own choice and what is the choice of others.

In our lives, I have found the good qualities in him that surprise me again and again, and often say things that make my eyes shine.

I'm a more self-conscious and proud person, but he loves me, so he never breaks my tricks, and I've learned how to be considerate of others, and he fills my heart with love.

When we quarreled, it was always him who started from my point of view and said what he really didn't do well, and he wanted to remember it and stop doing it, I thought at first he was just talking, after all, there are too many guys who don't really care about what they say, but he doesn't, he really remembers, and really won't make the same mistake again.

This surprised me, he is really kind enough to think from my point of view, many people who claim to be kind are in fact, they think they are kind, but they do those things that seem good in order to satisfy their desire to be needed, they don't think about what the other person really wants, but emphasize what they give.

Well, after writing it, I found out that I really just wanted to compliment my boyfriend....Forgive me, he's so nice......Can't help but compliment.

We are always praising each other in our lives We used to just envy other people's feelings, but when we have it, we know how grateful it is.