How to understand marriage as a compromise of love?

Marriage is for two people, but it can rise to the level of two families. You can find your partner yourself, and your family can find your partner for you, so the boundaries between the two sides of this question are blurred. If your marriage is based on love for him, then living together between two people is indeed more like the sublimation of love.

If you are with him because of material conditions, it is more like you are bowing to life.

A marriage without love will not be happy in the long run; It is difficult for a marriage to last without basic economic (material) support. Marriage lies in the joint efforts of both parties, and marriage also requires the compromise of one party, understanding and tolerance. But if it has been just a compromise on one side, one day, he or she will be deeply tired, and the marriage will come to an end.

In the process of our relationship, there are not many problems to be encountered in marriage, so it is usually better and easier to recall when we are in love, but after entering marriage, we have to consider a lot of things, and the sweetness of love at that time is all turned into bits and pieces of life, so two people sometimes need to tolerate each other to compromise.

I think when you fall in love, many things don't need to be taken into account, as long as two people really like it, you can be together, and you don't need to consider other factors, but after getting married, like the economy, and the living aspects like the two of you, you should consider, so marriage is a compromise of love.

In fact, I think this sentence is wrong, not that love can become marriage only if it is compromised, in fact, in terms of free love now, more often it will become marriage because love has been sublimated, and two people feel that the love they get along with each other is enough to support two people for a lifetime, so they choose marriage, hoping to give each other a stable home.

In fact, you have to know that many people get married not to choose the person they love the most, but to choose the person who they thought was the most suitable at the time, so in fact, marriage is not the end of love, but the compromise of love, because you have to know that person, he must not be your favorite, but a thing, but it must also be the most suitable at that time, so you will find that slowly you are indeed a very powerful person.

You have to know that marriage does not prove that your love has been fully affirmed, he just said that your love is in this time period, you have successfully entered the marriage, but you must know that many people after getting married, but will let the love slowly deteriorate and fade, so the marriage you think is a compromise of love, in fact, it is because you have changed after you got married.

I think marriage is not just about compromising love. More importantly, he is actually a promise. For the love that is said on the lips, it is very unrealistic, and marriage is real, so marriage is not only a compromise of love, but more importantly, a commitment to love.

I feel that the point of view of this sentence is very wrong, and I strongly disagree with this statement. I don't think marriage is a compromise of love, marriage is the sublimation of love. I think only when two people love each other enough, and the love between them accumulates to a certain height, will they choose to get married.

I think that in fact, marriage and love are different, that is, love is the feeling of love between two people, but once marriage rises, more often, this kind of love will slowly evolve into family affection, but once it becomes family affection, love actually lacks its original taste, so it is like the compromise of love.

Yes, there is a need for constant compromise in marriage so that the relationship can last long. In everyday life, both spouses are busy with their own work, and once the relationship between the two breaks down, most couples do not think about restoring the relationship, but blindly blame each other, which leads to the breakdown of the marriage. In such a situation, how can we restore the relationship?

In today's impetuous emotional society, marriage is not the best guarantee of love, but some people still hope to protect their love and keep the person they love through marriage, but they do not expect that marriage has become a reason to strengthen the emotional cracks. How to restore a broken relationship is a problem that every family faces. Of course, this is also a problem that every family can't wait to solve.

However, there are many reasons for the breakdown of a couple's relationship, so the methods are different. When we fall in love, we always don't care about gains and losses, we just want to give each other the best.

There is no novelty after marriage, everything tends to be flat, we will not give in after a quarrel, but this feeling is getting weaker and weaker, so we should learn to say sorry, learn to give each other steps, learn to compromise. Let go of your figure, think more about each other, and everything will become happy. In this way, the relationship between the husband and wife can be reconciled and they can live happily ever after.

When the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, women can appropriately change themselves, including their external and internal image. In terms of external appearance, this doesn't mean you have to go for cosmetic surgery, but you can wear proper makeup or make yourself look clean and tidy.

Never think that the image of an old couple is not important. Marriage and love need to be kept fresh from time to time. In terms of internal image, on the one hand, it is to promote the advantages of mutual acceptance and mutual attraction.

On the other hand, enrich your life and build self-confidence and optimism. Optimism and self-confidence can not only change your inner image, but also make your external image more temperamental, and make your husband more attracted to you. When a relationship begins to break down and is heading towards death, learn how to love yourself first.

If you have a conflict with your significant other and you can't recover, don't be discouraged. As long as you find the right way, you can**.

Personally, I think that in married life, you need to tolerate each other's shortcomings, but there is no need to compromise with each other all the time, which will make the relationship weaker.

Yes, because many divorces are caused by uncompromise, both parties must learn to compromise in marriage, and only after taking a step back can two people communicate better.

Compromise is really needed, because it helps in the development of the relationship and also contributes to the harmony of the relationship.

My husband and I have completely different opinions on how to deal with things, and there are a lot of contradictions, should I compromise? It is normal for husband and wife to have a cold war in married life, if there are completely different opinions with my husband in terms of handling things, and there are many conflicts, should I compromise? First, there should be no compromise.

The role of communication is to understand and be understood. Don't always distinguish between right and wrong and winning and losing. Take the initiative to reconcile with your husband.

When you deeply believe that the other person is wrong, you subconsciously do not want to know more about his thoughts and motives, because you have already come to a conclusion, and the other person will lose the will to understand you, so it takes on a state of non-introspection. Don't always procrastinate, especially if you're arguing, don't let it drag on for too long. Second, there should be no compromise, and it should be resolved in a timely manner to eliminate the budding state of contradictions.

If none of them are willing to bow their heads, the harder it will be to solve the problem. Conflicts between husband and wife are often manifested in small things that are easily ignored by both parties. Small problems that cannot be solved will inevitably turn into big problems.

Since they choose to live with this person, it is also important to learn to accept each other's shortcomings. Your husband can feel your love too. Third, a compromise should be made to create a step for the husband.

Since I chose to live with two people, I should have learned to weaken all these problems. Take a step for your husband and learn to forgive each other Kai renting hands. You will find that there will be endless whispers between the two people.

Women quarrel not only because they win and lose more, but also because of the attitude of their husbands. Women don't want much, that is, their husbands care more about themselves in life. It's the little things that can quarrel.

Many couples choose to remain outgoing in the face of major events. Fourth, when you have a conflict with your husband, tell yourself not to be angry. People who truly love you don't want to make you sad, people who don't care about you.

No matter how angry you are, it will hurt your heart and ruin your body. Don't get angry, relax yourself, make yourself happy, and make yourself happy is a joy. Only you are happy, others are not the same thing in your eyes.

Smart women should learn to stop so that they can resolve conflicts.

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of My parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we and I can't take the baby with a thrilling shirt, and it is true that a person will not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and at that time I felt that I wanted to return to a person's life. I never got tired of it and loved my home and family very much.

Yes, because many divorces are caused by uncompromise, both parties must learn to compromise in marriage, and only after taking a step back can the two people communicate better.

In marriage, it is not a compromise, but tolerance and understanding, and love with tolerance and understanding will be happy!

I don't think there should be compromise, marriage is a major event in life, and the rotten object to choose is to be with you for the rest of your life, and you must not compromise because of age.

It depends on what is the reason for the compromise, if it is a small contradiction in the usual way, it doesn't matter, if it is the auspicious person who has a principle problem, and you still choose to compromise, then I think there is no need to be afraid of such a marriage.