Who is more suitable to be Baoyu s wife, Daiyu or Baochai? Why?

It must be that Baochai is more suitable to be his wife, because Baochai is more gentle and can take care of housework.

I think it's Baochai, although the treatment and secrecy, the two are more intimate, but from a realistic point of view, Daiyu is not in good health, does not produce, and does not work housework. Baoyu is an important figure in Rongguofu's life, and his own personality is stubborn, his wife not only needs to tolerate and take care of him in the future, but also needs to take on a lot of chores, and Daiyu is undoubtedly not suitable for such a role.

Bao Chai bar. Daiyu is love, and Baochai is marriage. Everyone knows that falling in love is not the same as getting married, and Daiyu's personality is not suitable for Baoyu, who has a good relationship with other women.

Lin Daiyu is suitable, because Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu have feelings, Lin Daiyu is talented, has strong management skills, is good at needlework, and can treat people well.

Daiyu's health is not good, and for the sake of Baoyu's future life, she can't straighten it out. But the old lady likes her, and there is a great possibility of doing a second room. Mrs. Wang didn't want to lose power, because it was Sister Feng who was in charge at that time, and if Baochai married Baoyu, she could take back the rights from her own family.

Baochai's ability to deal with people is relatively strong, and the senior management is favored by it.

You can refer to the family relationship--- Bao Dai and the two are closely related. From Jia Zheng's attitude, it can be seen that Jia's group has a very clear orientation towards Baoyu's future, that is, career orientation. Although Baochai and Daiyu are both talented women, compared to the clever ruler, Baochai can better help Baoyu embark on a career path.

Baochai wants to compete with Daiyu, and there is a relatively powerful force behind her, which is of considerable help to her success.

<> the fifty-eighth song "Xingyin Phoenix" Fang Guan told Baoyu that the lotus root official was dressed as Xiao Sheng, and the medicine official was dressed as Xiao Dan, often disguised as husband and wife. Over time, they fell in love "just like the real thing." Later, after the death of his son, he cried to death.

Until now, he has not forgotten, so he burns paper in every section. "Later, the Lotus Officer and the Lotus Officer whom you and I love, as well as the Lotus Officer like Heath, did not forget the Medicine Officer, but thought in my heart and cherished the people I am now. "For example, if a man dies and a woman remarries, but if she doesn't throw the deceased away and doesn't mention it, she falls in love.

In fact, there has been a hint for the third time in "Dream of Red Mansions" Filial High School that Jia's mother did not choose Lin Daiyu as her daughter-in-law for a reason, and the third time she came back was "Jia Yucun restored Lin Daiyu's old post where she abandoned her father and entered Kyoto", this time it was Lin Daiyu who entered Jia's mansion, Lin Daiyu was very careful from beginning to end, what was it that made Jia's mother dissatisfied? After Lin Daiyu entered Jia's mansion, Jia's mother led her to show it to the public. At this time, "the public knows that Daiyu is young, well-behaved, well-spoken, and naturally romantic despite her timid appearance."

In other words, everyone knew at a glance that Lin Daiyu was sick and her clothes were sick, so they asked Lin Daiyu what medicine she was taking and so on.

Jia's mother has always been a supporter of marriage. One is her favorite grandson, and the other is the daughter left behind by her favorite only daughter. She gave all her love to her granddaughter Daiyu, and she very much hoped that her granddaughter would have a good home.

Moreover, at that time, Baochai and Baoyu were cousins, and their relationship was a little different. There is also the family perspective. Bao Dai belonged to the official family, the official family belonged to the main family, and the Bao Chai family belonged to the merchant family.

Although they were rich, their social status was much lower. As far as Jia's mother is concerned, Jia's mother has always been a supporter of Bode's marriage. Later, it is said that she changed her mind, which was a continuation of Gao Rodinger's writing, contrary to Cao Xueqin's original intention.

In the end, Xue Baochai became Jia Baoyu's wife. This Qi Baoyu and Daiyu's childhood sweethearts have always been in love, but unfortunately Daiyu is just an orphan girl living in Jiafu, and there is no family to do lifelong events for her, in the eyes of everyone in Jiafu who has a pair of snobbish eyes, Daiyu's net worth is not enough to match Jia Baoyu.

Laugh clearly.

Baochai is willing to marry Baoyu.

Baochai is a person with lofty ideals, and the purpose of Baochai's entry into Beijing is to draft a girl, and she wants to enter the palace, she has this capital and conditions. Under the domination of this heart, it is impossible for her heart to completely accommodate Baoyu. However, with the fall of the Xue family (for various reasons), the draft failed, and Baoyu will be chosen as the next best thing, and there will be some elements of love but not dominant.

Baochai is a realist and a pragmatist, a rational person, Baochai may have hesitated and unwilling, but in the end he is still willing to marry Baoyu.

Of course, the following points should not be overlooked:

First, Baoyu is demented, and Jia's mother and Sister Feng skillfully adjust the package, which is a continuation of Gao E's book, which is not enough to believe; Second, with Baochai's character, how could he agree to use other people's names to carry out this scheme, it can be seen that as Jia's mother said before, she has never seen the behavior of a big family, and she is just guessing; Third, if this is the case, Baochai is actually a victim, although after the draft failed, Mrs. Wang's sisters were planning Jin Yuyi, but Baochai knew that the whole house knew that the whole house knew about Baoyu and Sister Lin, and if she married Baoyu, she would not be happy at all. As she said in her poem: Tearing hearts day by day and year by year.

Uh: Well, yes.

I read Dream of Red Mansions in junior high school several times.

According to the original article, Baochai cries because of etiquette and customs, and the girl who wants to marry leaves her mother's house to cry Another reason is that Baochai is a filial girl, thinking that in the future, only her mother will be alone without her company, and it will be inevitable to be lonely So crying It is not about Baoyu There is no love between him and Baoyu It's just an empty marriage It's not a product of love, right, she didn't think about whether she was willing to marry or not.

Absolutely.

It's just that Baochai also knows that Baoyu loves Lin Daiyu more.

Actually, I didn't want to say anything, but I just said a few words when I saw everyone say it here. First, Baoyu is demented, and Jia's mother and Sister Feng skillfully adjust the package, which is a continuation of Gao E's book, which is not enough to believe; Second, with Baochai's character, how could he agree to use other people's names to carry out this scheme, it can be seen that as Jia's mother said before, she has never seen the behavior of a big family, and she is just guessing; Third, if this is the case, Baochai is actually a victim, although after the draft failed, Mrs. Wang's sisters were planning Jin Yuyi, but Baochai knew that the whole house knew that the whole house knew about Baoyu and Sister Lin, and if she married Baoyu, she would not be happy at all. As she says in her poem:

Bitter heart day by day and year by year.

Life is impermanent. If you are unwilling, you are willing

Jia Baoyu and Baochai became monks soon after they got married, he only had one wife, and when he was not married, Mrs. Wang had the idea of letting the raider be his concubine.

No, although he understands girls very well, he later became a monk!

The reasons why Baoyu can't marry Daiyu are as follows:

The main reason why Daiyu did not marry Baoyu was that Jia's mother did not agree, and this is because on the one hand, Daiyu was frail and sickly since she was a child, and she took medicine every day, mainly because her character was sentimental, and occasionally she was sensitive and mean, compared with Baochai, she was not atmospheric enough and not worldly enough.

On the other hand, Baoyu lost the Tongling Baoyu in the later period, this piece of jade is like his lifeline, Baoyu after losing the jade, crazy, mentally problematic, he and Xue Baochai are also married at this juncture.

Everyone asked Baoyu and Baochai to marry, on the one hand, because the two had a "golden and jade relationship", and on the other hand, they hoped to marry Baochai to Baoyu Chongxi. Everyone thinks that Baochai is a blessed person, unlike Daiyu, who is sick all day long, which is why Daiyu failed to marry Baoyu.

Lin Daiyu's ending:

In the first month of Lin Daiyu's seventeenth year, Wang Ziteng was killed more than 200 miles away from the capital, and Jiafu lost two backers in a month, plus Jia Baoyu was crazy, and the housekeeper was appointed as the Jiangxi grain road.

On the second day of the second month of February, in order to make Jia Baoyu happy, Jia's mother remembered Jinyu's statement again, so she discussed with the housekeeper and decided to let Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai get married, and at the same time, in order to hide Jia Baoyu, Sister Feng gave Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang an idea to drop the bag.

On the fourth day of the new year, the news that Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai were going to get married was accidentally leaked by the stupid eldest sister, Lin Daiyu was in a hurry, and went to Jia Baoyu's yard to find Jia Baoyu, and the two of them sat together for the last time to dig or participate in Zen.

Lin Daiyu asked Jia Baoyu why she was dressed up or sick, Jia Baoyu smiled and said that it was because of Lin Daiyu's illness, on the 11th, Lin Daiyu burned the manuscript, and on the 12th, that is, on the day of Lin Daiyu's birthday, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai had a big wedding ceremony, and Lin Daiyu died in tears.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Zijuan is most in favor of wood-stone marriage and is the most loyal supporter of wood-stone marriage. What is the marriage of wood and stone, Baoyu's previous life was the attendant of the gods of Chixia Palace. Flawed, sick jade also, that is, speckled jade.

Ying, Meiyu. Baoyu was born from jade. Jade is stone, so "stone" represents jade.

Daiyu's previous life was a Zhuzhu fairy grass on the bank of the Western Spirit River, which was a grass and tree. Daiyu once sighed that she was a person of grass and trees. So "wood" represents Daiyu.

The attendants of Shenying irrigate the Zhuzhu grass with nectar every day, and the Zhuzhu grass is nourished by the essence of heaven and earth, nourished by rain and dew, and gets rid of the wood of the grass fetus and cultivates it into a female body. In order to repay the grace of irrigation, the attendant of Shenying went down to earth, and the fairy of Zhuzhu also went down to earth, and wanted to return him with a lifetime of tears. This is called the "Wood and Stone Alliance".

The dream of Red Mansions "Lifelong Mistake" said in the tone of Baoyu: The capital is a good marriage of gold and jade, and I only think of the former alliance of wood and stone. "Embroidered Mandarin Duck Dream Zhaojiang Yunxuan" once, Baoyu said in a dream:

How to trust the words of monks and Taoists? What is the marriage of gold and jade, I prefer to say that it is the marriage of wood and stone! ”

The marriage of wood and stone refers to the marriage of Baoyu and Daiyu. The person who clearly agrees with the marriage of wood and stone in the text is Zijuan, and she also takes action to promote the realization of the marriage of wood and stone. Zijuan was originally Jia's mother's second-class girl.

When Lin Daiyu first arrived at Rongguo Mansion, the old lady saw that her leaky maid Snow Goose was childish and couldn't serve Daiyu well, so she dialed Zijuan to serve Daiyu.

Since Zijuan followed Daiyu, she has taken care of her like a big sister and cared for her. The two of them are like sisters, beyond the friendship of master and servant. is very clear about Daiyu's thoughts about Baoyu, and he also knows what Daiyu is embarrassed about.

Daiyu's parents are dead, and no one can make decisions for her. Although the old lady loves her granddaughter, she has never opened this layer of window paper. She tested Baoyu, Baoyu became stupid, and Zijuan took the opportunity to clarify things and let the old lady give her a good idea.

Hui Zijuan resigned to try to be busy with jade, and Zijuan clarified Baoyu's mind for Daiyu. Baoyu was merciful everywhere, and forgot her sister when she saw her sister, Zijuan didn't know whether Baoyu was sincere to Daiyu, and it was rumored that Xue Baoqin was given to Baoyu, so she deliberately said that Daiyu wanted to go back to her hometown in Suzhou to test the treasure clan to search for spine jade. As a result, Baoyu was so anxious that he was crazy and stupid, and after he woke up, he showed his heart to Zijuan:

I only tell you a word: live, we live together; If we don't live, we will turn to ashes and smoke.

Zijuan agrees with the marriage of wood and stone, supports the marriage of wood and stone, actively plans, and tries her best to promote the marriage of wood and stone. It's a pity that she is just a girl, she can't do anything substantive, and she doesn't have the ability to help Daiyu realize her wish. In the end, Bao Dai's heart was finally empty.

It should be Grandma Liu, because Grandma Liu feels that the two of them are very compatible, and Grandma Liu will not think too much as an outsider.

That must be Tanchun, because he likes Lin Daiyu very much, wants him to be his sister-in-law, and thinks Lin Daiyu is very talented.