It s so tiring to be out alone! So lonely! 20

Updated on society 2024-06-29
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you are a boyfriend who loves you, you should go abroad with him, although going abroad may be more difficult, but two people who love each other are together, this is just a little tribulation. Maybe you'll be lucky to go abroad! If you really don't want to go out with him, you'll have to endure a period of loneliness, because there's a good chance he won't come back.

    Then you have to be mentally prepared to find another partner!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend also went abroad, and he wanted me to go with him, but because my family needed me very much, I chose to wait for him to come back in China. I don't know what your boyfriend's purpose is to go abroad, so he should be studying, right? I chose not to go, not because I was going to give up on the relationship, but because I believed in our relationship!

    We have been together for 3 years. In fact, it is not a bad thing for two people to be separated for a while, because it will promote your relationship. At least we cherish each other more now than we used to.

    Yes, long-distance relationships rarely last, but that doesn't mean they don't have love. Do you believe him? Do you believe in your feelings?

    In fact, now that it is so developed, you can go to see him during the holidays, or he will come back to see you on vacation. In fact, this kind of concern and being cared for is also a kind of happiness! Do you really love him?

    If you love him, don't give up even if you're separated!

    Bless you all

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you are willing to choose to work, from the day he left, you can think that this person no longer exists in this world, work hard, enjoy your own life, if he really loves you, he will not easily choose to go abroad, not to mention that you have so many risks abroad, I really don't understand why Chinese people pay so much attention to going abroad, you can go abroad, but you must have relatively mature economic conditions, otherwise you will lose all your money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That's right, he is not the whole of your life, you have your world, since he is going abroad for his career, and you can also live well for your own life, there is nothing lonely, and you will not be lonely when you have a life circle, because there are many friends who care about you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are reluctant to work now, then your relationship with your boyfriend will be at risk, and you will inevitably have to endure loneliness. It is also an opportunity for you and your boyfriend to develop abroad, but it is also very risky. It's a combination of fish and bear's paws.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The job is nothing, and you can start all over again. The key is what to do out and about, whether to continue studying or to work. After everything is planned in the country, go abroad with him, and if you find that you can't adapt to it after going out, you will come back.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Distance can produce beauty, and no matter how beautiful it is, there is a distance.

    Do you have to take risks together? Do you want him to face the risk alone, but you are watching from the sidelines.

    Looking at him helpless? Isn't that too cruel. If you really love him, you should be in the wind or rain.

    Be his strong backing and laugh and cry with him, right?

    Don't wait until he's gone to regret it.

    Go to him, even if it may be bitter, it will be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, I can understand your feelings, my boyfriend is in the field all the year round, a little better than you, at least in a country, I don't know how long your boyfriend has been going? I think I can overcome it if I don't go for a long time, and if I stay for a long time, I think it's necessary to consider going with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wait until your boyfriend is a little more stable, and you might as well go over and go together! As the people upstairs said, there are jobs everywhere, and there is only one boyfriend!! Don't wait until the distance is there, the beauty is gone! Bless you all

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can find work everywhere, and if your boyfriend is gone, you may not come.

    Few transnational romances can be fulfilled.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The way to overcome loneliness is to mature a little, accept it, and face reality. But if you're really lonely and don't know what to do, but you're not used to talking to others, why not consider the following proposals:

    Find something to do: Do whatever you like, do what you want, and do what you want, which will help you get rid of loneliness. When you devote yourself to what you love most, you can naturally forget everything, and there is no extra room for you to sigh lonely and helpless. jogging, writing, doing small crafts, and even playing the piano; The most important thing is the stuff you love.

    Secondly, you will get to know other like-minded friends. And "share" your likes and dislikes, feelings with others.

    Return to nature: Nature is known as the deep destination of the human soul, in the embrace of nature, the soul is calm, peaceful, harmonious and happy. Walking, jogging or cycling in the park in your spare time can drive away all stuffiness; Re-injected with new life.

    Don't overdo it:

    Eight hours from 9 to 5 may not be enough to do your heavy work, but don't overdo it, as excessive workload will only add to your loneliness! As a result, many people only bury their heads in work all day long, and over time, reducing the time they spend with others will only increase their loneliness.

    Work is not a good way to escape, and other better ways are: watching dramas, listening to ** meetings, gathering with friends, and actively facing loneliness!

    The Power of Bloodlines:

    If you live close to your parents, siblings or close relatives, remember to take advantage of the opportunity to visit often. Because after all, you have the same background, history, and bloodline, and your family will always stand by your side and support you.

    Helping others is the foundation of pleasure:

    There are tens of thousands of people in the world who need your compassionate hand, and in addition to financial support, their hearts also need the care of others. Choose a schedule that suits you and participate in various volunteer services, which will help you stop being overly attached to the worries of loneliness.

    Fountain of Vitality: Exercise is a great way to help you develop your body and mind, and to get rid of boredom, go for a swim in a nearby pool or play golf for an hour can help you feel good and stay healthy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, a lot, just go out the door and make friends. TRQQRT is also a good point.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Every holiday is the same feeling, hehe, I'm used to it, I always have to go through it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I often go home to see my parents, talk to my heart, make friends, and have pets.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Loneliness proves your growth, loneliness proves that you have few friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What do you want to do most now, Dream fly, do what you want to do now...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find what you love to do, enrich yourself, and your friends will still be by your side.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Slowly, I got used to being alone. The only one who can accompany you is yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Read books, **ah, prose, or some professional aspects. If you don't have a goal, it's good to get a certificate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Loneliness is the beginning of maturity;

    It's good to make more friends, to get together with more friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's a good thing to find your friends to get together, talk more, be happy, smile often, good things come naturally, and friends are useful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can read books, recommend "Love You" magazine, watch movies "Forrest Gump", "National Treasure", etc., and learn to dance, yoga, play games, and write something.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What's wrong with a person is not good to be controlled by others.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Listen to** watch the movie、、Turn on** loudly。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Find someone to talk to, or go around.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find something fun to watch at home.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are many things to do, such as reading, listening, exercising, etc. Besides, solitude can sometimes be a beautiful treat.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.

    The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

    A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

    When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.

    When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Afraid of being alone, and afraid of two people getting along, this is a kind of normal situation for us, I have a friend who has been alone, living alone in an apartment in Beijing, working during the day, and doing something she wants to do in the apartment at night, she said that she is used to this kind of life, and she has not thought about what kind of changes will be brought about by a person breaking into her life, I asked him if he is lonely, she said no, such a day is more comfortable, comfortable, do not have to deliberately consider the feelings of another person, she is also a person, After getting used to it, she will never feel lonely again, but live freely, her heart is calm, her demeanor is relaxed, this is a person's world, there is no loneliness and loneliness, but more freedom and comfort.

    A person is not lonely, change the state of mind to experience a person's life, quiet, comfortable.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you feel lonely, make more friends, and know more people, and the situation will be better! People will definitely feel lonely at a certain time, and they must learn to get rid of loneliness

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    A person has a good person, and the silence is undisturbed. Only when one person feels bored and feels lonely, he can chat with friends, and loneliness is not terrible.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Heck, how can you be alone, it's really a little lonely, but you learn to come out, such as making friends, friends at work, girlfriends who don't talk about everything, when you have many good friends around you, you don't feel lonely. Revise your own cultivation, I hope you will mature as soon as possible.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course, a person will be lonely.

    In this life, from birth to the moment of death, a person is a person. It can be said that loneliness is the norm. But loneliness is not necessarily a bad thing, because when we are lonely, we can devote 100% of our attention to what we want to do.

    That is what we often say, beasts of prey often walk alone, and great men are lonely.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The Roman poet said that in solitude, one is like an army.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Loneliness is the norm of life, loneliness is a kind of serene beauty, don't be afraid of loneliness.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you feel lonely, make friends and talk about love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A person's loneliness is the happiness of a group of people, in fact, sometimes in a group often feel like this, the mentality is good, and it is not lonely.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Alone and alone. Make more friends. Look more at the outside world. Nowadays, many young people want to have a life. The so-called loneliness is just what you think.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Learn to enjoy solitude, and you will meet a better version of yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You will always meet someone you like, like you, and spend a lifetime together.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You can turn on your mobile phone, listen to singing, relax, and read some health and wellness knowledge to enrich yourself, and at the same time share it with friends to watch and enjoy it together.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I don't have money, I don't have a girlfriend, I don't have a home, but I try to do what makes me happy. Try to do what makes you happy, regardless of whether the sun will rise tomorrow, friends, as long as you are happy!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone! Life comes and goes, and what we once thought was a very strong relationship, a very important person, may disappear in an instant. Feelings are easy to drift apart, people's hearts are easy to cool, remember not to overestimate your relationship with any one person.

    Everyone can only walk with you for a while, and sooner or later they will have to be separated. Perhaps, this is the case between people, no matter how frequent they have been, with the passage of time, what lies between each other is the distance and strangeness that are gradually distant. In this world, not everyone wants to be with you through thick and thin.

    Many times, you think that as long as you pay sincerely, you can get preferential treatment from others, and you think that if you are determined to be good to others, others will dig out their hearts and lungs for you. However, reality will always tell you in a cruel way that the more you take love, the more painful your heart becomes; For people, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Enjoy the loneliness, the other half appears and can't realize it (

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