Is a woman s heart cruel or is it society and reality? 5

What kind of experience she has, what kind of views and opinions you have If you really love her, you will pursue her, and if you give her a different experience, then her opinion will change a little bit, and it will take a lot of effort, and it may not be successful, no matter what, you can't regret it.

Either that's it, be an ordinary friend, chat when you have time, help if you can, you can see that you love her very much, and she must be able to feel it, so I personally suggest that you chase her and tell her about your love and thoughts Maybe she is not having a good time now I hope someone will accompany her.

If you say that, then you go to be a good friend to her, be a friend, be a friend, communicate with her more, and she'll definitely need someone to talk to, if you have her trust, and I think that's something you can do for her, and she's going to be a lot more happy.

Men will feel that women are realistic if they are incapable, and women will feel that men are distracted if they are not attractive, not because people are too dirty, but because society is too complicated.

If you can't eat grapes, you say that grapes are sour.

This is the eye of God that sees God, and the eye of a pig can only see pigs.

I think men are crueler than women's hearts.

Then you just accept the reality!Otherwise it's a bit unrealistic!

There are also unrealistic, women who live for love, but you haven't met them.

Women are cruel, and men become motivated in order to satisfy women's vanity.

In fact, men in this society are a little more tired, in the face of some greater economic pressure, it should be a man's duty to support his family, especially when he is old and young, the pressure on men will be greater, but men's careers are much more stable than women, at least men only need to take a few days of marriage leave when they get married, and men do not need to have children, so his career will generally not be interrupted, if a man has worked diligently for five or six years, I believe he can get a certain position, if he can keep up with the pace of the times and maintain the ability to learn, then his career will rise steadily, so this society, It's cruel to men, men only need to make money, and many problems can be solved after he earns money, but this society is really more cruel to women!

When I just graduated, I found my first job, and I remember that at that time, when I had just graduated from college and had an interview, people asked me if you have a boyfriend?I answered very neatly no, and then I was successfully interviewed, and then entered the unit to start working, when I started to talk about my boyfriend, some people began to care about when to get married, once the topic of marriage was talked about, it would definitely be related to children, so at this time, leaders generally start recruiting people in the recruitment season, because some people may stop working after getting married, and there may be people who will marry their children, so the leaders will arrange personnel in advance, and women say that marriage and childbirth are a big deal. It is indeed a major event in life, but it also interrupted my career because of this major event, and no position will wait for one person to do it, so at the beginning, a woman's salary is about the same as a man's, but after a child and a family, a woman's salary will be a little lower than a man's! If it is about the same salary as a man, then it must have worked harder than a man, working hard while taking care of the children and the family!

Therefore, this society has higher requirements for women than men, and it is actually a little more cruel!

I feel like this is a two-way street, and it's cruel for both men and women. As long as you live in this society, you must adapt to this society, and if you can't change it, you can only change yourself.

First of all, let's talk about men, they all say that men are the pillars of a family, and the burden on their shoulders is really too heavy. After starting a family, a family's expenses, so many mouths every day, are waiting for their meager salary that month. If something big happens, the family doesn't have enough money.

I have to go out and borrow money, which is a very uncomfortable feeling.

Nowadays, many men feel stressed, some don't want to go home, some don't want to go to work, and get drunk to relieve a thousand sorrows. When I woke up drunk, things still didn't work out. The cruelty of society still has to be faced, so it is better to face it bravely.

Let's talk about women, who are like princesses at home, and don't know how to worry. After getting married, you not only have to work, but also take care of your family. After having children, life is even more busy, and I feel that the whole focus of my life revolves around my children and husband.

Isn't it very bitter to live for oneself seldom? But isn't that what society is like? If everyone is treated equally, where will the materials come from?

But there is another kind of life called happiness in bitterness, and tea is also bitter, but there is a kind of sweetness after drinking. So going through the hardships of life will always pay off. Born as a human being, he will inevitably endure hardships. It's up to you how you deal with this kind of suffering.

I think it's more cruel to women.

Every woman always expects herself to meet the right person at the right age to form a happy family, but contemporary society is forcing women all the time to be strong and independent after all, but they refuse to let women join in some positions! The reason is: married and have children, unmarried but looking for a partner, etc. will delay this position!

But did the man really do it again?

A couple got married, and before the marriage, the man's mother said: "As the daughter-in-law of our family, you will not let you be wronged, just quit your job!" "After getting married:

What are you going to buy? Why should you buy it? You don't have a job, your daily duty is to clean the house, take care of the children, I can buy you what you need, what do you want money for?

Why is my son's salary going to you? At this time, many mothers-in-law think: "You don't have a job to support the family, my son works very hard, and you live a very easy housework, why do you have to spend money to buy other things?"

But they forgot who said bitterly in the first place: "Let the daughter-in-law quit her job." ”

Yes, this society is very cruel to women, while demanding that this daughter-in-law must take care of the family while must have her own work salary, some requirements may be more excessive, at this time if your husband is still a mother who only listens to his mother, you will feel that the whole world is black! On the basis of these, women are becoming more and more independent, and the age of marriage is getting later and later, not because they don't want to get married, but because there is no pressure to live alone, if marriage is not for happiness but to push themselves into the abyss, then this abyss can be a little later!

My idea is that women are a little bit more cruel.

Because in my opinion, boys' thoughts mature later than girls, and boys will only use an intuitive attitude to tell others when they target others, I just don't like you very much, I just can't accept your way of doing things. I won't do all the little things behind my back. But generally girls have conflicts with each other, she won't tell each other, she often uses some things that others don't know or hurts others behind their backs, this method is more cruel than boys.

And in my experience since I was a child, I think that when a boy is angry, he will only treat others with an angry expression and solve some violent problems, but when you force a woman to a certain level, she is in a state of madness, she will not think about the consequences of anything, and sometimes she is even more irrational than boys.

And girls will be more savvy than boys, because we all know that where there are more women, there will be more things.

Many norms in modern society have begun to change, the birth of feminism, and the call for equality between men and women have made the status of women begin to rise. Many people will think that this society will make women's lives easier, but in fact, I think these social norms are more cruel to contemporary women, because of the existence of double standards, so that many women have to be strong women outside, and good wives and mothers inside.

Taking the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as an example, many mothers-in-law will ask their daughter-in-law to have a child as soon as possible at home, and after giving birth to a child, they will ask their daughter-in-law to take care of the child at home, otherwise they have not fulfilled the responsibilities that a mother should fulfill, but their son will always be a son and will not be urged to fulfill his father's responsibilities.

The years when a woman is pregnant and lactating can be said to be the most tragic years for a woman, because of the unfamiliarity of first-time motherhood, many things are the first time, so many mistakes will be made. But they still have to rely on their own groping, and during that time, they may not be able to take care of family and career, but due to the double standard of this society, once they are out of balance, they will be condemned.

For example, in some families, because women do not go to work in order to take care of their children, they rely on their husbands to earn money to support their families. But this kind of living on her husband's face is very aggrieved for a woman, if your in-laws are good to you, you are lucky, and if your in-laws are not good to you, then they will treat you as a parasite. If you are proud of your workplace, but you don't take good care of your family, there will still be gossip and attack you, so as a contemporary woman, society is even more cruel to women.

It is an indisputable fact that society is cruel. In this world, survival is not easy, and people face all kinds of difficulties and challenges. However, what is even more cruel is the human heart.

In this competitive society, people are constantly pursuing their own interests and desires. This individualistic and selfish thinking has led to many unjust acts and events. People tend to do whatever it takes to gain for themselves, even at the cost of harming others.

In our society, there are many people who are in a vulnerable position and who are unable to protect their rights and interests. These people may be poor, physically or psychologically handicapped, or they may be discriminated against and excluded. They tend to become the weakest in society, being oppressed and exploited by those who are more powerful.

Some will even take advantage of these vulnerable groups for their own benefit. They will take advantage of the helplessness and ignorance of these people and use them as their own tools to achieve their own ends. This kind of behavior is extremely cruel and immoral, and it not only harms these vulnerable groups, but also undermines the fairness and justice of society as a whole.

In the face of this cruel social reality, we cannot stand idly by, nor can we give up hope. We should uphold the principles of justice and fairness, protect those who are in a vulnerable position, and fight for their rights and dignity for the sake of the mausoleum. We should call on more people to join this struggle and work together to create a more harmonious, just and beautiful society.