Love is true or false, and how to tell if love is true or fake?

Is love real or fake? It depends on how you treat it, I think that if two people love each other, they will think about each other, understand each other, care for each other, trust each other, and if love is built on this, I believe that this kind of love must be true.

A moderator does random interviews on the cross streets. His question is: What is love? It stranged to me that there was no one answer that was the same.

A young girl said that love is like Aunt Qiong Yao**, love is vigorous, and you can only enjoy it.

A middle-aged man said that love is the same as calling a mobile phone, you have to keep calling, and you can only communicate if you keep calling.

And a teenager who seems to be in love says that love is a religion that can change people's beliefs.

A woman who seems to have gone through vicissitudes of life said, love, love is like coffee, although it is bitter, but it is endlessly evocative.

At this time, the host stopped a particularly beautiful woman, this beautiful woman pondered for a while and said, love is like wine, red wine makes people romantic, white wine makes people crazy, beer makes people soothing, but good wine can't be drunk too much, drinking too much will hurt, and some people will stop drinking for life after drinking and drinking; It's the same with love, it's hard to love again after being hurt. I think she said the most wonderful metaphor about love that day, and the love I thought was probably the same.

Later, I met an old couple who were married in silver, and we talked about love during our trip. I said the metaphor of love like wine, and the silver-haired old lady said that this metaphorical image is not the best, and the best love must be like glass.

Glass? Why Liuli? So how can something clear and beautiful be love?

Not even stained with dust? The old lady said, we started with the same idea as you, love is so complicated, how can it be such a pure thing? But as we grow older, we feel more and more that love should be such a pure thing, without any conditions and utilitarianism.

I asked, "Have you loved each other like this all your lives?" Didn't even quarrel? They laughed and shook their heads.

The old gentleman said, how could it be? When I was young, I used to quarrel, and she always complained that I was not as good as other men, or that I didn't love her enough, and we almost went to divorce at the worst time. But then, we slowly got used to each other, and after so many years.

Marriage is like this, it has to go through a certain run-in process, and finally reach the point where you have me and I have you is the top grade in marriage. In this process, if you can get rid of those natural enemies in marriage, such as suspicion, jealousy, vanity, ......Let your marriage become more and more pure, then love will be so simple that it is just love. After speaking, he glanced at his wife affectionately.

The old lady went on to say, at this time, look at your love again, it must be like glass, because it is so clean that it is not stained with dust, just simply love each other, and the material desires and desires in the world have almost no effect in front of you. Therefore, when you are old, if you can still be with your lover, if you want to give love a metaphor, it can only be glass.

One day, I looked through the Buddhist scriptures and suddenly saw a sentence: May my heart be like glass when I am born in the next life of Bodhi. Slowly staring at that sentence, tears flowed. It turns out that love is the same, only if you cultivate it seriously, will you become glass.

It is a difficult thing to tell whether love is true or false because love involves many aspects, including feelings, intellect, emotions, beliefs, etc., and everyone feels and understands these aspects differently. However, there are some indicators that can help us judge the truth of love in general, which are as follows:

1.True love is mutual, not one-sided. If you feel that your feelings are one-sided, or that your significant other is not too much of a fuss, then the emotion is likely to be fake or just a short-lived infatuation.

2.True love is based on mutual understanding and respect, not on appearances, money, or other superficial factors. If you find that your significant other is more concerned about your appearance, income, or other superficial things, then this sentiment is most likely fake.

3.True love is healthy, not pathological. Love should be a positive, healthy force that enhances the growth of the individual and the other person, not a negative, pathological, distorted force.

If you sense that there are unhealthy elements in your relationship such as cheating, dependence, control, etc., then this emotion is likely to be a fake shaman.

4.True love is mature, hall-carrying and not childish. Love should be a mature, stable, and responsible decision, not a choice based solely on emotion, impulsiveness, or passivity.

If you find that you or your significant other are not able to adapt to life's challenges and face the ups and downs of life together, then this emotion is likely to be fake.

In short, distinguishing between true and false love requires us to observe and evaluate accurately and comprehensively, and we need to gradually discover and understand through time and opportunities to get along. Most importantly, we should remain rational and objective, while also trusting our own feelings and intuition to make informed choices.

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What love is exactly.

My friend Q has been coquettish with me many times, obedient, let's go to the UK to get the certificate in the future. Of course I think Q is a joke. Girls like to joke about that.

Last night, Q insisted on sending me home, and I joked that going out with you is at ease, and I don't have to do a play strategy and someone to pick me up, so that I can enjoy the treatment of having a boyfriend. When I parted ways with Q, I said hug, and the next time we met would be half a year later. She complained that I was too homely to see her.

I waved goodbye to her, but she hesitated, and finally said, I'd better wait for your family to come before leaving. We were silent for a while. On hot and dry nights, the evening breeze blows comfortably.

She suddenly spoke, "Why can't you like me?" Yama tung.

I replied casually, I like it, how don't I like it.

She asked, I'm talking about love, can you love me, just love me.

I was stunned, as if I realized something, because she was asking too seriously.

We were in a bustling square, but I felt that the world was unusually quiet.

I joke that you can't give me hormonal excitement. After many years of getting along, it is not so much that you are my friend, but that your family is more suitable.

She was silent for a long time, and I realized that something was wrong. But I don't know how to reply.

I remembered that I casually talked about a boy repeating her studies in order to go to the same university as her girlfriend, and she asked me if she should also repeat her studies, I remembered her resistance and opposition when I talked about the boy I liked, and I remembered her intimacy and dependence on me.

True or lied.

In fact, I was a little disgusted with this method before, which made people so energetic, and felt that it was not honest enough and not real enough. Later, I somewhat understood this approach, which was kind of a way out for each other.