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Poor child.
It turned out to be Sichun.
Good.. If you can realize the wrong thoughts in your heart, you will have a way.
You need to have a goal that you need to achieve in at least two years. A life with purpose doesn't.
It's too boring. What about the goal. You're going to have to figure it out for yourself. You do whatever you like.
bar. Be happy.
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It's not so difficult to make friends Get out of the house and get in touch with the outside world, you're already a little moldy, go out to work, you have the opportunity to contact new friends, in the final analysis, you also said that you didn't want to be in touch with your classmates before, why close yourself, I even participated in elementary school class reunions, in fact, we haven't seen each other for so long and really haven't talked about anything But don't you just want to have a good time See who and who have changed, see what everyone is doing, although it won't be very prominent, but the mood is very good, you hold back your family and be careful of depression.
You can get in touch with your friends and you will be able to meet your friends, so you will naturally have more friends.
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To be honest, even if a woman is in touch with you like you, no woman wants to live with you. A 20-year-old eats at home and waits for death, and your parents are too used to you. If you are not short of money, it is recommended that you travel first, go out first, and see the outside world, your problem is that you stay at home for too long, and people are decadent and become energyless.
When you go outside, look at the scenery, and see how other people live, you will realize how ridiculous you are. You're only 20 years old, and you want to find a woman to live with, why? You ask yourself what you have first, and then what you can ask yourself for?
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Less bragging Very handsome? Hair Zhang** come out to see? Narcissist.
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I don't know much about anyone I meet, but it's not a big deal, and I'm still very happy.
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It's a bit narcissistic! I advise you not to be inferior and decadent! Useless! Isn't it still the same after the decline? Get out and walk more, get more exercise! Staying at home all the time is not good for your health! If you really can't do it, just see a psychiatrist!
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It's time for age. It's time to get married, too. Don't worry about these problems, just be yourself, just be happy, and don't worry about anything else.
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Don't know how old you are?
Do you have a girlfriend now?
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Such a reaction to you should be that your mind has become numb because you have been using your brain and not your heart.
When you do these studies, your rational thinking will develop very quickly, and you will quickly recognize the essence of many things, such as love, you treat it as two people together, listening to ** is listening to a voice, watching a movie is a false thing.
When you get used to this kind of thinking, when you get used to standing in the distance to see things in life, and use your own thinking to explain things in life, then gradually you feel that life is just like this, you think that life is not difficult, it is easy, and you are tired of life and nature.
But in fact, your rational mind has closed yourself off, and you can't feel the pleasures of the world with your heart. Just like love, it includes a need to be cared for by others, a person needs to give love, and there is also trust, tolerance, and understanding.
Your rational thinking is that you are gradually detached from the feelings that a person should have, so you feel uninteresting. But if you ask people who are in love how they feel, there are definitely many, many of them, and you just lack them.
So you should learn to feel, you should learn to use the word like, you should learn to feel bad, you should learn to feel happy.
In short, when you don't want to do it so much, then you will feel tired, feel that the effort is refreshing, feel ...
Hope you can be happy.
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We must learn to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life with our hearts, rather than seeing them with our eyes, so that life will become better and better.
At the same time, it also shows the maturity of a person.
You are now at such a childish stage. What is discovered by the eyes alone is often false and unreal. It's like the emperor's new clothes.
In this way, it is impossible to feel the beauty that transcends reality.
The price of obtaining this beauty is to endure loneliness for years and to sweat silently and generously.
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Have a tendency to depression.
It is recommended that you see a professional psychological counseling agency.
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I think you're a very irresponsible person. Wouldn't you care about the person who gave birth to you and raised you? Won't they be heartbroken to see you like this?
It's better to wake up quickly and do something meaningful to yourself and your family! I advise you to stop thinking about some nonsense, which will only make you more immersed in the psychological abyss of depression. Try to reach out to people in the sun, talk to them, open your heart, and speak your mind out loud.
It is said that life is short, and you are so numb to life, which is sad, I wish you a bright day.
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The mood has been improved, just like a doctor who has seen life and death.
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Maybe it's because you've been doing this kind of thing for a long time, and you get bored with it, and you feel that you already know it very well, and you don't want to do it anymore, so you feel very bored.
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Maybe you haven't found the meaning of your life yet.
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Actually, this is normal, just to give you a simple example: you are eating at a restaurant, and a customer at the next table orders a plate of food that you have never eaten before, and the dish looks good and the person is very happy, you may wonder if you want to have a plate too.
In this example, first of all, it happened at your next table, which is very close to your situation, and the experience of other people seems good to you, and you think it is "worth trying". Secondly, a dish is just a dish, which is within your (spending) power, and you "can" try; Then, the guest's reaction to the dish was pleasant, which made one think that the "result of the trial" would be good.
In the same way, what you see is **-1, close to reality, and even consistent with your situation; 2. Although the protagonist's experience is tortuous, it seems good to you; 3. What the protagonist does is also within your ability; 4. The final ending of the protagonist is good.
Therefore, it is normal for you to have the above thoughts, it is human nature to want to try something new, especially if it looks good;
However, there is an essential difference between thinking and doing, and just imagining is never a problem.
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The climate can indeed produce some bad emotions for people, especially like rain, winter, autumn, all these moods arouse your fragile nerves. Everyone will be in this situation at some point.
Maybe you've been socially disconnected for too long, or maybe you're feeling a little tired, and there are other reasons.
If you feel lonely, give a ** to the people around you, it's not a shameful thing.
Winter nights are cold, but people's hearts are still warm. Don't be easily defeated by some dilemmas. In the future, you will encounter such a situation, sometimes you feel sad, lonely, infinitely sad, and want to cry, which means that you are tired.
It's been a long time since I've been able to relax and be happy. Take proper rest.
It's normal to touch the scene and elevate the emotion. Perhaps, it might be better to cry. Don't lose faith in life. Don't think about the bad things, it's not a good habit. This is inevitable, this hurdle will pass after a while. Have faith in yourself.
If there is anything else you need to ask, you can go ahead and ask.
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You're supposed to be single, it's time for a relationship or something.
Ay. I'll tell you.
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