I m sick and hospitalized, and my boyfriend is going to break up with me and disappear?

If your boyfriend is sick and wants to break up with you and disappears, this kind of boyfriend is not a thing and has no sense of responsibility.

You are sick and hospitalized, and then your boyfriend broke up with you and disappeared, so it's okay, a little thing can see this man's heart, not responsible, irresponsible, just break up, lest you be unhappy in your life.

Hello friend, it is a sad and sad thing to be sick and hospitalized, and it is really worse to meet a boyfriend like this, but there are always two sides to things, you can recognize his true face through this matter, it is much better than getting married and then divorced, you can treat the disease with peace of mind, take care of your body, there will always be someone who really loves you, I wish you happiness!

Maybe your boyfriend thinks that your illness is a big expense, and he can't afford it, so he will break up with you, and your boyfriend thinks that your illness is a big expense, and he can't afford it, so he will break up with you.

This kind of person is a scumbag who retreats when he encounters difficulties, so you should be glad.

I have not met him, but I can be sure that he is a selfish man, and I should be glad that I can see through a person through a small thing.

The sooner someone like this leaves you, the luckier you are. Don't be sad and find someone who loves you.

Such a boy, if you don't break up, what are you waiting for? A boy doesn't care about you when you're sick, so boy, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart at all or you don't matter in his heart at all, I think when a person is sick is the most vulnerable time, at this time he doesn't know how to care about you, what will they be like after they get married? Such a boy should stay away from him as soon as possible!

A person who does not know how to care about others, he will not bring you happiness after you get married.

When you are in love, you don't know how to take care of you when you are sick, and they don't care about you, which means that you are not so important in his heart. There is such an example around me, a boy never forgets his ex-girlfriend, so he just ignores and cares about his current girlfriend, and never takes care of him when he is sick. Later, his current girlfriend couldn't stand him like this, and finally chose to break up with him.

But after the boy broke up, he felt that this female current girlfriend was actually quite good, and chased her in turn. In the end, the two still regretted not being together, because the girl thought that this boy might have another person in his heart, so it might not be so good for her in the future, and it might be even worse after marriage, so she finally chose to leave.

I think this girl's approach is still more sensible, because if a boy always hides someone in his heart, he may have reservations about you, and when you are so fragile when you are sick, he doesn't know how to take care of you, so what's the use of us asking him? A boy is to stand up a shoulder when people and women are vulnerable, so that we can rely on them. If he can't let us rely on him, then I think it's better to stay away from him and look for the next happiness.

Take care of yourself when you're sick and don't count on your boyfriend.

The more you are sick, the more you want someone to take care of you, I understand this feeling, it is really lonely, as if you have been abandoned by the whole world, and there is no one to be by your side when you are most uncomfortable. No one takes care of himself, he is like a lonely old man, no one cares.

When you need your boyfriend by your side, he is always not around, don't feel wronged, you should get used to it, not everyone will be there for you when you need it, everyone has his own things to be busy with, you have to understand him. Don't always expect him to be there for you, the more you expect from him, the greater the disappointment! Instead of hoping and being disappointed in the end, don't expect him to take care of you!

Take care of yourself when you're sick, and you'll be able to heal yourself. Why expect someone who is not reliable?

If you treat him as the most important person, but he doesn't treat you as the only one, then you lose, because in his heart you are too excited, too much believe in love, so when he is a little bad for you, you will feel very disappointed. Don't take love too seriously, after all, you don't know what the other party thinks in their hearts, and details defeat love. You will definitely know from the details of getting along with you whether he loves you or not, and if he doesn't love you and you still give your all, then make yourself stupid.

Why care about someone who doesn't care about you?

You're sick and your boyfriend doesn't come to take care of you, once, twice is fine, if it's too many times, do you think it's just an accident? In fact, he doesn't have you in his heart at all, at least he doesn't like you that much, you still expect him to take care of you, don't think about taking care of yourself! Although, the reality is cruel, but you must be made clear that there is no need to put in a lot of effort about someone who doesn't care about you.

Because no one will take you seriously, take care of yourself and don't expect him to take care of you again. If you feel wronged in your heart, you have to endure it first. The grievances you suffer now are the water that entered your brain at the beginning.

If your boyfriend doesn't take care of you when you're sick, it can only mean that he is not very good to you, you shouldn't be so good to him from now on, and don't count on him, there is no good result anyway.

Actually, he already had this idea, and if you bring it up, it will be exactly what he wants. If I really love you, how can I not take this opportunity to show my love. It means that you are not important.

Maybe he's at work, maybe he's playing games. This shows that earning money or playing games is more important than you.

Educate him first and let him know how you feel.

If you don't change your ways, you should consider breaking up again.

I think you should understand the actual situation before deciding, if your boyfriend doesn't come to see you, you are sick, if it is because he thinks it is troublesome to take care of you, he thinks that you are sick and troublesome, and he is unwilling to come and take care of you, then he must be an unworthy one, there is no need to entangle, to think, to be sad, he is an irresponsible person and he will definitely break up.

If your boyfriend doesn't know you're sick, but you think he knows you're sick and he doesn't come to see you, is that a misunderstanding? You should find a way to let him know that you are sick, or you just don't want to trouble him, and then you don't tell him that your illness is not very serious, so it's good to wait for you to get better, and then talk about it as a joke.

It is also possible that your illness is not particularly serious, and then he happens to have a particularly urgent matter, such as something urgent at home, or a friend has something urgent, and then you also have someone to take care of, and it is not particularly anxious, he just didn't come to see it for the time being, I feel that you should be considerate of him, after all, no one has the obligation to take full care of anyone, everyone has their freedom, and everyone has a time when something happens.

Therefore, when encountering things, we must first understand the actual situation before making a decision, don't say that he didn't come to see me, he treats me badly, I must break up, I must consider the actual situation, combined with what he is usually like, and then make a decision. There are many couples whose relationship breaks down because of impulsiveness, so whether it is a relationship or daily life, you must not be too impulsive and learn to understand the truth of the matter.

I was sick, and my boyfriend didn't want to see me from the bottom of my heart. I don't care about myself at all, so I can't even care about my friends, so I really have to think about it.

Break up, it means that he doesn't like you and doesn't care about you. Love should be warm and simple, as long as I like you, I will think about you everywhere, everything is for you, how can you not even want to see you when you are sick, this shows that I don't care about you.

Be sure to break up, if you are sick and your boyfriend doesn't have time to come, it's understandable, but you can't say that he doesn't want to come, and if he doesn't want to come, it means that he doesn't care about you, he doesn't care about why you still have to be with him.

To break up. If you are sick and your boyfriend is reluctant to come to see you, it only means that she does not care about you. There is no happiness in being with someone who doesn't care about you. This kind of feeling is not worth cherishing.

I think you should ask the reason before deciding! Sometimes your boyfriend really has something to do without, so he won't have time to visit you, but if you find that your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all, you break up with him.

I think we should break up. Because you are sick and he doesn't go to see you, it can only show that your position in his heart is not important, and at the same time, it also reflects that this boy has no responsibility and no responsibility. In order to avoid more pain in the future, I think I should choose to break up, the sooner the better.

Depending on the situation, don't think about breaking up and solving problems directly. First and foremost, find out if your boyfriend has something that he can't get out of and can't come to visit. After finding out the reason, if your boyfriend really doesn't care about you, then there is no need to deal with someone like this elsewhere.

Break up, because you are sick when you need his attention the most, but he is unwilling to come, which proves that he does not take you to heart at all, otherwise he will be very anxious about your physical condition and come to visit you immediately.

It must be divided into situations, what kind of disease? A mild cold or a serious cancer? Why is my boyfriend reluctant to come?

Is there really no way to come? Or don't you care if you're too troublesome to come? Think about it rationally, if it's really your boyfriend who is too much, you can break up.

I think you should break up, the main reasons:

One, this man doesn't love you

Being sick is a time when a woman is vulnerable, and you are in a relationship, and your boyfriend doesn't care about you every time, let alone expect how good he is to you after getting married. He shouldn't love you, I also met such a person, and broke up decisively.

When IMeet someone who truly loves me, once I broke my leg, boyfriendCarry me in the middle of the nightHitGo to the hospital。I slept with him in the hospital for 1 night, and then went to work the next day. After being discharged from the hospital, he helped to observe the recovery and assisted in wiping his hands and feet.

Second, this man has no sense of responsibility

A man who doesn't come to visit you, in addition to not caring, still hates trouble, or is afraid that he will be affected. I remember one time, I had a cold, and my ex-boyfriend asked me to wear a mask. It was a reasonable request, but it made me feel bad.

When I met someone who really loved me, I went to Seven Star Rock onceI had a cold stomach and wanted to vomit, but he was not afraid of being dirty, so he helped me vomit.

Third, the future life needs to be shared and undertaken

Life after marriage is long and we will face:

a mediocre and repetitive life;

Take care of the child's daily routine;

the trivial tasks of taking care of the house;

fight against the life-threatening effects of disease;

Parents who care for the elderly.

A man, stingy with his concern for you, in the face of these great difficulties, he will choose to escape, and in the end only you alone will bear it, such a marriage is a loss for you, and will not be happy.

It's okay once, the most important thing is that there is no time, what girls need is love, not when you need to come and go, you don't want to linger from time to time, this kind of love is very tired, just like a hollowed out watermelon, worthless.

Grass does not have the nourishment of water in the soil, it will not grow tall, fruit trees do not fertilize regularly, do not apply pesticides and insects from time to time, will not grow fruits, without the baptism of sunlight, trees will not become shade, everything has a cause and effect.

Love is not maintained, just like a wilted flower, even if the sun is enough, even if the moisture is enough, it will still wither, it is only a matter of time.

Some things can't change with our hearts, so why not go with the flow, what should come will always come, and you just accelerate it in advance. People who don't love you, in his eyes, you are the grass, and those who love you, you are the pearl in the palm.

A person who struggles to maintain this relationship will only make your heart full of holes, will only make you lose confidence in love, give yourself a chance to find the person who is suitable for you, the person who does not need you to work hard to maintain the relationship alone, and give yourself enough time to meet him.

And you don't have to spend your youth in this relationship, women are no better than men, men are still a flower at thirty, and women are an aunt at thirty.

We can't afford to gamble on our youth, so we can only let it go. What's more, there are so many men in the world, why bother to fall in love with the person who doesn't put you on the tip of your heart.

If you feel that he actually loves you, but he is immature, in fact, you can say what is in your heart, it is not good to hold it for a long time, and some things will be smooth when you say it.

Girls are very fragile and sensitive when they are sick, and what they want most is to be cared for and cared for by their boyfriends. But some boys are nervous, he doesn't understand the twists and turns of girls, low emotional intelligence and feeling that girls are just minor diseases, so he only sends text messages to greet oneUnder. So this alone can't arbitrarily say that this guy doesn't love you, you need to combine his other performances to make a correct judgment.

I went to see him the next day and had a very serious conversation about the subject. After having a personal experience, my boyfriend will never say the words "drink more hot water" to me again, and slowly learn to care for me with practical actions。So girls don't think about it themselves, if your boyfriend's concern is not up to your satisfaction, then say it bluntly and clearly express your needs.

Maybe the boy will realize his problem and correct it.

Of course, if he deals with similar problems in the future and is still so perfunctory and indifferent to you, then there is no need to be together, this boy does not take you to the bottom of his heart at all. If you are sick, be strong and go to the doctor yourself, don't expect boys to help and take care of them, don't want such a boyfriend.