Tomorrow to get married and bring guests, can my wife have liquid at the man s house tonight?

According to our northern customs, tomorrow we can't spend the night at the man's house when we get married, and tomorrow the bride will send the bride to the man, and the man will prepare to welcome him on this day.

No, according to the customs of our country, men and women are not allowed to meet the night before marriage, and if it is a daughter-in-law who marries far away, they can go to the nearest hotel for one night and cannot stay at the man's house.

Okay, if you say it's a joint marriage, it means that it's convenient to prepare together, and then treat you tomorrow or something? Another is that if the woman lives farther away from the courtyard of the man's house, or far away from the place where the banquet is held, why not rest or spend the night on the man's side? Is it convenient to go?

Don't worry so much.

Now the era does not pay attention to these things, you say that tomorrow you need the bride to help bring guests, that is, how convenient and more can be, more guests really need help, in the past, the tradition was not to spend the night at the man's house. Happy Wedding! Happiness! There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!

Definitely can't, I'm going to my mother's house tomorrow to pick up my relatives, you can't talk about it at the man's house.

It doesn't seem appropriate in terms of customs, it's not a wife today, and you're not bad for this day!

In fact, it should be discussed, and it doesn't matter who you go to. We have a lot of traditional beliefs in China, and the New Year reunion should be a happy thing, but for newlyweds, or even couples who are about to get married, the New Year's holiday is a headache.

Every time you have to argue about whose house to go to during the New Year's holiday, this seems to indicate that whoever you go to has more status. For me, none of this matters. Couples should discuss these things.

Many families can't accept that their children go to someone else's house for the New Year, so couples can discuss with each other, and it is best for parents who can accommodate one party, and don't make trouble because of these things.

If the two families do not have a strong demand in this regard, then both men and women can come differently, going to the man's house this year and the woman's house next year. Or after getting married, you can choose to live alone or travel. The most important thing is to care for your family, and don't spoil the atmosphere because of some unnecessary arguments.

If it's a holiday, I'm going to your house. Because the words of the New Year are united. If the days are spoken.

New Year's holiday. In short, if you are in your room, the man's parents will. Get up on the wrong side of the bed.

If you are united, you will be a family together. If so, there you go. I remember that tomorrow will be a little unsightly.

I must go to my in-law's house first. After eating, it's okay to get angry with you and go to another house. Therefore, according to the Chinese national tradition.

I must go to my in-law's house first. Then I went to visit the woman's house.

Part A brings together the elders of both sides.

It is a good way to bring the elderly of both sides together, and bring the parents of both sides to their homes, which is called the real New Year's reunion, and the parents of both sides believe that they do not have any concerns, isn't it better to do this?

Part B takes turns to go to each other's house for the New Year.

Since they are husband and wife, they have to think about each other in everything they do. Don't always think that only your parents are parents, the New Year is a lively and festive thing, why bother if you are unhappy or even divorced?

If you have to choose to spend the New Year at one party's house, then you can only use this method. For example, if you decide to go to the woman's house for the New Year this year, then the man should prepare all the New Year's goods for the elderly early in the year.

You still need to do some maintenance when you come back from your mother-in-law's house, and accompany your parents to see if they still need anything, so that they can feel your heart in advance.

I have time to go, but I don't have time to depend on the situation. According to the tradition of the Chinese nation, festivals, especially the Spring Festival, are usually spent at the man's house, that is, his mother-in-law's house or his own home, and then visit the woman's house.

With the development of the times and many practical factors in today's society, it has become less certain whether to go to the man's house or the woman's house for the holidays, and it seems to have become a matter of debate for many couples.

According to traditional customs, going to the man's house during the festival has been a habit that has been passed down for many years.

According to the custom that has been handed down since ancient times, men marry women. During the New Year's holidays, the husband and wife should return to the man's house together and the family will be reunited. Moreover, such a state still exists in many families.

Some people may feel that this state of affairs reflects the stereotype of male superiority and inferiority of women, and should be abandoned. However, I personally feel that we are already ahead of the West compared to the West, which has been boasting about human rights! At least, we didn't ask women to change their surname when they married into the man's family......

Moreover, nowadays, more and more couples have a more perfect solution to the question of who to return to during the holidays: on the basis of respecting traditional customs, through equal consultation, to solve the problem. Now, quite a few young couples have taken the approach of going back to your house to see your parents this year and my home next year.

This is both fair and reasonable, fully takes into account the feelings of both parents, reflects the harmony and harmony of the family to the greatest extent, and at the same time fully respects and demonstrates the good tradition of filial piety to the elderly and family harmony in traditional customs. This is the best way to solve it.

I am a female, so after I get married, I will definitely let my other half follow me to my house first during the New Year's holidays!

Well, not starting from gender, logically speaking, I also think that the New Year holiday should go to the woman's house first.

It is said that the daughter who married out spilled the water, and the parents worked hard to raise their daughterAs a result, she married and became someone else's daughter-in-law, and became someone else's daughter, and finally didn't go home to reunite with them during the New Year's holidays?

I think I can set a rule, go to the man's house one year, and go to the woman's house one year, because many families are only children now, and they are all parents' treasures, so that's itTo be fair, take turns to celebrate the holidays.

During the Chinese New Year this year, my sister went back to my uncle's house for the first time, and I was stunned!

Because since she has been married for more than five years, she has spent the New Year in the man's house, and when I went to my uncle's house a few years ago, I saw my uncle and my aunt eating Chinese New Year's Eve, and then they didn't speak, looking very sad and uncomfortable, I told my mother at that time that I would come back to accompany them for the New Year.

So this year, my sister suddenly changed her mind and came back for the New Year, and said that she would spend the New Year on one side and take turns in the future, and I thought it was so good at the time.

During the Chinese New Year this year, my sister brought her two daughters to celebrate the New Year, and my uncle's house was instantly lively, and I could see that my uncle was very happy!

Therefore, after getting married, you must go to the woman's house for the holidays, because girls need more respect and love, and they are the intimate little padded jackets of their parentsThe wife is the biggest, of course, go to the woman's house first!

After that, they take turns to come, one side is not cold, if you live close, you can also be on one side at noon, on one side at night, perfect!

I think it's polite for both parties to go if they can. Which one to go to first? It can be resolved through negotiation between the two parties, and if according to the traditional view, you should go to the man's house first, and then to the woman's house.

Should I go to the man's house or the woman's house for the holidays? My feeling should go to your room first. Always you defend.

First priority. Then go to the man's house. The two families go separately, and it is best to stay for a few days.

Because there are old people. So. Go to the woman's house first.

The man's family is an old man, I don't think he will be picky. Then go back to the man's house. Because of our New South.

Greatly.

In the traditional concept of the Chinese, every New Year's festival must go to the man's home to celebrate the festival, now you can choose to go to the man's home first, and then go to the woman's home, which is a good choice.

The traditional moral concept of Chinese used to go to the man's house first on holidays, because not only the man's family thought it was a natural truth. There is a superstitious saying in many women's families that when a girl gets married, she must spend the holidays at the man's house, and she can't look at the lights of her mother's house, which will have a bad impact on the boys of her mother's family. I know this firsthand.

I went home for the New Year another year, and my sister-in-law was very angry and quarreled with my mother.

Now the only child is different, in fact, depending on the actual situation of both parties, the two people can discuss it, this time to go to the man's house, next time to the woman's house.

This problem should be more of a headache, the new daughter-in-law New Year is different according to each local customs, the first year is mainly to come to the door to recognize a relative, and relatives will also give red envelopes, male relatives to the woman red envelopes, female relatives to the man red envelopes. Generally, the first to go is the relatives on the man's side, starting with the most important and closest and then gradually leaving. The same is true for women, but in recent years, the customs have become more and more pure, and there are many places that make it difficult for people to go to relatives, and some even quarrel and quarrel that lead to divorce just after marriage, so this is also a very important interpersonal relationship compulsory course.

The reason why the new daughter-in-law goes to someone's house first is that both parties think that you don't value each other's relatives, and on the issue of being closest to the relatives over there, it reflects whether the new daughter-in-law will marry someone and marry her heart, and the new daughter-in-law will think that everyone is married, and her relatives must go first when they are far away in the future, and even if they are married, their relatives are still their closest. This is a war between husband and wife or even two families, and there is also a war between relatives, in many places in the north, relatives will think that you are here to collect red envelopes, and if you don't go, they will feel that you don't recognize them, so this is also the most tangled thing. In our country, people and customs have changed a lot, and there is no longer the concept of being too simple in the past, and people's minds are also mixed.

It's good to get married, and it's a very happy thing, but after this heavy change of customs, there are a lot of shackles, so that marriage is not simple, and the society is changing rapidly, the concept of the previous generation and this generation has been different from 108,000 miles, the conflict of concepts, the conflict of living habits, the conflict of human nature, like a microcosm of society, no matter how everyone has to take this step, but it is also very simple, and now their families are far away, unless they visit relatives during the New Year's holiday.

If you can deal with these relationships, it means that you are a mature person in society, and there is no problem in mixing in society, which is the first lesson in life.

When two people get married, there must be priorities and mutual respect, the primary and secondary is that some aspects need to listen to a person, and mutual respect is to focus on each other. It's balanced.

Those seven aunts and eight aunts are inevitable, just get married and behave well.

I am an only child, and my husband has a younger brother with my in-laws. My husband and I are a year-old mother-in-law's house, and my mother-in-law's house is not too far, an hour and a half away from the highway. Generally, when I celebrate the New Year at my mother's house, I go back to my mother-in-law's house to visit relatives, and I come back on the third or fourth day of the new year at my mother-in-law's house.

But when it comes to the atmosphere of the New Year, it is still lively on the mother's side, especially when my grandma is still there, the uncles and aunts are all together, and the relationship is also harmonious. Now my grandma is gone, because my mother is the boss, so they all gather at my mother's house. When I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I had a dinner, sometimes it was a dumpling, or a few simple dishes, and the little uncle and concubine didn't have a good face when we went back, and after dinner, they went back to their respective homes to sleep, and they felt very lonely.

In fact, my family is in the city, and my mother-in-law's family is in the countryside, and I have always thought that the New Year in the countryside should be more lively than in the city, because my ancestral hometown in Jiangsu is also a rural area, and the New Year is very lively, but I didn't expect my husband's house to celebrate the New Year is really not New Year's flavor. But for the sake of my husband, I still have to go back.

I will go to my mother-in-law's house, because my mother is no longer your family, a girl who has been married, you are a guest when you go to your mother's house, and your mother-in-law's house is your home, so you should go to your mother-in-law's house for the holidays.

You should still go to the man's house for the holidays.

In our traditional Chinese culture, if a girl marries, she should be husband-oriented. During the New Year's holidays, the man should go to the man's house, and then the man takes his wife and children to visit the woman's mother's house, relatives and friends.

Although in recent years, many times to go to the man's house or to the woman's house is a decision between two people. But as Chinese, we still have to respect Chinese traditions, women are mainly husbands, and it is better to go to the man's house for the holidays.

We should go to the man's house during the holidays, because that's how we were educated. When we can't ask for a bride price, we all respect traditional cultural customs, and when we celebrate the festival, we have to do new things, which is unfair to the man. Of course, if the two of them have discussed it, it doesn't matter if they go to the woman's house.