After reading Dream of Red Mansions, do you still believe in childhood sweethearts?

Updated on culture 2024-06-28
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course I believe it, the Dream of Red Mansions describes the life of ancient dignitaries and nobles, but in reality, many people are ordinary people, I think Qingmei Zuma still has it, two little guesses, two people can have a topic.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and as they grew older, they performed a pure love that shocked the world and cried ghosts and gods. Although Bao Dai did not get married in the end, it is fortunate to have a confidant of the opposite sex and an unforgettable love in her life. People have feelings.

    In life, spiritual needs are more important than material needs. Everyone wants to have a childhood sweetheart and a happy love. Love can lead to marriage, of course it is perfect.

    But the world is unpredictable, even if you can't get married, beautiful love is also a sweet and happy memory. The love of childhood sweethearts is hard to find. Of course I do.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    George Bernard Shaw once said that there are 20,000 people on earth who are suitable to be your mate, and it depends on who you meet first. It's a childhood sweetheart, or two little guesses, both of which are gentle over the years. What a blessing.

    Xi Murong said in "Transparent Sadness" that happy love is the same thing, but unhappy love has its own causes, and there are two most common reasons: too early, or too late. Dream of Red Mansions, so to speak, in order to criticize the feudal etiquette society, the author sacrificed the love of a pair of childhood sweethearts, and used tragedy to warn the world.

    I still believe in the love of childhood sweethearts, I believe in love at first sight, but also believe in love over time, love is everyone's, it is not an objective law, it is not eternal, everyone has their own love. Although some people are suffering in love, who would doubt that this is not the love he chooses. Although some people are happy in love, who is qualified to judge them for living in love.

    It's nothing more than drinking water, knowing how warm and cold it is.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Childhood sweethearts represent a beautiful experience of growing up together, and it does not necessarily mean that childhood sweethearts must be married after all. The tragedy of Bao Dai mentioned in "Dream of Red Mansions" does not refer to the tragedy of childhood sweethearts, but refers to the fact that in the face of real family interests, many spiritual fits are actually incompatible. The heart is connected, and it is not worth mentioning in front of the feudal marriage values, or it is not important.

    Therefore, after watching the ending of "Dream of Red Mansions", there is no inevitable connection between Xiang and not believing that childhood sweethearts. I think I still believe in childhood sweethearts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I still believe in childhood sweethearts, and I think childhood emotions are the most sincere, pure, and unadulterated relationships. It's not just love, it's also friendship, the younger you are, the friends you make are the most iron buddies.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I believe it, but I can't meet it. Bao Dai's love just shows that the childhood sweethearts are good, they didn't succeed because they were subjected to external resistance, and now they are free to love, without these resistances, it's difficult to find what they like, the two sides of the childhood sweethearts understand, and they have feelings, the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course I believe it.,Childhood sweethearts are a hazy innocent and beautiful love.。 Dream of Red Mansions does not directly write that Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are childhood sweethearts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I still believe in childhood sweethearts, because childhood sweethearts have no suspicion, it is the kind of interpretation of pure love, after all, the purest love is what we yearn for the most, Lang rides a bamboo horse, and goes around the bed to make green plums. Living together for thousands of miles, the two have no suspicions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I still believe that the feelings of childhood sweethearts are very valuable, innocent and not mixed with a little impurity, I also believe that even if it ends in tragedy, even if it ends in a tragedy, even if it is separated in the end, the memories are also beautiful, happy or sad, love or resentment, have been integrated into life, into youth, into the years.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone has their own life, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are childhood sweethearts, but in the end, the marriage was not completed, I still believe in childhood sweethearts. The love between the two of them is really singable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The era and the love of that era reflected in "Dream of Red Mansions" coincided with the environment, culture, system and other aspects of the time. The current society is completely different from the social situation at that time, and this has nothing to do with whether or not you have read "Dream of Red Mansions". I believe there will be childhood sweethearts then, and there may be now, but they are rare.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Childhood sweethearts achieve love, this is very common in real life, and there are many people who successfully hold hands to the end. This is not a fact that can be changed by just a dream of red mansions. Dream of Red Mansions itself is Cao Xueqin, based on her own personal experience and legends.

    This also adds a lot of his own imagination. After reading Dream of Red Mansions, I may believe in the love of childhood sweethearts even more.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't believe it, because now the cities and rural areas are changing too fast, many people have moved into the city or far away, and they can't find their childhood playmates.

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