To what extent do you come into contact with selfish people?

Some people are not only selfish, they are so selfish that they can infringe on the interests of others without any scruples for the sake of their own meaning, and even violate the law. Personally, I think selfishness is everyone's nature, everyone wants to get more benefits, it's human nature, it's inevitable, but we have law in addition to self, there is also society and order.

My aunt is actually a very selfish person, in order to live a better life for herself, she even did not hesitate to leave her uncle and children behind, and traveled thousands of miles to find her own happiness, but she was deceived and penniless, and wanted to return to her uncle's side.

I used to help my roommate get the courier, once we bought bedclothes, there were four clothes in one package, plus I had two or three packages myself, so it was heavier, I took the package to class and told my roommate that this package is so heavy, and you can help me bring one when I go back, she said why should I help you bring it, and it is not my own clothes. It's really selfish.

It reminds me of a person I knew before, and I really don't understand why she is like this, it was a former colleague of mine who came to my house to eat my daughter's snacks and secretly smeared my makeup. I don't know if I quit my job, I heard that my friend said that she told her boss that she wanted to resign and left without getting permission, which made my friend embarrassed. I didn't know if I found a new job after quitting my job, so I was blocked directly.

Roommates get up at three o'clock in the middle of the night to go to the toilet and turn on the dormitory lights, the dormitory does not have a separate bathroom, just one room, two lights, it is scary to wake up in the middle of the night! There are also ex-roommates, whose mother lives in our dormitory every weekend, snoring and talking in their dreams, and finally gets up at six o'clock to go out on weekends.

My aunt has four children, she doesn't make breakfast every day, so she comes to my house to fill breakfast, and every time she takes advantage of my mother's absence to take anything, she doesn't know how to buy fruit for my mother, and she also asks me if I have bought moon cakes for her.

When I shared a house, I basically never saw this roommate clean the room, and I was very sloppy, and often threw the garbage into the trash can prepared by others.

I don't have that much money right now. My relatives said: I know you don't have any money, don't you have a building in your house?

If you sell the building, you'll have money.

I've come into contact with people who are selfish, who only care about their own interests, and often they don't care about your feelings, and they don't care about how you're doing.

I didn't bring a meal card at the same table, so I borrowed it. But I only had a dozen dollars left in my card, and after I told her, she said, "You won't die if you're hungry at noon."

Generally speaking, people who are very selfish themselves, such people will always feel that others are selfish, not because others are too selfish, but because he himself is too selfish.

A person who is too selfish, he thinks about his own interests everywhere, thinks about himself everywhere, always thinks about what benefits he wants to get, what rewards he gets, once he doesn't get benefits, he can't get benefits, when he can't get returns, he will feel that others are very selfish, he doesn't know how to think from the perspective of others, he will only think from his own point of view, such people are very selfish.

The more selfish a person is, the more selfish he will feel that others are selfish, and generally such a person does not know how to empathize, he will only think about himself and will not think about others. And a person who really knows how to think from the perspective of others will not feel that others are selfish, he will consider that others also have other people's difficulties, he will understand others and tolerate others.

What a person says about others is often that kind of person himself. Others are a mirror, and when someone constantly pays attention to whether others are selfish or not, and often says that others are selfish, this person may be a very selfish person, because he is very sensitive to others, so that he himself behaves more selfishly than others in this regard. And people who always say that others are defective in some aspect, he only sees the shortcomings of others, and we see that it is best to pay more attention to the advantages of others, so that we can learn from each other's strengths and make more progress.

A selfish person feels that others are selfish, because he feels that it is selfish for others not to follow his demands or the way of doing things.

Hello friends. Only a selfish person will feel that others are selfish and cautious. He always measured others with his own mind. Add your own thoughts to others. If you agree with me, thank you.

You can't see the contribution of others, no matter how good you are to him, you will take it for granted. If you have a bad one, you will also deny all your good because of this bad one, and even continue to find fault with your efforts and your goodness.

At home, I can always deny a woman's dedication and sacrifice easily, and I often hang on my lips

Aren't you just taking care of the children and doing housework? Which woman doesn't come over like this, you complain a lot. ”

So a selfish person can never be fed, the better you treat him, the more he is not moved, and will only ask others to do something for him, without thinking about what he can do and what he can do.

Including when you come home from work and see that you are so busy, you will not think of taking the initiative to help and see if there is anything you can do to help.

Enjoy married life strongly, leave all the hard and suffering parts to you, and you have not yet been moved.

2. Take care of yourself.

A person who feeds the whole family is not hungry, never thinks of others, the last bottle of yogurt in the refrigerator, the last bite of hot food on the dinner table, always sees it even if it is his own. So he only has himself in his eyes, and he only thinks about himself in everything, regardless of the feelings of his wife and children.

When you get home from work and gobble it up by yourself, under what circumstances can you leave some food for your wife? He especially didn't like to eat. As long as it is what you like to eat, you only care about eating to your heart's content.

Unexpectedly, his wife is still working overtime, she has not eaten, and she has no care for her wife, let alone pity.

Keeping everything for oneself and not being one's own is the one you hate.

I never feel that there is a problem with myself, I dump the blame whenever something happens, and I never take into account the feelings of others in doing anything.

It should be. Falling in love with an oak Changzi person is an innate ability as a human being. No matter how much people are pointed out and criticized by the world, there will be times when they fall in love with another person completely.

However, people who are particularly selfish always put themselves first. At the moment of loving you, he will willingly put you above him, but when Liang's love gradually fades, his selfish nature will be exposed, and everything will be prioritized by himself. When there is any conflict of interest, he can even deny his relatives.

Therefore, I always feel that it is necessary to find a person who is broad-minded, distinguishes between right and wrong, and does something and does not do something. Even if the last shot is scattered, a person with this quality will handle everything with kindness, after all, this trait is his background color, which is the cultivation of a good person.