Can other people s bear children be beaten?

Of course you can't fight! In other words, the bear child is more naughty, naughty is the nature of children, and their own children are reluctant to fight, let alone other people's children!

And if you hit someone else's child, the parents will definitely not be happy.

When our own children make us angry, we silently say in our hearts, we can't help but bear what we give birth to, then you think about other people's children, who are also born and raised by other people's parents, and their parents are reluctant to beat, then we, as outsiders, we can't fight, we can only say, patiently help preach, or tell his parents some ways of bear children, and his parents will educate.

On the other hand, bear children will be smarter, and such children will have better prospects for future development. Some behaviors of the bear child, we try not to support, especially not a big problem, as long as it does not affect his normal lifestyle, and disturb our normal life, then we don't care.

As a mother, my own children are actually more naughty, sometimes a week by their own can not stand it, when looking at other people's children, in fact, more patient, the biggest heart of the child to disturb us, not only do I not feel annoying, but will like more, and even feel how this child is so smart, so small, has its own thoughts, so small, so naughty, I think it is very cute, and even sometimes I think if my baby is like this, It's also fun, but in fact, if your baby is so fierce, you really can't stand it?

I don't care about the bear child, let him develop well, the child is a child after all, if we intervene, is there any difference between us and the child? We can't restrain our children with behavioral requirements.

Resolutely not to beat, after all, this is not their own child, it is someone else's family, their parents may think that their children have not yet been their turn to let others teach a lesson, and in case the child is injured, they must be responsible for it, so there will be more involvement, and it will be troublesome.

In other words, bear children are actually very naughty children, children are naughty is their nature, which child is not naughty, children are children after all, they are still young and ignorant. There is a child next door who is afraid of the cat heat and puts the cat in the refrigerator, which makes people cry and laugh, but the child's original intention is good, we should not hit the child.

In addition to hitting the children, go to another way of education, for example, you can go to their parents to talk to them and let their parents educate them, so that the results will be better. But if the bear child does not correct his mistakes, but intensifies, we want to educate the child at this time, and reason with the child, but we are outsiders after all, and we can't do anything about it.

Children still need their own parents to educate, and each parent has their own way of disciplining, and we should not interfere.

I don't think it can be hit. No matter how naughty other people's children are, they may be treasures in the eyes of his parents, and his parents also think that their children can only be educated and managed by themselves.

Nowadays, people's quality of life has improved, and they don't want their children to be wronged in the process of growing up, and they all treat their children as if they were babies.

Nowadays, there are a lot of practices on the Internet about bear children, which do reflect the lack of family education, but as others, we can do nothing, we should be clearly aware that this naughty child has no blood relationship with himself, and we should not be qualified to discipline some of his behaviors.

But this does not mean that all parents in the society are not educating their children, I have seen a family of four and children of grandfather, grandma to travel together, on the way to get off the car when everyone took pictures, the little girl in the hand of the snack sprinkled on the ground, as a result she blindly blamed her grandfather, of course the grandfather to his granddaughter double the family love, but her mother pulled the little girl aside, and the little girl reasoned, and finally the little girl realized that she had made a mistake to bear herself, so she took the initiative to apologize to her grandfather, The family returned to a harmonious atmosphere.

No matter what kind of mistakes they make, we must first adjust our mentality, stabilize our normal heart, and then teach the child, if the child does not want to listen to your preaching, if you think it is necessary, you can go to the parents of the children, let the parents educate the children, as for whether the parents really educate the children, this is the problem of the parents themselves.

I don't think it's better to fight! Because every child is a treasure in the hearts of parents, whether she is healthy or sick, beautiful or ugly, it will not affect the love of parents for their children!

When children do something wrong, even if it is their own children, parents will be reluctant to fight! So compare your heart to your heart, when you are beating someone else's child, maybe somewhere in the future your child will be bullied by others, even if the child makes a big mistake, it will not work!

There are many ways to educate children:1We can explain some reasoning to him, let him understand the seriousness of the problem, let him know what he is wrong and teach him how to correct it! <>

2.Children generally like to listen to adults tell stories, which can also deepen their memory and motivate them to understand the right and wrong things from the story!

3.Play games with children, two people swap roles, and rehearse what he did wrong before, children can find the fun of being adults from the game, so that they can understand the original intention of their parents, so that they can accept the good advice you give him, and like you!

It is not easy to educate a child, he is like a blank sheet of paper, and we as parents need to draw a wonderful picture for him! We need to guide him correctly, when he doesn't understand, we must help the child in time and guide the child to be positive! You can't always beat and scold your child!

Not to mention outsiders! Say: Parents are the best teachers for their children!

In the same way, when we become parents, we should treat all our children as if they were our own! Children do wrong things, we can blame, but absolutely can not be beaten with hands, our children are treasures, but so are others!

Patiently teach every child that love is great and that it can spread all over the world! What you show to your children now is what your children will look like in the future!

Why do you want to hit someone else's child if it's someone else's child? As the saying goes, it depends on the owner to beat a dog, and it is even more difficult to beat a child. The current society is not the seventies and eighties of the last century, children can be beaten if they are annoying, and next time they dare not do things that others don't like.

In today's society, there is a wealth of material resources, there is no shortage of food, a lot of clothing, but capricious and mature, you hit other people's children, a little smart children will go home and tell their parents, in case the words are not what they learned, so that the children's parents misunderstand, it will cause unnecessary disputes.

If you really feel that the child is naughty, you can say a few words, and the child will not care about the severity of the words, even if you tell the adult, there will be no taboo. So don't owe someone else's bear child, if you really make the wrong hand and break the child, the gain outweighs the loss. <>

Looking at it from another angle, after all, it's not your child, why bother to be so serious, and why be so intolerant of others, have a kind and tolerant heart, children's nature is to love to play, like to be funny, if you hit a child, it will make children mistakenly think that they have done something wrong, or have other understandings. Therefore, it is also very necessary for children to unleash their nature.

As a mature adult, it is necessary to have an inclusive heart, especially for the little ones. Don't be able to tolerate the slightest thing and person that doesn't go your way, why should you be so narrow-minded, you want to hit someone when you see a bear child.

Communicating with people also includes communicating with children, he is also thoughtful, you will find that even if he is a bear child, he also has his own thoughts and cognition. You haven't tried to understand his heart, and you want to hit someone, I think it's a bit inappropriate and reasonable.

Beat? How can you fight it? That's someone else's child, how can you hit someone else's child?

Won't your hands hurt? Aren't you afraid that other people's bear parents will beat you up? How embarrassing is that?

Of course, this kind of behavior of "harming others and not benefiting oneself" cannot be adopted. Besides, everyone is a civilized person, and you can't ruin your own tall image because of your children, your parents, right? So, you can't fight, you can't fight, you can't fight!

If you can't fight, how can you deal with the bear child?

I once saw a story about a bear child who went to someone else's house as a guest, and then the bear child played all kinds of games in the master's house, and made a mess of the master's house, the child's parents just said that it was still a child, so that the owner should not mind, but in the end the bear child sprinkled water on the piano of the owner's child, fortunately, the owner's child was atmospheric, and did not blame the bear child, but told the bear child seriously, and when he saw the piano in the future, he would be rewarded. In the end, the bear child destroyed a valuable piano in the piano hall, and the child's parents paid for it.

You see, don't do it when you can be reasonable, as the saying goes, salute first and then soldier, it's definitely not right for you to think about doing it when you come up, and this wrong idea needs to be corrected. There is also a reason why you can't beat bear children.

I don't know if human beings are inherently good or evil, but I do know that children are sometimes very cruel, so cruel that adults are ashamed of themselves. I remember that there was a little girl over there who was a little lame and walked with a limp, and then one time a child bullied the little girl and said abusive things that she didn't know where she learned it, and one of the older children couldn't see it, so she said a few words, and the two of them argued and pushed and shoved, and the older one pushed the younger one to the ground. When the child got home, he complained to his parents, and the parents rushed to the older child's house indiscriminately and beat the child.

Therefore, sometimes you can't do it, it's not the right choice, no matter when, protect yourself. Especially when you're dealing with unreasonable people.

One day I took my baby to the playground to play, and then my baby sat there and slid down, and a little boy walked up and wanted to go up from my baby's head, and I said you can't walk like this from my sister, don't listen. I had a loud voice, I said you can't walk from my sister like this, there was a fence around me at the time, his grandmother was next to me and didn't say to pull it, I pulled him out as soon as I went in, the most annoying thing is that my baby is sitting there and not moving, I said that next time there is a child so you will hit him, and then I took my girl to build up the blocks, and the child came and pushed all the blocks that my girl piled up, and hit me with a sea ball, but it didn't hit, I really wanted to beat him. Hold back.

Summary. Hello dear, teach other people's bear children, if there is no way to avoid bear children, unbearable, then don't be polite, educate him straightforwardly. Pointing out his mistakes in harsh language is best enough to make him feel ashamed (don't worry, the child is actually much stronger than you think).

The reason why many bear children are bears is because no one educates them, and everyone thinks that "children, they will always be naughty and tolerant......"It's this attitude that causes the bears to become more and more bears. You can also find a way to make him afraid of you, bears, and children will also have people who are afraid, and they often dare not make trouble in front of these people. So making them scared of you is also a good way to deal with bear children.

You can keep a straight face, you can make a smile, you can tell them ghost stories to scare them ......All in all, make them afraid of you, so that you can avoid harassment by the bear child.

Hello dear, teach other people's bear children, if there is no way to avoid bear children, unbearable, then don't be polite, educate him straightforwardly. Pointing out his mistakes in harsh language is best enough to make him feel ashamed (don't worry about it, the child is actually much stronger than you think). Many bear children bear because no one educates them, and everyone thinks that "children, they will always imitate naughty points, and they must be tolerant of .......""It's this attitude that causes the bears to become more and more bears.

You can also find a way to make him afraid of you, bears, and children will also have people who are afraid, and they often dare not make trouble in front of these people. So making them scared of you is also a good way to deal with bear children. You can keep a straight face, you can make a smile, you can tell them ghost stories to scare them ......All in all, make them afraid of you, so that you can avoid harassment by the bear child.

My friend's family is patriarchal, and boys often bully girls.

This must be told to the little girl that no matter who can bully herself, she must fight back if she is bullied, and let him remember this and let him know to protect himself.

As a parent Xun Ming, if you feel that there is a phenomenon of repentance and preference for sons in your family, you must be the first to set an example, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is your own child, you must be treated equally, you are excluded, and you must put forward your opinions.