In good times or in bad times, it is easier to become a talent???

Adversity and success.

Becoming a talent does not mean that you must have abundant conditions and a comfortable environment, nor does it mean that adversity has no chance to become a talent. On the contrary, adversity can make people geniuses and pave the way to geniuses. The kind of perseverance that has been cultivated in the face of adversity is an important condition for success.

Throughout the 5,000-year-long history of human development, adversity is the furnace that refines their extraordinary minds and the ladder to the road to success.

A generation of great men who once dominated the Chinese political arena, led the Chinese working people to overthrow the three mountains that pressed on them, and buried the exploitation system, when he was a child, because he had no money to buy books, he actually walked more than 20 miles on foot to borrow books from relatives and friends. During the day, he went out to herd cattle, and at night he studied hard under the dim soybean oil lamp. It was this spirit of pursuing knowledge and indomitable perseverance that gave him grand ideals and aspirations, which made him an outstanding people's leader in China.

The famous writer Gorky has experienced the bitterness of the world since he was a child, even if he was tired from doing work and had back pain, he refused to give up a moment of time to read books, and often secretly learned to write under the whip of his boss, and finally became a famous writer. Edison, the great inventor of the United States, when he was a child, his family could not afford to buy books or equipment for experiments, so he collected bottles and cans everywhere. Once, he was doing an experiment on the train, and accidentally caused **, and the captain slapped him, and one of his ears was deaf.

The hardships of life and physical defects did not discourage him, and he studied more diligently, and finally became a world-famous scientist.

Of course, this is by no means to say that only in adversity can talents be produced, but that in adversity, we can also train and become talents and make our due contributions to the development of society. It may be true that some of our young people complain about poor conditions and are not conducive to their growth and development, but it is not necessary to learn to write under the whip of the boss like Gorky! Environment, that is only an objective factor, the key to success lies in whether you have perseverance and the fighting spirit of fighting for your ideals.

The crown of genius, it is selective to people, it is not only for those who have superior conditions, in adversity, as long as you have a grand goal, with a firm belief, the crown of genius will also be owned by you!

Adversity is the driving force that motivates people to work hard and the furnace that tempers a person's will. Please those who grow up in adversity and live in hardships, especially teenagers, do not be sad, do not complain, do not let the unfavorable environment bind their hands and feet, but should stretch their arms, to struggle, to create!

Su Qin's hanging beam is piercing.

Hook cheap lying on the salary and taste the guts.

Kuang Heng chiseled the wall to borrow light.

Helen was one and a half years old, blind in both eyes and deaf in both ears, but eventually became an adult.

Sima Qian was tragically punished by the palace, and finally wrote a historical record.

There are two sides to any problem

Both good times and bad times are good for personal growth, and both are detrimental. The main thing is to look at the degree.

Excessive adversity makes people depressed and pessimistic.

We've seen too many examples of this kind of collapse.

Some people can't bear the adversity at work and give up their lives, and some people can't stand the conflict of feelings and choose to avoid establishing feelings with others. Some people are young and just want to lie down and stay by themselves. When they want to do something, all they think is "I can't do it" and then they feel stressed, hard, frustrated.

One of our classmates had a longing and fear of marriage due to the quarrel between his parents since he was a child, and this long-term frustration made him both eager and afraid of marriage, unable to enter into marriage, and unable to settle for singleness. Both states were adversity for him and unbearable.

Excessive good times make people inflated blindly.

The three major misfortunes in life are: being a young man, being born in a wealthy family, and flying a windfall.

These good times can lead to a false perception of the world, an over-exaggeration of one's abilities, and a loss of resistance in the face of real setbacks.

There is a very good student in our class, who has been the first in the exam since he was a child, and he is the kind of abusing others when he studies for a doctorate in a prestigious school.

The good times along the way made him feel that everything is very simple, as long as he wants to do it, he can do it well. As a result, under such thinking management, his marriage and family were in shambles, and after entering the workplace, he was repeatedly depressed due to frustrations in interpersonal relationships.

You can choose just the right amount of setbacks to grow.

But some people think that good times or bad times are the fate given to us by the universe, and they are not subject to personal will, so how can they choose? In fact, good times and bad times are completely personal choices.

The environment itself is immutable, but you can choose a different environment. You choose to negotiate business with the richest man in the world, and what you experience is adversity. If you choose to talk to me about business, you will experience more favorable circumstances.

When faced with unbearable setbacks, you can choose to give up and switch to a relatively simple question, and you will experience good times.

You can choose to lower or increase the difficulty of the task to make yourself feel a moderate challenge.

For example, when climbing a mountain, the height of the mountain remains the same. But if you choose to climb in 10 minutes or 1 day, what you experience is the difference between adversity and good. The right setback is to climb the mountain just within your physical strength and willingness.

Optimistic people will choose the environment and adjust their expectations to make themselves happier, while pessimistic people will force themselves to overcome themselves in frustration and then become more frustrated, and if they can't overcome it, they will give up directly.

Many parents will adopt "frustration education", thinking that children can grow by experiencing frustration, but in fact, frustrations beyond their children's ability to bear will only make them feel hopeless and full of pain.

Some parents will use "blind and appreciative education" to make children feel that they are great at what they do, which will make children have false self-aggrandizement and cannot see the truth of the problem.

A good education is neither to create setbacks nor good times, but to help the child face the reality together, encourage him to try to overcome difficulties without forcing him, and give him moderate support without standing idly by.

Examples of good times (bad times) that are conducive to growth.

Prosperity. 1. When Edison was 12 years old, he was expelled from school because he liked to "tinker" with science tricks, and was mistaken by the principal for being playful. This was a great blow to Edison's young mind.

However, her mother knew best about her son's interests, and she did not think that his son's interests were not serious. He created good conditions for his son, opened up a laboratory for Edison, and supported the child's small scientific experiments, so that Edison's inventive intelligence was fully developed, and finally invented the white light bulb, telegraph, gramophone, etc., and discovered the phenomenon of thermal electron emission.

2. Armstrong was the first man to land on the moon. As a child, he was a fantasizing child, but his mother never discouraged him, and once, while his mother was washing dishes in the kitchen, he was bouncing around in the backyard and his mother asked him, "What are you doing?"

He said, "I'm going to jump to the moon." When his mother heard this, she didn't throw cold water on her children like other children's parents, nor did she scold him, or rather

Don't be naughty, stop. Something like that. Rather, it is said:

Good! Don't forget to come back! "In such a relaxed environment, he finally landed on the moon.

It can be seen that a good guidance method is more conducive to their development.

3. The essence of growth and talent is the same, good times and adversity are also a life course, the most important thing is whether people are diligent and interested in learning. The ancient Chinese poet Du Mu is an example. Du Mu, born in a wealthy family, he received a good education since he was a child, and when he was young, he had great achievements in his career.

He and Li Shangyin were called "Little Li Du" by later generationsThere are also Wen Tianxiang, ***, Lu Xun and others, isn't this the best proof that talents can be produced in good times?

4. The sensational Zhang Haidi, it can be said that his success is built in adversity, but from the perspective of good times, without the help and encouragement of her comrades, would she have the courage to survive? Without organizational care, care, would she be able to overcome the disease? Without the party's nurturing and guidance, would she have been able to make such brilliant achievements?

5. To say that those great people who have grown up in adversity, in fact, from another angle, we can find that in fact, people often ignore the good times, but pay attention to the bitterness that that person pays more than others. Sima Qian was also a historian of the Han Dynasty, and he had the right to inspect and manage the Han Dynasty's royal library. Cao Xueqin, whose grandfather used to be a weaver in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, once had a lot of money and read thousands of books.

That's why you can create the luxurious and extravagant scene of Jiafu in the book.

6. Once upon a time, so far away, let's talk about the current example. More and more people have joined the star chaser family, then, movie star Zhang Ziyi must be no stranger to everyone, she has loved singing and acting since she was a child, she won an award for her first singing, and she became famous for her first dance, can anyone deny such smooth sailing? It turns out that most of her Li Jiyin's success has been in good times.

<>1. The relationship between adversity and good times is a dialectical relationship of interdependence, mutual inclusion and mutual transformation. The so-called interdependence refers to the fact that adversity and good times, bad luck and good fortune, are all relative and friendly, and exist in comparison. If there is no adversity, it is better to talk about a good brother, and if there is no good time, there will be no adversity.

Doing the same work, some people succeed and some people fail; Even the same person will succeed here and fail at the moment. It can be seen that adversity and good times are relatively speaking, and they exist in comparison; 2. The so-called mutual inclusion refers to the fact that there are adversity in good times, and there are good times in adversity. Lao Tzu said:

Misfortune and blessing are relied upon, and blessing and misfortune are lurking". Explain that good times and bad times are mutually inclusive. The so-called mutual transformation refers to the mutual transformation of good times and bad times under certain conditions.

Good times can be transformed into adversity, and adversity can also be turned.