It s better to be an adult or a child, and it s better to be an adult or a child

Have you thought about this? I thought about it countless times, and finally I decided that it was better to be an adult.

I certainly have a good reason. First of all, when adults can spend their money freely. Whenever an adult walks into the store, they can buy whatever they like.

And for children, not anymore. Every time you buy something, you have to ask the adult if it's okay, if the adult is in a good mood, it's okay, if the adult is in a bad mood, don't even think about it, and even get a reprimand: I don't know how to be thrifty at all!

will spend money indiscriminately! Secondly, we have to study at school during the day, and we have to do homework in various subjects at night, and at the end of the day, sometimes we are so tired that we can't even straighten our waists. Adults can play cards during the day, and they don't have to do anything at night, and they can also visit the night market, which is really beyond the reach of us children.

The most important thing is that when adults make mistakes, children have no right to criticize. When a child makes a mistake, he will not only be criticized by adults, but also suffer from skin and flesh when it is serious. I remember one time, I accidentally broke the bowl when I was loading rice (this bowl was bought in Jingdezhen, and it only costs 15 yuan!).

So my father reprimanded me endlessly: I can't do things well, I can't pack a bowl of rice, what can I do in the future? The more I listened, the more uncomfortable I became, and I confronted my dad at the time

Haven't you hit a bowl once before? Why criticize me? Dad listened and said angrily

It's the other way around, the child is in charge of the adult. At that time, I really wanted to say to my father: this is too unfair.

I told my mother what I thought, and I thought that the reasonable mother would be the same as I thought, but my mother said earnestly: You children are really born in happiness and don't know how good it is to be a child. Children don't have to worry about food, clothing, housing, and transportation at home, as long as they study with one mind.

And adults have to work hard every day, and it is very hard to earn money to support their families. Besides, what happens at home is handled by adults, while children don't have to worry about it and live carefree all day long. If I could turn back time, I would like to go back to my childhood!

The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable. I had to rethink this question, and finally it dawned on me: in fact, being an adult or a child has its advantages and difficulties, as long as you are optimistic and positive in facing each period of life, you will live a different wonderful life, so that your life will be more perfect.

There is no such thing as easy in adult life.

But not all children grow up smoothly.

All good!! Childhood is more beautiful!! When I grow up, I look farther away!! The more you know!!

When you are a child, you envy an adult, and when you are an adult, you envy a child.

I feel that it is best to experience it, because this time knows how to cherish!

There are pros and cons, adults have adult troubles, children can't experience it, but one day they will encounter it, and children's troubles are always to obey the arrangements of adults, can not do according to their own wishes, and now there are many children envy the big.

Of course, it's a child, carefree.

A few years ago, I attended a homeschooling session.

of learning. One of the sessions is a debate competition, and the debate topic is: is it better for adults or children.

It was organized by our principal, and there were more than a dozen classes in total. Teachers participated in the event, both unmarried and married, and many parents signed up.

At the beginning of the debate competition, you have to choose the pros and cons yourself, as if you have discussed it in advance, and most of the teachers choose the adults, and the parents mostly choose the children.

Then divide into two groups and select the contestants by themselves. My husband participated in a debate tournament when he was in college, and he won the first place in the end (people like me don't want to choose me). Therefore, I still know a lot about the process of the debate competition, and I am a very proactive person.

He took an active part in the debate.

The positive side is good for the children, the debater is three parents and one teacher, and the negative side is good for the parents, and the debater is just the opposite one parent and three teachers.

The debate tournament is very exciting, because I usually experience it all the time, so I don't need to think about it. I can't remember exactly what the debate was about because it had been many years. However, that debate competition was the one that left the deepest impression on me from that study.

The general way of saying is that you can do whatever you want as a child and do whatever you want. Laugh when you're happy, make trouble when you're unhappy. And as an adult, you have to work and support this family.

When you work, you have to look at the leader's face, and you have to take care of the children when you go home. Adults can only suppress and hide their emotions when they have emotions, they can't act recklessly, they can cry when they want to cry, and they can laugh when they want to laugh. Anyway, children are all kinds of good, and adults are all kinds of bad.

And our opposing view is that when adults are angry, they can get angry at their children, and even beat and scold their children, while children are innocent and weak and can only choose to bear it. Adults have the freedom to choose, while children can only listen to adults in the end. Adults can choose what they like, and they don't have to write endless homework.

You don't need to stay in the classroom and listen to boring classes, and you don't need to participate in various interest classes.

In the end, we won, but behind this game, there really is no win or loss. In today's society, the times are developing too fast, and many people are afraid that they will not be able to keep up with the rhythm of the times and blindly choose some things.

Just like cram schools and interest classes, many parents are because other people's children have a skill, but my children don't know anything. In addition to being anxious, I can only watch others show off the baby, so I don't care about the child's preferences and interests.

As a result, many of them are defeated, the children are not interested, but the parents are forcing the children one by one. The child really doesn't want to learn, and the learning is definitely not good enough, but the parents work hard and lose money in the end.

In this era, it is not easy for parents and children to imitate wild children. Although there are fewer children now, parents are not much easier. And children, because parents have high hopes, it is also very difficult.

I hope that as parents, we can look at it from the perspective of our children. Put yourself in your child's shoes. In this way, it will be much easier for both adults and children.

I think it's good to be an adult. Those who think that being good as a child often focus on their worries, such as not having to worry about their livelihood, being in a simple social relationship, and having unlimited possibilities for learning to add value.

However, the reason why people are human beings is not necessarily to be worthy of standing up to the sky, but at least they must be self-reliant and self-reliant, and adults have the ability to be self-reliant and self-reliant. Even if a child is in a simple social network, according to his mind, he will feel quite troubled. As for the question of future possibilities, because of various factors such as inertia and inertia, children are full of hope, but they often only follow the path of most adults.

Each has its own benefits,,, each has its own troubles.

Recently, I've been thinking about a question at Tachibana: Is it better to be a child or an adult? I brought this up and discussed it with my mom.

I think it's good to be an adult: adults don't have to do homework after work, they can watch TV, play cards, go shopping, ...... as they likeYou can also spend money on the fiber chain, and you don't need to ask others, how good it is!

The mother thinks that it is good to destroy Wu Sun as a child: first, the child can live without worrying about making money; Second, children sit there every day studying, while adults do most of their work standing'；Third, all the housework is done by adults, and children do not have to do it; Fourth, children have such and such birthday gifts every year.

But adults don't have ......After hearing these words, I thought about it carefully, and I thought that children and adults have their own strengths and weaknesses alike.

Whether it's better to be an adult or a child is not a definitive answer.

When I was a child, I felt that it was good to be an adult, and I could do whatever I wanted, as if I had great rights. When I was an adult, I felt good as a child, and I could do whatever I wanted, and I was carefree. In fact, everyone has difficulties at every age.

Children have to be disciplined by their parents and teachers all day long, and their playful nature is suppressed, so they are naturally very uncomfortable, so they are eager to grow up quickly and become adults, thinking that they can do what they like when they tell their brothers.

And when we finally grow up, the pressure from life and society overwhelms us, and we are controlled everywhere, and the sophistication of people, money and status, Heng Zai's samples gradually smoothed out the edges and corners of our youth, and the original dream of "doing whatever you want to do when you grow up" was forgotten, and we will miss the carefree when we were young.

In fact, what kind of children are good adults, as long as they can have a good time, they are all good. I often wonder what people live this trip for, happy for a lifetime, sad for a lifetime. After death, who will remember that there is no more than a handful of loess and a box of ashes.

It's better to make yourself happy as much as you can. Of course, there are more times in life when you can't help yourself, and making fun in suffering is a necessary skill for a mature modern person. In a sense, the negated method of spiritual victory of Ah Q is not without merit.