I quarreled with my boyfriend, and I felt that he didn t value me, and I was very annoyed and sad

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's normal, in this world, lovers to say that they have never quarreled, it is almost impossible. Doesn't it say that beating is love, and scolding is love? Then quarrels are mutual dependence, this kind of thing, you have to look at it, and once the time passes, it will naturally be fine.

    Of course, don't do too much, don't talk about breaking up or the like at every turn, boys actually care about these things, if you are sad, think about the happy and sweet times when you are together, and occasionally tolerate each other, but not too many times, when you are extremely angry, it is best not to speak, otherwise it may cause tragedy. In general, if you still feel angry, just stop thinking about those things for a while, and do what you like, and when you are completely distracted, you will suddenly think of him, and then don't think about those unpleasant things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's said that girls are very sensitive.,You can feel it.,Maybe you feel that he didn't just pay so much attention to you when they were together.,I used to coax you and now I won't.,When you're in a good mood, you say anything.,Maybe when you're in a bad mood, you'll lose your temper.,Youmu has this feeling.。。。 I think life is very stressful now, maybe he has his own pressure, sometimes you have to understand him... After all, boys will be more stressed...

    If you really want to go on together, take more time to communicate and understand each other, so that it may be better, don't always complain that the other person has changed...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Personally, I think that if you encounter this situation, then you should still think from the other party's perspective as much as possible, and you can't always have conflicts because of small things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the face of such a situation, you should communicate well with the other party, and you should also let the other party understand what you mean, and you should also let the other party understand your mind. It is also necessary to carry out a certain amount of persuasion, so that the other party understands their attitude and position, and also learn to take a step back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should give the right guidance, you should communicate with your boyfriend correctly, you should negotiate a solution together, and you should have the right interaction with the other person. The other party should also be given a step down.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can have a good talk with your boyfriend, you can tell your boyfriend about the grievances in your heart, and ask your boyfriend to tolerate you more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It should be possible to break up, and it is right for two people to quarrel, but every time the boyfriend is unwilling to tolerate himself, it proves that the boyfriend doesn't like him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Dear, the man who ignores you after a quarrel may not love you too much, but he loves you too much. Although he will be sad, he will stay calm, after all, quarrels are inevitable in a relationship.

    The man who ignores you may know how to tolerate it, after all, as his beloved girlfriend, the quarrel at this time is more of an emotional vent, rather than breaking up unhappily, it is better to treat it calmly, how can a man who loves you yell at you? I won't even worry about you after a fight. In fact, quarrels are not a big deal, as long as both parties can compromise and deal with it, not only will it not have any impact on your relationship, but it can sometimes deepen your dependence on each other.

    In a relationship, if a woman finds that the man seems to ignore her completely after a quarrel, she will feel very uneasy, and once think that the other party is going to break up with her.

    After a quarrel with my boyfriend, he was indifferent to me, didn't he love me anymore.

    Dear, the man who ignores you after a quarrel may not love you too much, but he loves you too much. Although he will be sad, he will stay calm, after all, quarrels are inevitable in a relationship. The man who ignores you may know how to tolerate it, after all, as his beloved girlfriend, the quarrel at this time is more of an emotional vent, rather than breaking up unhappily, it is better to treat it calmly, how can a man who loves you yell at you?

    I won't even worry about you after a fight. In fact, quarrels are not a big deal, as long as both parties can compromise and deal with it, not only will it not have any impact on your relationship, but it can sometimes deepen your dependence on each other. In a relationship, if a woman finds that the man seems to ignore her completely after a quarrel, she will feel very uneasy, and once think that the other party is going to break up with her.

    If he was cold to me, he wouldn't listen to anything I said.

    Every time I had an argument, I felt as if he didn't love me that much and didn't want to be with me that much.

    Dear, it won't. Because men and women think differently, men don't think too seriously about the problem, women always think about the less serious problem is particularly serious, the first thing women think of when they quarrel is that you don't love me, men think it's a big fuss, what does it have to do with whether I love you or not? It's the difference in perception.

    When two people are together, it is normal to quarrel and slowly run in. Don't be sad, don't be too careful, whether you are noisy or not has little to do with whether you love or not, the more you love, the more noisy you are, and it's okay after the quarrel.

    Dear, what are you arguing about? What is your boyfriend's attitude when he is arguing?

    Can I tell my teacher about it? So that I can better analyze it for you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello! In this case, it's not that I don't love you, but I'm still angry and indifferent to you! It's good to be angry! But it's best not to quarrel, if there is something two people communicate well! Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be noisy!

    After a quarrel with my boyfriend, he was indifferent to me, didn't he love me anymore.

    Hello! In this case, it's not that I don't love you, but I'm still angry and indifferent to you! It's good to be angry! But it's best not to quarrel, if there is something two people communicate well! Otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be noisy!

    Apologize if there is a mistake on that side! It will be better to talk about the misunderstanding and solve the feelings!

    I feel bad about his attitude towards me.

    We were reconciled on the surface, but he was different.

    Have you ever seriously wondered if he is the person you want in your life?

    Do you have fun with him?

    I want to be with him all the time and have a result, but will we have a result, he's a year younger than me.

    He was nice to me with him, but sometimes I would get angry and feel that he didn't love me anymore.

    Age is not an issue! The question is whether the two of you are having a good time together!

    Why do you think he doesn't love you anymore? What is the reason?

    I feel like I'm more emotional, cry all the time, and sometimes I feel like we're not fit.

    I love him too much, but he always doesn't talk to me well, which makes me very insecure, I always tell him, he also says he loves me, I think the relationship between the two people is getting weaker and weaker, it used to be good, this time is always easy to quarrel, I feel very uncomfortable, what should I do.

    If you really love him, don't say that he doesn't love you or anything all the time, that is actually a sign of unconfidence in yourself!

    He doesn't like to talk to you because he is a more introverted person and you should understand him!

    Love is about mutual understanding, mutual respect and tolerance for each other!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, this situation should be the two of you personality incompatible, usually communicate more, communicate more, tolerate more, and then the two of them discuss more, see if you can find a compromise solution, otherwise it is not a way to go on like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the quarrels between the couple are too frequent, then it means that there is a big problem in the relationship between the two people, and it must be solved to the extent that the two people need to communicate well to solve it, although the two people have not yet broken up at this stage, but this situation must cause two people to attach great importance to it.

    In fact, when couples get along with each other for a period of time, as they understand each other, they will become more and more comprehensive, and they will grasp their shortcomings more clearly, and as two people get along longer and longer, they are no longer as full of expectations for this relationship as they were at the beginning.

    But if the couple often quarrels, it will inevitably affect the feelings between the two people, and will cause each other to be tired of such feelings, then in this case, if you do not communicate and exchange in time, the feelings of the two people are likely to develop to an irreparable level, for the two couples in the process of getting along, you should realize that only if you really respect and understand each other, then the two people can really maintain this relationship. In order to make two people feel happy and happy in this relationship, so in this process, couples must adjust their respective mentality to avoid quarrels between two people, even if two people have a certain estrangement and contradictions, they must be resolved through timely communication and exchanges, many times we should consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, so as to avoid a lot of contradictions, and reduce the problem of frequent quarrels between each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes I get angry and quarrel with my boyfriend because of his dissatisfaction. The depth of love may be the reason why you don't have the heart to tolerate your boyfriend. The best way is to understand him and tolerate him, so that you can get along with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you are a person who can't accept the bad things of others, especially sometimes we may not be in a very good mood and have a less perfect mentality, so we should consider the problem from the other party's point of view.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are not satisfied with your boyfriend at all, you quarrel with him, which is actually emotionally hurtful. Everyone has shortcomings, since the two parties are in a romantic relationship. We should tolerate and trust each other, and the relationship will get better and better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You expect too much from him.

    On the other hand, you value yourself more than him. In this relationship, you are higher than him.

    Then when you look at his interaction, you are looking at your own satisfaction, and this satisfaction is completely based on your mood, evaluation criteria, no one can supervise you.

    So you can be angry if you want.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because you have your own benchmark for him to love you, you think he loves you how to do it, but he doesn't do what you think, you are a little dissatisfied and you are very angry and want to quarrel with him, and then if he listens to your changes, you will have a sense of accomplishment, and he really still loves you. Even if he doesn't change and is willing to coax you, if you love him, you will choose to forgive him and give him another chance, if you are willing to coax you, you will love you! You will do a mental construction for yourself!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The perfect partner who is homesick proves that you do not tolerate his shortcomings and do not have deep feelings for each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, this shows that you like to be coquettish, your husband is a little bit angry if you don't have you, you just want him to try, and it's best to follow you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's because you care too much about him. The feelings of two people are mutual. Therefore, we should respect and love each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because the requirements for the partner will be extremely high, and he will not be allowed to make a mistake.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It may be that the relationship is limited and irritable, and any slight mistake will be magnified.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, I think there are the following reasons:

    1. You have high expectations for your boyfriend, and you very much hope that your boyfriend will develop on the good side, and I hope that he will become better and better!

    2. You have passed the period of love and have become like relatives, and you can point out at any time when you see something you are not satisfied with.

    3. It is possible that your boyfriend is not as passionate as before, everything is centered on you, caring for you and pampering you every day. You want your boyfriend to care more about you, pay attention to you, and pamper you through such a quarrel!

    4, you slowly don't like your boyfriend, you are not satisfied with anything, and if you are not satisfied, you will naturally get angry and quarrel with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your boyfriend never thinks about the problem from your point of view when he quarrels with you, and he never considers your feelings, you feel that you have been wronged, but he feels that he is more wronged than you, so why is this? First of all, it must be an unpleasant thing to quarrel, it is a kind of hurt to each other's feelings, you and him will definitely be very angry after the quarrel, and you will feel that the other party is unreasonable. But if you are a little broad-minded, then this matter is not worth mentioning, you can forgive the other party a lot and not take this matter to heart.

    From this point of view, neither you nor your boyfriend are mature enough to grasp the relationship properly. However, generally speaking, the boy's personality should be more cheerful, more broad-minded, and his girlfriend has a quarrel, whether the boyfriend is wrong or not, he should take the initiative to apologize, so as to promote the stable development of the relationship, if every quarrel feels that he has been wronged, then such a boy must be a more melancholy personality, narrow-minded person. As a girl, if you feel that the boy's shortcomings are tolerable, then you should make a compromise and deal with the problem positively.

    If you feel that the character of a boy is unacceptable, then it is a better choice to make a decision immediately.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have already said the essence of the matter, because everyone just looks at the problem from their own point of view and does not consider others, so when they quarrel, they feel very wronged, if you empathize with each other, maybe, you will be considerate of each other, and you may not quarrel again in the future.

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