Can friendship be saved? What am I going to do?

If she is very good to you, of course you still consider her a friend.

Show what you think in your heart, if you see her as a confidant, believe in yourself, if you have a weak relationship with him, you have to say it, otherwise you will have a hard time being a person!

I hope you will come out of the shadows soon, as long as you smile, nothing can't be passed! Trust your choice.

The desire to possess a good friend Fear that someone will snatch away his good friend Actually, it's nothing A good friend is someone who knows each other Just like my best friend I've had a fight, I've had a fight, I've even been in touch for a few months, but it's still good after seeing it, there's no why, because I understand that there are many passers-by in life.

If my friend is like this, I'll ask me very directly, what do I do wrong, what to say, just say it, although I don't know how girls make friends, but I know that communicating with good friends Sometimes he gets angry and thinks the opposite of what you think It may be a trivial matter.

A sincere apology would be fine.

You still have to have a good relationship in the class, so that your classmates don't hate you in the future, but you still have to value your good friends more seriously.

I think you should be with her.

You can refuse the person who pulls you away.

You can explain it to her.

Learn to be optimistic.

Go talk to her, and talk to the people who pull you away.

Trust you to do it.

Ignore them, sometimes you can be violent.

Yes I've been with my best friends for eight years.

In my life, I have friends who have known each other for a long time, but now I don't often have contacts, and I will occasionally contact them, but such contacts are becoming less and less, and there may not be a contact once a year or two, so I think most people are the same as me, there are people who know, but friendship is no longer there, each has its own life, if there is no intersection with each other, there is no value, there may be less and less contact, or between real friends, there is never a need to stick together all the time, It doesn't have to be something to do together before you talk about it.

A good friendship needs everyone to work together to cherish the reputation, in the process of getting along, there is a misunderstanding and false judgment, don't stuffy each other, they will only become a lingering little pimple, and finally when the fuse is lit, it is out of control. Therefore, if there is a misunderstanding, there will be a gap, which can be solved through face-to-face or mobile phone chat, and apologize when it is time to apologize.

Equality and respect, what is felt between good friends is equality and respect. When a friendship develops well, friends become closer. They share each other's experiences, listen to each other, and be honest.

Even if they find out that the other person is smarter than themselves, they will not feel inferior. Because they don't share their insights with a sense of superiority, no one distinguishes between high and low friends. True friends are those who walk side by side.

Loyalty requires loyalty. Friends should not talk about each other's shortcomings in front of others, nor should they spread rumors and scandals that would hurt friends. Therefore, we should help each other and not worry about our friends being slandered in the back.

Even if a good friend knows each other's weaknesses and shortcomings so easily, they can accept it. Because they care for each other, they will also be loyal to each other.

Being like-minded and harmonious at the same time is at the heart of my long-term friendship with my friends. Friendships are like-minded, but they retain their independence and do not disturb each other. This is at the heart of being able to build friendships between people.

My friends and I have a common language in areas of common interest and preference, and can communicate and interact happily, but in areas where we have nothing in common, we each retain our own independent ideas and practices and do not disturb each other. ......Because of this, our relationship can be harmonious and stable for a long time, and we can have a long-term friendship for more than 7 years.

All of us have come closer before we drift apart, but most of the time we meet suddenly, and we don't know when we start to be intimate or when we start to drift apart.

In the age of rebellion, we always want to do something maverick. With long bangs, learn to highlight and dye your hair, and then modify the school uniform, or graffiti on the school uniform, or cut the school uniform pants into leggings, and treat all the non-mainstream as your own special labels, self-righteous swagger. Although this history is dark, it is experienced by the two of us who are not particularly at peace in our bones, and maybe this is how our friendship was built little by little, and then we went through junior high school and high school together until not long ago.

As soon as I calmed down during this time, I would think of this friendship and find that some feelings gradually disappeared in daily interactions. The establishment of a relationship seems very simple, because of a common topic, interest, hobby, similar experience, or just because they hit it off, or because they get along day and night. And the dilution of feelings can be because of contradictions and estrangements, or because of personality problems and long-term annoyance, and even because the feelings are getting closer and closer, too intimate so the burden is too heavy, so the more you get along, the more difficult it is to get along.

After high school, although we were in different classes but in the same dormitory, we all knew that living under the same roof would inevitably have some friction, but we didn't expect that these small frictions would make our feelings fade.

When we were in junior high school, we made stupid mistakes together, and we were happy writers with each other. In high school, we grew up a lot, and we began to dwell on each other's mistakes, or we were unwilling to accept different punishments for the same mistakes.

My friend is a very abrasive person, and I've known it since junior high school, but we didn't care about it at that time, because we were in the same class, and even if we were late together, we would be punished the same. However, in high school, we were in different classes, and although there were many fewer cases of late arrivals due to accommodation, there were still some cases.

The homeroom teacher in my class was much stricter than her class. Therefore, every time I was late, I was punished more severely than my friends, and over time I began to be unconvinced, which was probably a feeling of abandonment: why did I accompany you to make mistakes and you couldn't share the consequences with me?

I started complaining about my friends and making all kinds of excuses to go to the cafeteria and classroom by myself. Maybe my friend is also complaining to me: why can't I wait for her, isn't it just a few minutes?

1. Hit **. Although you often can't be around the other person, remember to hit the other person for a certain period of time. You can't talk to each other when you encounter difficulties, some happy.

Things or recent changes in yourself can also be shared with the other party at the first virtual lead spine time. 2.Make an appointment to go out and meet and play.

On weekends or holidays, ask friends out for milk tea, watch movies or sing songs, relax and have fun together. 3.Let's go on a trip together.

Save up for a trip with friends that doesn't have to be planned too carefully, and it's okay to travel on a budget, but be on the safe side. Travel can enhance the relationship between both parties, and can also broaden your horizons and meet some unknown things. 4.

Go to the other person's house. Being at home is actually the most relaxing and free. If you have a good relationship with friends, you can buy snacks together to eat at home, watch variety shows, cook delicious food, and so on.

Sleeping in the same bed and chatting late at night is also very warm. 5.Let's go to places we've been to before.

Memories help us cherish each other in the present. Take a group photo every year in a place with a memory point, and you will be even more moved to see it after many years. How to Maintain Friendship 2 Friendship is built on the trust of two people, and if we often have problems of one kind or another in this friendship, it is easy for friendships to break down.

1. First of all, trust is very important. Don't be suspicious of the other person's behavior, if you know the person well enough and feel that the person can really be trusted, then don't be suspicious. 2. Secondly, we must understand each other.

If there's something hard to do, but you have to do it, and sometimes you can't help it, then you should let yourself relax. It is not a short-term process of understanding between two people, we must take seriously the person who deserves to be treated, so that the other person will also take it seriously. In terms of friendship, when the other party is in difficulty, choose to support her unconditionally in time, and if there is financial suffering, it is the same, help in time.

Even if two people haven't been in touch for a long time, they will still have endless words and endless chats after meeting. Although the two of us can't be together, at least when I was young, you spent it with me, and I am grateful to you.

First of all, treat people sincerely, in the process of communication, find the character of the other party, if the other party can communicate, you can be in ordinary life, the other party encounters difficulties to help, if it is not the right person, it is a general communication, it is not recommended to have deep friendship.

Friendship is a special emotion that people produce in social activities, and it is fundamentally different from the general good feelings generated in social activities. Friendship is an emotion that comes from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the emotion that both parties condense together, and any unilateral overture cannot be called friendship. Friendship has intimacy as the core ingredient, and intimacy is also known as an important indicator of the degree of friendship.

Be interactive and sticky, trouble the other person appropriately, and give thanks.

Be courteous, keep in touch and keep an appropriate distance.

As long as everyone treats each other sincerely, then if you are sincere to him, he will also be sincere to you, so that the friendship can last longer.

Be sincere, and of course, you should also pay attention to the hierarchy and not to pull too big.

There is no friendship, only interests ...

There are several ways to maintain friendships:

Appreciating each other. Sometimes, when you've known someone for too long, you take their good for granted. Don't do that.

Shows interest in a friend's life. A good friendship should be a two-way street, and hopefully your friends will also be interested in your life.

Build trust. It sounds simple, but it requires both parties to constantly trust and rely on each other.

Have fun when you're together. While this is obvious, sometimes we just use our friends for emotional solace instead of enjoying each other's company. You can do something together that everyone enjoys.

When things are going through, support each other. Sometimes friendships will encounter problems, or friends will go through their own difficult times, and although this stage is not fun, true friends will support each other and face difficulties together.

I think you can look at Friends, you can look at Rachel and Monica, they are good friends in and out of the play, and they have maintained a friendship for more than 20 years.

How?

Of course, good friends communicate well, there are no contradictions, often go out to play, and help each other. Here are some of my takeaways.

A true friend can not only see and appreciate your strengths, but also objectively point out and sincerely help you correct your shortcomings; Not only can it be the icing on the cake when you are enjoying happiness, but it can also help you in times of hardship. In fact, in real life, there is no perfect friendship as imagined, only the process of unremitting pursuit with their respective responsibilities and trust for the sake of perfect friendship. True friendship is premised on mutual trust and mutual responsibility, not only to entertain each other in happy times, but also to support each other in times of crisis.

How long can two people's sense of common responsibility for friendship last, this relationship can last for as long as long, and the longevity of friendship requires two people to be in the same step.

Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!

Because there are a lot of ordinary friends, and they come and go quickly. Only mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, honesty, affection and righteousness, mutual tolerance and no exclusive friends are the greatest assets in your life!

Friendship only sublimates, grows and develops after it is acquired! (despise plagiarism of my own answers).