Why are more and more mothers insisting on taking their babies at home?

Text|Good pregnant sister.

Yun Yun resigned at home since she was pregnant, until the baby was born Yun Yun is still at home to take care of the baby, not Yun Yun is lazy to work, but really don't worry about the baby, and the baby is still so young to eat breast milk, so Yun Yun has been at home with the baby, although the life is poor, but the whole family is very happy.

Now the baby is more than six years old, in the first grade of primary school, the surrounding neighbors and even the mother-in-law have intentionally or unintentionally told Yun Yun that she should go out to work, the baby gradually grows up and spends more, it is not easy for her husband to work alone to take care of the whole family, in fact, Yun Yun also wants to go out to work, and wants to share it with her husband, but Yun Yun just can't bear to let the baby become a left-behind child.

In fact, Yun Yun was a left-behind child when she was a child, and when she was a child, her parents left her grandfather to go out to work for the sake of the family's livelihood, Yun Yun personally tasted the suffering of left-behind children, so Yun Yun thought that no matter how hard and tired she was, she couldn't let her children suffer what she had suffered.

After listening to Yunyun's story, I felt really heartbroken. Now more and more mothers choose to take their babies at home, why is this? After investigation, it was found that there are several reasons:

1. Participate in the baby's growth.

As in the above story, I have personally tasted the suffering of left-behind children, and I don't want my baby to suffer the same sin, I hope that I can participate in the baby's growth, give the baby the love it needs, and let the baby live happily. This is mainly for those poor rural places, of course, in big cities or some places with relatively better living conditions, the mother insists on staying at home, mainly because she does not want to miss every moment of the baby's growth, and hopes to watch the baby grow and give the baby the love and care it deserves.

Second, there is no one to take care of the baby.

After some pregnant mothers give birth to babies, they can't invite a confinement lady due to family conditions, plus their mother-in-law is no longer there, their own mother is not in good health, and they have to take care of their brother and daughter-in-law's confinement, children, there is no time to take care of themselves, there is really no way but to do it themselves, take care of the baby at home, I thought that the baby can go to school, but after school has to pick up the baby, so there is no way but to be a full-time wife at home.

3. I can't get along peacefully with my mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are always the existence of no right or wrong, and they may quarrel for very small reasons, or they may be red-faced because of the concept of parenting. In fact, mothers with mothers-in-law have some choices to return to the workplace after giving birth, but after a period of time, due to the difference in parenting concepts and living habits, the mother resigned to take care of the baby and family at home.

What do you do after giving birth?

First of all, if the father-in-law and mother-in-law don't have time, they also have their own independent space, that is their own freedom, if they give you children, it will show that they feel very sorry for you and your husband, if they don't bring you children, you don't have any complaints.

Basically, it is to clean up your own house, and then go out to buy vegetables to cook for the baby, take care of the baby's daily life, do some reading about raising the baby, and watch TV series to pass the time.

These people want to take care of their families and their children, and they don't worry about asking for a confinement lady or handing it over to others.

It is relatively busy, you need to take care of the children, you need to clean up the house, and you need to cook, which is very hard and tiring.

You should choose to go out to work, because this can make the family conditions better, and it can also change the child's mentality, which also has certain benefits for the child's growth.

I think mothers can choose according to their specific situation, if the child is taken or sent to the kindergarten, they can choose to go out to work.

You should go out to work because it makes you feel very secure and makes you feel very emotional.

Nowadays, many mothers are reluctant to hand over their children to the elderly to take them, but they have to go to work, and many young parents would rather hand over their children to the nursery than let the elderly at home take them. Of course, some old people are suitable for taking a baby, some old people are not suitable for taking a baby, some old people are better than parents bringing out a baby, if there will be such an old man at home, it is really good. But not all the elderly are as conservative as their best friends and mothers-in-law, resulting in the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if there are these three kinds of old people in the family, it is very suitable for children, not only can bring the children more and more intelligent, but also ease family relations, there are such old people, it is really a blessing for children and mothers.

There are these three kinds of elderly people with babies at home, and my mother can feel at ease.

1. The elderly with a relatively high level of education.

There are some old people who are more connotative, they are more real skills, they are more familiar with China's traditional Chinese culture and so on, by this kind of old people with babies will often tell stories to the baby, the baby listens to it with relish, can harvest a lot of items, and this kind of old people are open-minded, not so cautious and feudal society, they are usually very reliable with babies.

Second, the elderly who do not spoil their children.

Many old people are more likely to over-spoil children, and even have no principles for children, this kind of old people can spoil children, will make children develop a lot of bad habits, some old people are very standard when taking children, this kind of old people with children is very good, not easy to over-pamper children, can help children shape the correct three views.

3. Elderly people who like to take their children out to play.

Some old people don't like to go out, which leads to children also nesting at home, in fact, this is very bad for the growth of children, but some old people especially like to take children to play, take children to museums or ecological parks or other places to play, etc., so that children can see things that are not common, let children grow knowledge, and at the same time can improve children's expression skills, which is very beneficial to children's development.

If there are three kinds of elderly people with babies at home, mothers can rest assured: first, the elderly with a high level of education, second, the elderly who do not spoil their children, and third, the elderly who like to take their children out to play.

If the elderly are very responsible, their physical strength is relatively good, and they can adhere to some good habits, Bao Ma can also rest assured.

1.Loving but not doting old man 2Knowledgeable old man 3sensible old people, etc.