Your best friend of the opposite sex confesses to you, but you don t like him

Boys and girls can't be simple friends, boys choose you to be friends just a pretense, in his eyes you are just a choice for him, he sees your attachment to him, maybe you are attached to him for your good, but those good for him are paid for this choice. You can only choose to cut off relations with him and keep your distance, and the best outcome is that you don't turn against each other, and in the future, he will not be as good to you as before.

If you are a girl with a bold personality and a big grin, I am in favor of you and him directly saying what you think, it is better to let him see your happiness, but try to hurt him as little as possible, because good friends are rare, whether they are of the opposite sex or the same sex, I think there is no gender difference in real friendship. If you're an introvert, I think you should make it clear to him, or you'll get hurt even more.

If you can't be a friend, you can't do it, feelings can't be forced, if he still pesters you, that's the only way! Give him some time, trust him to figure it out, and maybe be the best confidant in the future.

Make it clear to him that you already have someone you like (even if you don't), you can be best friends, and tell him that friends can grow old together, and there will never be problems such as mutual distrust between lovers, and I believe he will figure it out.

He replied, "In my eyes, I regard you as the best friend of the opposite sex, because you respect me and I respect you, so we can be good friends." But if you look at our pure friendship as dirty, you can only say sorry, because I feel that you don't respect me anymore.

There is no personal relationship between the two of us, and I have never thought about you! If you want to continue to be friends, please put your mind right, otherwise, I'm afraid my friends won't have to do it. ”

Don't refuse tactfully, explain to him calmly, and hope that he will face it calmly.

And you tell him that you and I can only be friends.

Time can dilute everything!

It's very helpless, you may not even have friends. Because even if he says that you can't be a lover and you can be friends, you will definitely feel embarrassed when you get along with him, and he can't just be your friend.

If you leave, I like the state; But the real opposite-sex friends are clearly defined.

If it's that kind of unreasonableness. Stalker. Then give him a direct blow. Completely let him die. Love cannot be charitated. If you don't love him, make it clear. Don't let him get misunderstood. Bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.

If you have a very good relationship with a friend of the opposite sex, when you find that you like the other person, you feel that it is better for you to go straight to the confession. I have always believed that there is no real friendship between the opposite sex, even if the two opposite sex did not have any heartbeat when they first got along, but after getting along for a long time, it is easy to fall in love with each other for a long time, and it is relatively normal for two people to be able to know each other, and now the two people are very good friends, so this kind of fate is also rare, everyone should go directly to confess to him.

As everyone slowly increases in age, many people will drift away from their previous friends, if there are always people around who are connected with each other, then the feelings between two people must be very deep, some people because of the particularity of their profession, so they are facing the same sex after work, if there is finally a opposite sex around, everyone should also cherish the opportunity. If you find that you have a very good relationship with friends of the opposite sex around you, and you find that you have fallen in love with each other, then you should confess directly, in case the other party is also secretly in love with you, two people go both ways, very beautiful. It is not easy for everyone to meet someone who has a great fate with them, everyone must seize this opportunity, don't wait until you miss it to regret it, even if you confess failure, it doesn't matter.

If you find that you have fallen in love with your friend of the opposite sex, if you have not confessed, the relationship between the two people has always been friendship, and you will definitely feel very uncomfortable. Since you have met the god in your heart, you must express it in time, if you don't say it, who can know your memory? Feelings are cultivated slowly, and not all people fall in love at first sight.

Yes, the relationship is to be fought for by yourself, whether the other party accepts you or not, you will not have regrets, in case the confession is successful, the other party also likes you, then everyone will be happy.

I won't confess directly, at this time I will observe the other party, whether I have the same good impression of myself, and if so, I will choose to confess.

I won't confess directly, because I think that if I confess, it may affect the two of them to be together, and it will be impossible for the two of them to be friends.

Presumably, a person of the opposite sex who has a good relationship with you confesses this matter to youMost people have experienced it, even if they haven't experienced it themselves. Presumably, whoever encounters this problem will have a headache, because this matter is indeed very difficult to handle, after all, you have a good relationship before that.

If you don't handle it well, you're not just losing a loved one, you will also lose a good friend with whom you have a good relationship. So at this time, many people will make difficulties, cautiously tempt, carefully say every word to him, and seem not as comfortable as before, for fear that they will say something wrong at this time, and then at this time he is sensitive, afraid that he will be hurt.

At this time, we have to distinguish between two situations, that is, whether you like him or not. In the first case, if you like him, you can choose to accept his confession, you must know each other well after playing together for so long, and your personalities must also get along, what you like, or what you play together must also have similarities, so it is easier for you to find what the other person likes when you are in love. That way, you won't have to quarrel and conflict because of each other's personality or buying something that you don't want.

If you love him, then accept it boldly, love is love, otherwise it will be a pity not to be together in the future, take one step at a time. After all, if you like him, you are not willing to just be friends with him, not to mention that you are good friends, how much courage did he muster to confess to you.

In the second case, you don't like him. If you don't like him and you don't want to lose this good friend, then you have to think deeply about what to say to him, so that he can accept it better and your relationship will not be affected. Presumably he likes your words, you tell her the truth, tell him, and you will treat his confession today as a lie.

And then don't mention it to anyone in the future, so that he can understand you.

It depends on the relationship with him. If the relationship is very good, his confession can be an opportunity, and you can choose to watch it everywhere. If you don't see him as someone you can get along with, you can choose to make it clear to him and reject him.

It depends on whether I like him or not, if I like him then I will definitely be very happy, if I don't like him then I will reject him directly, and I will not be ambiguous.

At this time, if I also have a crush on him, I will agree, and if I refuse, both of us will be particularly embarrassed.

If I like this friend, I will probably be very happy.

Look at people, if you have feelings for Qiquezhi's friend of the opposite sex, you will accept his confession. If you don't feel it, you'll reject him. If you have been together for such a long time, you should know if you have a good sense of quietly.

If a friend of the opposite sex confesses to me, I will divide the situation, if I change myself to the boy Hui Douling, then I will accept it, but if I don't like it, my ex-relatives will refuse it.

Yes, since it's a friend, there is no feeling of calling, and the crack can't agree even if it's a confession, a friend is a friend after all, and you must be rational in this uproar, otherwise your friends will be gone.