It s been a month since I broke up with my girlfriend, and I beg you heroes to come in and help me

You're in a similar situation to a friend I live with now, but he's been separated for more than a year.

I don't know anything else, but one thing is clear, you think you love her, that's it.

Before love becomes affection, feeling is everything! You say you love her very much, you treat her very well or something, it's all your own feelings. If she felt the same way, she wouldn't have left so resolutely.

The nerves that humans feel pain are much more developed than those that feel happiness. You are ten times better for people than you are for people, and maybe you think that the two are balanced. So don't say at every turn that I love her, that I'm good to her, that I give a lot for her, or anything like that!

You can't think about it from the other party's point of view, no matter how much you do, it will increase the burden on the other party!

There is a saying that if a man really loves a woman, he is either spiritually strong or materially strong. You say she doesn't love money, so do you think she is mentally strong enough? I didn't do anything, and I said that I did a lot of ...... for others

Maybe she doesn't like to be tied up....Sticky husband....People who love freedom and need space, still haven't found the right person!

Emotional things, there are things that are difficult to say, and the feelings that are forced to come can be so good that they can go, give each other a little time, let everyone think clearly, if you really lose, don't care too much, only loss is the beginning of getting! Good luck!

Some women will never look back once they give up, no matter how hard you try. She has seen it through a year, so I advise you to give up! Twisted melons are not sweet.

One possibility is that she has changed her mind, and the words she said are just excuses.

The second is that you also have problems, you don't stand in the other person's perspective, and you are too self-conscious.

If it can't be recovered, forget it, the relationship won't be deep in a year.

I also agree with the point of view of the 5th floor!

If you want to win back the other person, I think you need to express your sincerity and feelings in all aspects to move the other person.

If it's a month of breakup.

It is advisable to find a way to contact him first.

Look at his attitude now.

What I'm most afraid of is that he is already cold to you.

Some things are just hard to undo.

If you want to redeem, it is recommended that you consider these questions first, first, what is the reason for your breakup, and second, how much are you willing to pay to redeem her, because redemption is a long-term process, and the other party may not have any reaction at first, can you always persevere? The third is do you know her? Have you thought about any way to redeem yourself?

Fourth, do you know how to adjust your relationship mode after recovery? If your answer is yes, if not, it is recommended to find a professional emotional mentor to help you, so that the recovery efficiency is faster.

Analyze what you want to get your girlfriend back.

But you don't look for each other for a month.

Then the probability of redemption is already low.

The probability of redemption is the highest when you just break up.

It is advisable that you accept the consequences that the redemption will not succeed.

Then go ahead and give it a try.

I think if you want to reconcile, the most important thing is to find out the real reason for your breakup.

1.Whether your relationship has reached the stage of boredom.

2.Whether you spend less time together (time and feelings are basically proportional) 3What are the reasons for the breakup!

Money, misunderstandings, rivals, etc.) 4.Understand your girlfriend's basic network! (e.g. having those friends having a good time) 5

Apologize sincerely after understanding the main reasons! (For example, go to his place of work and wait for him to get off work and then invite the other party to dinner and apologize) ps: Don't think that even if you apologize, the other party will only think that you don't value her!

5.Analyze your girlfriend's attitude of rejecting you! (tough, refreshing, hesitating, etc.) ps: If it is the first 2 cases, you have already been sentenced to death, it may be that you have changed your mind, or you may have no feelings for you!

6.If you are rejected by the first 2 kinds, you are persuaded to die, women are sometimes terrible! There is basically no chance of saving!

Unless it appears in a TV series"Heroes save beauty"If you go to the hospital and lie down for a few days, the other party has a great chance to be touched by you, so there may be a little chance! ps: In reality, this method may not have a chance to be used, and it may not be successful, the reality is cruel!

In fact, emotional things can't be lost because of impulse or suspicion, if you can't let go of her, admit your mistake with her and say that you were not right at the time, you can't give up because of one or two, stalk and fight If you really have fate, you will be together I wish you happiness and bravely rush forward for love.

If you are too suspicious, you will be jealous from a small fight, and your feelings will escalate to a lack of tolerance, lack of trust and other character problems. Everyone has their own space, love is not for two people to confine each other, there must be space for each other to breathe love can survive for a long time.

If you can't get back together, reflect on how much of your relationship is too good to forget.

If you can continue, please cherish each other.