Because of the quarrel, the boyfriend s parents objected

Updated on psychology 2024-06-28
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Your boyfriend is too immature, no matter what conflicts the two of you have, how you quarrel, you shouldn't let your parents know, no parents don't feel sorry for their children, in fact, when you still think it's okay to quarrel, they already think that their children are too bad, and you can find someone who won't quarrel again.

    After quarreling all the time, quarreling can't be a reason to break up, there is no couple in the world who doesn't quarrel, what's wrong with quarrels, when you just fell in love, didn't you feel that as long as you could be together, everything didn't matter, how can you break up now because of quarrels.

    Also, he reads your blog twenty times a day, which proves that he still loves you, and he will feel that he can't bear to break up with you, wrong, just don't say it. Or maybe his parents are too much against you now, and his heart is shaken, in short, he didn't do it well. You shouldn't let your parents know about your quarrel.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You decide to end a cold war because you know if it's your fault, you miss him, or if you're afraid he'll be here.

    Getting to know another person of the opposite sex?

    At the beginning of the Cold War, we first thought pessimistically, "It's over, he won't look for me anymore." He didn't.

    appeared, our pessimism turned into anger, and we began to scold him in our hearts: "Hum Yan" has great theoretical significance and independent science.

    Significance. Lenin pointed out, this, still don't hit ** come to me? "Day by day, he still doesn't surrender, us.

    's self-confidence began to waver, and if he was willing to call, I would immediately forgive him. However, he did not mean to compromise at all.

    No, it was like going on vacation, and there was no news. At this time, we began to worry, could it be that during the Cold War, he met another girl, and that woman took advantage of the situation? The Cold War turned out to be a breakup.

    The more we think about it, the more terrible it becomes, we just want to scold him, not to scold him. For so many years, if everyone is in the cold war.

    In a few days or a month, he fell in love with another person, who emphasized "curing the heart" and "following etiquette", paid attention to the commentary of scriptures and history, believed in the mandate of heaven, and opposed the change of the law. , then he is not human at all. However, who can erase this possibility?

    Perhaps, the cold war again and again, made him realize that he and I could not get along at all, and then entangled in righteousness" is to see people only as a living embodiment of the power of history, and the dialectic is "Mark, everyone is suffering." Just when he was frustrated, one.

    When he went to drink, he met a beautiful woman

    Woo, it's terrible, so when he finally called, although we said: "Hum yourself", "Since."

    know that you are ignorant". He has been concerned about ethical issues all his life, and has raised the question of "Virtue is, is it willing to fight **?" "Actually.

    I was so happy.

    It turned out that it was the woman's sense of crisis that ended a cold war.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you're willing to try it, you really don't pay attention to him, he really loves you, and he will definitely come to you, I believe that your boyfriend should know how to deal with such a thing in the future, and his mind will become a little more mature, if he also makes up his mind, then you may be out of play... So it's a bet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you think it's necessary to persevere and be happy, try to do it, and if you think you're barely happy together, you have to let go as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such a stingy boy, what does his parents mean by such an attitude towards you? His parents like you and won't talk in front of you, what is his son good? Is it your fault?

    Are you not worthy of their son anymore? A man who truly loves you won't be so stingy! Maybe I don't know about your situation, so you might as well observe yourself for a while and decide your feelings with your fiery eyes.

    If you say the truth, if you don't like it, you will be talking nonsense.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Then you calm down for a while now, in fact, your parents and parents also think about it, if his family is not particularly reliable, so that when he gets married in the future, he will suffer a lot of grievances, and your parents feel very sorry for you.

    Why do you quarrel with your parents because of your boyfriend? Because the boyfriend's condition is not good?

    No matter how your parents are good for you, you should first calmly think about whether what your parents said is right, you can say to your parents, give me some time to think about it, and you have to break it slowly, so that if what your parents say is not right, you can have time to do work slowly, if you also give yourself time to think quietly, this is called a delaying strategy.

    Because my boyfriend has two sons in my family, and my two daughters in my family have married out, I know that my mother thinks about me, but we really like each other, and we talked about each other very properly at first, and there was an accident, which made my family think that his family was unreliable, but it has been solved, but my family is entangled in this problem, and now it is because of this kind of thing.

    That's right, yes, but my parents didn't get along with the man's parents and judged it to be a bad family.

    How can this situation be mitigated.

    Then you calm down for a while now, in fact, your parents and parents also think about it, if his family is not particularly reliable, so that when he gets married in the future, he will suffer a lot of grievances, and your parents feel very sorry for you.

    Calm down for a while and see what his man says? See what attitude the man uses to solve it, and then figure out a way.

    There is nothing wrong with the man, but my parents won't let them come.

    The man, I have agreed to all the requests.

    It's just that there was a little problem that made my parents feel bad<>

    Let your parents think about them for a while, and then see if your parents can change their minds?

    Can you tell us what specific problems are occurring in the South?

    Then your sisters are already married, so do you need to recruit a son-in-law now? I can say it, what is the little problem with the man? Does it make your parents think she is bad?

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