What do you do when you meet someone who is nosy?

Don't tell him your own secrets, and don't listen to what he tells you about other people's secrets, or you'll get into trouble.

After meeting such people, you should really know how to keep your mouth shut and not quarrel with them.

I choose to deal less with this kind of person, and I just listen to what they want to say and don't express my opinion.

Then I will try to deal with this person as little as possible, and it will hurt others if I say it directly, so it is the best way to stay away directly, as the saying goes, out of sight is pure.

Of course, try to stay away as much as possible, because if you associate with this kind of person, you will become a victim sooner or later. So if I have such people around me, I will avoid them. To be honest, my husband is such a person.

Not at first, when I first met him, he was a very conservative person, but because his colleagues around him at work were rough people, he was also affected and would worry about everything. And if it's not his business, he will lean over and say a few words, which is very enjoyable. Once I went out with him, and saw that someone had a car rear-end collision, he directly heard the car on the side of the road, and then got out of the car to go to the live broadcast scene, all kinds of people said that people were stupid and the like, which made the people next to him hear, just look at him, I reminded him to say less, but he said that I was nosy, and then said that people were even more excessive, and in the end, there was no business with us, and as a result, their spearheads came to my husband.

I sat in the car with the child in my arms, didn't say anything, and listened to my husband confess outside, which was very uncomfortable, and I felt that my husband was the kind of person who bullied the weak and feared the hard. It's disgusting to think about it now.

Everyone has a mouth, everything must have a degree, and some people love to care and say it is also for a good, because he wants to be good and he has to say it, which is good but excessive, so we will not feel that this is a matter if we use a parallel mentality to deal with the generation.

First of all, others are nosy, that is because others are not well cultivated, as a person who is good in all aspects of cultivation and morality, there is no need to worry about an uncultivated person, you can't make a mistake, put on headphones and listen to songs, the whole world is yours.

Although fighting grievances makes the perpetrator hate him to the core, it enables the victim to uphold justice, which is a good deed and a righteous act, and should be supported and encouraged. And nosy is the kind that is full of food. Looking for nothing to do, acting as a judge to show his existence, for fear that others will call him dumb.

It backfired, backfired, and people really hated to spit on it. In life, such nosy people do have. First, if the person who does good deeds is your own relative, you don't have to be polite, just tell him that his mouth is really itchy, and you can go to an open place and shout for three days and three nights, so as not to be embarrassed and hated.

Second, if your own affairs are fooled in by irrelevant people, you can warn him, don't stretch your paws too long with a mouse, there is no place where you can be used. Otherwise, he will only add to the chaos, and the trouble will be even more constant. That's about it.

Nosy people are often troublemakers, and if they can, they try to scold them as much as possible, so that they have no power to retaliate. If you do this again and again, you will naturally have self-knowledge.

Tell him directly, I'm busy or I'm annoyed, I don't want to talk today, I want to be quiet, of course, pay attention to the tone and demeanor, friends and colleagues are not happy because of this.

It depends on what's right. If it's someone else's business, I won't say anything, after all, it's someone else's housework, and someone else will solve it. If it was for me, he was always talkative, and I would definitely not be able to bear it.

Just like when I was in college, a roommate was like this, very targeted, very kind to others, but only I was not used to all kinds of things, and looked down upon. Originally, I wanted to pretend not to pay attention to it, but I didn't expect that she would actually point fingers in front of me, which is very hateful. In the end, I broke out, had a fight with her, and never spoke again, and I didn't really say a word until I graduated.

Everyone is safe.

There really is such a person around. Former roommates. The mouth is particularly miscellaneous.

I whisper in your ear all day long, and I want to be very strong. For example, discussing a topic. Always feel like you're right.

I endured it for the first three years of college. Don't argue with him. He asked me what I was talking about.

One day I couldn't hold back. I had a fight with him at night. Then he didn't say a word.

It's disgusting. He himself posted some words on the Internet accusing Sang of scolding Huai. , a boy is like a big girl, and he is talking about disgusting people behind his back.

I wanted to stab him with a knife when I saw that. The people around me advised me to forget it. I came up with a solution.

Move out of the dormitory. I can't afford to provoke it, I can always afford to hide. Someday someone more disgusting than him will disgust him.

If you meet such a person, you don't let him have a chance to play, while he is talking about you, if you say it's off, you refute him, he will accept that if he says you for the first time, you will directly show your vitality expression, then the other party, he will not dare.

Tips not to get angry:

1. Correctly understand the harm of "anger", "anger" first hurts yourself, others may also be hurt, or you may not be affected at all, it is completely your own "sulking", and you can't get along with yourself! So it can be said that being angry is that you can't get along with yourself! So don't get along with yourself!

2. Think in a good direction in everything! For example: the child is disobedient, that annoying, don't be annoyed, think about it, the disobedient child is assertive, and there will definitely be a future in the future! So look at everything with an optimistic mindset!

3. It doesn't matter the mentality! Big things are regarded as ordinary little things, and when the sky falls, there is an eldest son on top, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter to me at all! As long as you have a "it doesn't matter" mentality, you can look at anything with the mentality of a spectator! The bystanders are "clear"!

Listen to him chatting or leaving, or doing something else to divert from his conversation.

This situation is normal, that is to say, some people are chatting when she is fine, if you don't want to listen to him first, you can ignore him and stay away from him, but I think people sometimes talk a lot, how many words are really normal? So I don't think it's necessary to dwell too much on this issue.

Summary. At work, if your colleague is the kind of nosyman, you shouldn't deal with him at this time, and you shouldn't trust him too much, sometimes he will give you little shoes. Because in the work, the competition is particularly strong, everyone thinks that they can be promoted and raised, but your colleague is obviously a villain, so you should not trust him too much when it comes to such a colleague.

At work, if your colleague is the kind of nosyman, you shouldn't deal with him at this time, and you shouldn't trust him too much, sometimes he will give you little shoes. Because in the work, the competition is particularly strong, everyone thinks that they can be promoted and raised, but your colleague is obviously a villain, so you should not trust him too much when it comes to such a colleague.

Last year my boyfriend and I went to a bar, just the two of us, there was a boy in our village who also worked in that bar, I think it's a normal thing, but I didn't expect him to tell people, everyone he said, he said I do this and that.

Although he didn't say it in front of me, he always loved to say bad things about me to others in front of me, and I saw it with my own eyes.

I'm really annoyed, I want to warn him or just ignore him.

Don't bother with it.

If a dog bites you, do you still bite a dog.

There is no need. But it's a stockade, almost everyone will go to say, he does this, I really can't see people, it's a very normal little thing, he has to talk nonsense behind his back.

This kind of thing doesn't need to be bothered.

The more you try to ignore him.

He's going to be even more excessive.

Add fuel to the fire. To be honest, he is really gossipy, and his quality is low, if you ignore him, he will still talk nonsense behind his back.

So it's useless.

Isn't it already illegal for him to do this, I can sue him.

OK. Sue him for defamation.

I think that meddling may not only not solve the problem, or not get the gratitude of the parties, but may even be two-sided people, so it is better to ignore it.

First of all, the word "gossip" means that the matter has nothing to do with you, you are an outsider. And if you haven't experienced it yourself, it's hard to think about it from the perspective of the parties. The best solution you propose may not be the best solution that the person wants or can accept.

Secondly, "idle affairs" are basically private matters between one or several other people, and most people don't like outsiders to dictate their private affairs. If you insist on getting up, you will ignore it, even if you use the banner of "for your good" and "maintaining social harmony", it will only provoke people's disgust, so don't blame others for not giving you a good face.

Thirdly, even if you really do good deeds, you may not be thanked and accepted by the parties. In particular, the issue of other people's family ethics has always been the most difficult to figure out. If you intervene, no matter whether the matter is resolved or not, there will always be one party, or even both parties, who will blame you.

It's not impossible for this kind of thing to happen.

In the end, other people's idle affairs will not affect their own lives, and even if they are managed, they may affect their own lives. So it's better to live a simpler life, and it may be happier to be nosy.

It's okay to deal with it simply, or tell him directly and tactfully that you don't feel comfortable with this way of interacting and ask her to respect other people's feelings.

That's not easy, ignore him! Because I don't care about him! Make him feel like you look down on him!

I think it's the best way for such a person, stay away from him, and when the time is constant, he will run out of electricity, and I'm usually like that.

Reply directly: I bothered you, but it's a pity that I didn't pay you a salary.

People are emotional animals, no matter how big things they encounter in life, they also change to deal with them calmly, and they must have a good attitude towards people and things. In fact, there are some things that you don't care about, and if you pay too much attention to it, it will only affect your mood.

It must be sincere, that is, to give others enough trust, which ensures that 95% of them do not deceive others. Be kind and willing to help others. Especially for your own efforts, don't be stingy, what you will gain will be touched and a deeper friendship; For those who are in difficulty, they should give them the help they can, even if they will sacrifice some of their own interests.

Be a good listener. Often we can all be a good talker, in fact, being a good listener will make you gain more feelings. Try not to interrupt someone when they're talking in high spirits, even if they're not right or you've heard them.

If a person's position in your heart is very important, then you have to tell him, regardless of his status in the other person, at least he will know the reason why you put so much effort into your feelings. Don't be rigid, and don't feel like a bargain.

I think it's good to communicate with people normally. In fact, some of their nosy things are just to help others, and then when they encounter such a situation, they can also participate in it, and then they will feel very warm and comfortable.

Take the initiative to greet people as often as possible. Don't think how proud you are, and don't think that this will damage your face, to put it bluntly, is for your vanity;

Just be yourself and let others say it. For other people's nosy behavior, good opinions are acceptable. Ignore other people's nosy behavior. For other people's nosy behavior, disagreement, directly with the other party theory. ‍‍

Let's listen to what he said first, and if outsiders shouldn't interfere in things, then explain it clearly and tell him not to care about what he shouldn't care.

Be good at asking others for advice. Don't talk about your own vague questions, when you ask for advice, you should make a picture of piety or even five bodies to the ground, satisfy the vanity of others to make him happy, why not do it yourself! When speaking, try to say as few imperative sentences as possible, and be tactful and have a consultative tone.

It is not allowed to show a picture of not giving up until the goal is achieved. Always review yourself and put yourself in your shoes. Always put yourself in someone else's shoes.