What do people who like to make friends with the opposite sex think?

I feel like my mindset is masculine. Chatting with boys can have more ideological communication, while chatting with girls is not about shopping, cosmetics and gossip such as love. Of course, except for those literary and artistic young women who are full of poetry and books and have their own thoughts.

And boys don't have the jealousy and suspicion of girls who are easier to talk about. However, as I grew older, I felt that it was good to make more same-sex friends, and I also discovered a lot of their shining points. I feel like I have to make any kind of friends now, and everyone has their own strengths, which are worth learning from.

But it would be nice to have a wide range of friends. I feel like I'm getting more and more squirming now, and I'm not very good at making friends, unlike I used to.

A friend of mine, used to cast a wide net (such as the beautiful girl paper that the company just came to for a few days, he would quickly get *** and the like), and then he was very tired of chatting on the Internet, and his mouth was very sweet and easy to make people happy, but he died when he saw the light (made an appointment for dinner, and after eating, basically my friend was blackened). Later, I finally found a girlfriend, and I basically stopped chatting with girls, and they were all talking to our group of friends. I use this as an example to say that there are many people of the opposite sex, and the reason why it must be necessary.

Either they are very good at caring about people, or they are very good at coaxing people, or they are rich. It's all about having advantages.

I think that whether you are a man or a woman, you have a lot of friends of the same sex or the opposite sex, if you have a lot of regular contact with each other, but you don't help when you have something, it is a waste of time. With a partner, you need to keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex, and maintain friendship without appearing close, this degree needs to be mastered.

If my friends of the opposite sex are the kind of friends, I made it clear from the beginning that we will only be best friends, and we can lend you shoulders to lean on, but we will never deviate from the norm and have no thoughts. When friends of the opposite sex have a partner, I will be happy for them and avoid danger.

In fact, when you meet friends of the opposite sex, you will find a lot of different things to get along with the same sex, and there will be a lot more different fun. Secondly, it also won a lot of opportunities for getting rid of singles.

As far as normal people can be, I have as many friends of the opposite sex as there are friends of the same sex. I don't even know when I have to make friends and depend on gender? My friends of the opposite sex and my male ticket know, usually go out to eat with them or something, I will tell my male ticket, and he has no opinion, this should be the basic trust between lovers.

I have a lot of female friends of the opposite sex, I must be the only one, they should still fall in love and fall in love, they should break up and break up, anyway, when he is in love, if his girlfriend minds, he won't come out to play with us, we can understand.

This is a very normal phenomenon. There are more friends, and the road is easier to walk.

When it comes to love, each of us is very much looking forward to it, because we all know that love is happy and very sweet.

Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people will be more serious and work harder. Because they hope that through their own enthusiasm and hard work, they can be with the person they like, and it is in this way that they will eventually be able to have their own happiness and sweet love.

We know that when two people like each other are together, then they will care about each other very much. Because they think that this can make the relationship between two people better. So it is precisely because two people care about each other that some people want to know if you mind, and the object of their affection has a good friend of the opposite sex.

For a lot of people, of course, they are very mindful, because in their impressions. Now that they have a favorite object, they should not have too much contact with other friends of the opposite sex. of the exchanges.

Because once you have intimate contact with the opposite sex, it may cause them unnecessary trouble, and even bring us some misunderstandings.

So we see a lot of young people who don't want their favorite person to have a very good friend of the opposite sex, but we see that it's actually for most people. They both know that good friends are very important, and good friends are able to care for and help each other. So they can fully understand that the person they like also has good friends.

Even if they are friends of the opposite sex, they don't mind, because they know that good friends are mutual care and help. I believe that it is precisely with the mutual care and help of good friends that we can better solve all kinds of problems that Zheng Chong encounters.

So we see a lot of people who like each other, and they are able to understand and support each other very well. So they are also able to understand the object they like, and have some good friends of the opposite sex, because good friends, in fact, many of us have and good friends can also care for each other.

And for these couples, it is also on their mutual understanding and support, which makes them get along more harmoniously, and ultimately makes their love happier and sweeter.

In the early days of marriage, people's social networks will not change much before marriage, and if you can deal with the way you get along with the opposite sex, your marriage will be peaceful and peaceful, and your married life will be happy and happy. Men and women in marriage, if they can keep their heads clear at all times, will be able to not cross the line and lose their proportions. The real life after marriage is nothing more than trivial life trivialities, and it is inevitable that there will be stumbles and quarrels between husband and wife.

After a husband and wife quarrel, remember that you can't complain to friends of the opposite sex, and you can't get in touch with old friends anymore, this is not the right posture to seek help from friends, but a time bomb is planted in married life. Once you are worried about by a third party, if you are not careful, and then you are taken advantage of, the marriage may break down.

The most correct posture to talk about your feelings is to maintain communication with your other half. Most extramarital affairs start with a chat! Both men and women should keep a safe distance and always remind themselves that they are family members and be aware of the impact.

Try to make your significant other feel safe.

Avoid laughing and talking about the opposite sex and having nothing to say to your significant other. The most important point to maintain the relationship between husband and wife is to communicate more, if you refuse to communicate between husband and wife, the relationship will not heat up, and the marriage will be difficult to last. When you get married, don't care about other people of the opposite sex, let alone ask for warmth at will, and avoid chatting with the opposite sex frequently.

The only thing you can do is to care for your significant other. Interactions with friends of the opposite sex after marriage are inevitable, but you need to grasp the scale. Since you are married, don't easily develop friendships with friends of the opposite sex.

Work problems are just work interactions, it's best not to carry the other half behind your back, what to say, that's all. You must avoid meeting friends of the opposite sex alone, and most of all invitations from the opposite sex who are not related outside of marriage will have some kind of expectation and impulse.

If your friends of the opposite sex say that you are happy in the new year, you should reply that you will be happier, I think this combination of two people is the most distressed We have all liked many people, in this life, it is easy to like a person, but it is difficult to forget a person. Some people say that if you like someone, you must tell the other person, so that the other party can know that you like him, and don't like it silently. But some people say that if you like someone and the other person doesn't like you, it's best not to say it, because you will like many people all your life, and if the other party does something embarrassing to you because you like him, what should you do?

If you like someone, be sure to tell him!

Like someone hidden in your heart, you don't tell the other person all the time, your feelings of liking him will spread quickly, and the feelings will get deeper and deeper, and then you think that you have to him. Many years later, you still feel sorry when you think about this relationship.

But if you make it clear to the other person that you like him at the time, if the other party doesn't like you, the relationship will end! If the other person likes you, the relationship continues!

Like a guy don't tell him!

Don't tell someone if you like it, because you're not sure if the other person likes you! When I was in high school, there was a girl who confessed to the boy at the New Year's Day party, and the boy didn't agree at that time, but the next day, the whole class knew that the girl liked him, and many people laughed at him for being dumped, so the girl took a week off from school to come to class.

If you like a person, if you tell the other person, you are not sure what the other party's attitude is towards you, so it is better not to tell the other party first. You can choose to communicate emotionally with the other party in an ambiguous way, and wait until the other party likes you, and then you tell the other party, isn't this a higher success rate?

If you like a person, whether you want to tell the other person or depends on the other person's attitude, you can definitely feel the other person's attitude slightly, whether you like it or hate it, this is normal to feel it.

It is a normal person's psychological need to like friends of the opposite sex, but everything depends on whether it is compliant and customary, and if there is a hurtful friendship, then think twice and not be reckless.

The most important thing is to grasp the principles

As long as we have a good grasp of the principle of communication and pay attention to the scale, the interaction between men and women is either impossible without pure friendship, or the principle of communication is grasped.

Try not to date or meet alone and keep a certain distance.

Same-sex friends usually have something to do when they meet alone. For example, girls go shopping and eat with each other, while boys play games. Although these things can be done between boyfriends and girlfriends, there are still too many inconveniences.

It doesn't hurt to play crazy when you are a group of people, but when the two go out alone, no matter how pure things are, they will inevitably be wronged, and they will also misunderstand their lovers.

When friends of the opposite sex need help, try not to meet each other if they can solve it without meeting. As long as the two of them really play well, they won't care about these, but will really think about each other.

Be careful in your speech and don't make ambiguous jokes.

It doesn't hurt to joke between friends. Because you have a good time, you won't have any scruples, and you dare to say anything to each other. But for friends of the opposite sex, we must grasp the scale well, so as not to be embarrassed by both parties.

Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.