Let s talk about the specific manifestations of people s psychological maturity?

True maturity should be the formation of a unique personality, the discovery of the true self, the spiritual result and the harvest. Ms. E believes that everyone's definition of maturity is different. Everyone has a ruler to measure themselves.

Mental maturity is manifested by the fact that you begin to try to understand the things that you cannot understand, stop crying easily, stop complaining, and stop pinning your hopes on others. When you become optimistic, courageous, kind, see the indifference of the world, and still retain love, this is the beginning of true inner maturity. Psychologically mature people do not panic when encountering problems and deal with them calmly.

This is also one of the criteria for measurement. When a psychologically mature person encounters an unexpected situation, even if he has no bottom in his heart, he will still suppress his panic, calm himself down, organize his thoughts in time, and come up with a solution as soon as possible, instead of anxiously pacing back and forth, letting all kinds of irritable emotions disturb his brain. Psychologically mature people are becoming more and more responsible, and their awareness of responsibility is becoming stronger and stronger.

It will become clearer and clearer what to do and what not to do. Psychologically mature people are constantly improving, not just talking, every word and deed will be put into action to make you more mature.

Write about my understanding of maturity: knowing the world but not the world. I know how to be silent, I will lose too much talk, I have learned to think, I think before I speak, I don't say too much easily, I am not emotional, and I am good at regulating my emotions.

If you have a firm idea in your heart, of course, you will also reflect on your own loopholes, see the wisdom and wisdom, and do not easily change your bottom line. Strong self-control, love yourself, do not give up on yourself, even if you encounter difficulties, do not fall into negativity, but find a way to solve it. I don't care about a little thing.

Know when to compromise and when to stick to your principles. It doesn't follow the crowd. Have their own thoughts and opinions.

Love yourself and have a good lifestyle, such as going to bed early and waking up early, constantly studying, reading books, and having proper entertainment. Don't lose yourself. For example, I don't know what kind of life I want, and I don't know the meaning of my daily life......It's so hard......I can't do it.

You must know that no one is perfect, but I still believe that there will be such people who are strict with themselves.

1.No longer limited by the mainstream of society or social prejudices, but able to think independently. 2.

Look critically at people and things, understand and embrace the natural laws behind them. 3.Knowing that learning is a lifelong thing, not to adapt to the external world, but to obtain spiritual food from within, and then to gain freedom from external reality.

4.Accept the difference in personality and values, and stop trying to convince, because it is a product of the environment, and you may not be better than him. 5.

Even after the vicissitudes of life, he still maintains tolerance and curiosity about the world. 6.Money is not dung, but it is far less important than people.

7.Good fences make good neighbors. 8.

Love yourself.

Maturity is often accompanied by cruelty. When I was a child, I didn't understand, I always thought that as I grew older, people would naturally become more and more mature, and at that time I always thought that time was the best medicine. But as I got older, I suddenly found that when I faced difficulties, I used my so-called maturity to deal with them, but I got the evaluation of "how can you do things so immature".

I began to doubt, I wondered if I was doing a good job, and I looked at myself, little by little, from head to toe. I used to be confident that I was so old that I was qualified to say that I had eaten more salt than anyone else had ever eaten rice, but I still received the comment that I was immature. I even thought it was them who were wrong, they were looking at me with tinted glasses.

But as I had more and more things to face, I suddenly felt empty. At this time, others stopped judging what I had done, and I was already afraid. Finally, when I lost the most important thing, I realized that I still had a long, long way to go before I truly matured.

Maturity often comes with cruelty, because you only mature overnight when you lose the tossing and turning thing that makes you hurt at night, but this maturity is really cruel. I was like that, when I lost the most important thing in an instant, when my heart twitched every night, when I stared at the ceiling all night, when the sun was shining on my face at dawn, I suddenly realized that after the real pain in my heart, it turned out to be as calm as a lake. I thought that my life might end here, but I didn't, and I bravely came back to life, and although it hurt as if I was reborn, I still survived.

When you go through a lot of things, you grow up and you control your emotions, what to do and what not to do. There are not so many glass hearts, I think time is too precious, there is no need to waste time in entanglements, contradictions, but to face the ...... positively what happenedPsychologically mature people know more about the law of development of things, and they know that things are not achieved overnight, and people who need to be psychologically mature understand the law of development of things, and they know that things are not achieved overnight, and they need long-term accumulation to see better results. They will be more focused on their skills, have more self-disciplined behavior habits in life, whether it is reading or studying, they will turn their big dreams into daily work.

I can tolerate more. And then there is the ability to control your emotions (personally I feel that this is really a sign of maturity) is that in the next moment you are about to explode, and then at this moment it feels like there is a string pulling you, and you are not impulsive. The second is to think about problems in your head and analyze people and things often.

I feel that I am more and more able to control my emotions, and when I am angry and disappointed, I still don't say a word hurtful, and I don't make any decisions impulsively. I know that emotions will calm down, but hurtful words cannot be taken back. I was deeply stabbed before I realized how much it hurt.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you. Jumping to scold the people you love will only be sad and regretful afterwards, and those outsiders who anger you, you need to do something more practical than meaningless insults.

Psychological maturity should not be compared, not exaggerated, not rootless, and face everything in life with a correct outlook on life,。。

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Being able to look at yourself positively but objectively and realistically Whether a person's psychological maturity depends on the degree of integration of one's self, in simple terms, how you see yourself. Psychologist Allport, G w.

(1961) once proposed that the first criterion of a mature person is to be able to see oneself positively but objectively and realistically. Relatively mature people usually have these characteristics in their perception of self:

In general, I like myself and feel that I am cute.

Allow yourself to have shortcomings, and be aware of them.

Be able to accept yourself and not be able to judge yourself by words like bad or bad.

The perception of oneself is relatively stable (there may be temporary short-term fluctuations), and it is not very affected by the outside world or others.

Understand and respect your true feelings and emotions.

One of the most important and difficult points is authenticity. The more we move away from our true selves, the more we deny our true emotions, and the more we cling to an idealized self-image, the more internal conflicts will be. Reminds me of what old man Freud said:

These unrecognized emotions will not disappear, they will just be buried alive, and sooner or later these emotions will emerge again.

Ability to build intimate relationships In addition to relationships with oneself, another criterion for mental maturity is relationships with others, that is, the ability to establish satisfying intimate relationships. Developmental psychology believes that only young people with a strong sense of self-identity dare to risk intimacy with others.

And satisfaction has three dimensions of judgment indicators - whether the relationship is healthy, long-lasting, and deep. Yes, Aquaman's kind of fish farming, frequent change of partners, or falling into sadomasochism and unable to extricate himself are beyond the scope of this discussion. There are also some people who think that maturity is not dependent on any relationship, but this is not the case.

A self-centered mindset can hinder our intimacy with others, and the book "The Great Me: The Psychology of Self-Development" suggests three obstacles:

Fear of not being accepted.

Fear of commitment. Fear of being changed.

When we overcome these obstacles, have the ability and willingness to make commitments, and build true intimacy, we are one more step on the road to maturity.

In psychology, whether a person is mature does not mean that his appearance is not mature but whether he is psychologically mature, often some people say that an 18-year-old person has a 30-year-old heart, or the opposite, in short, whether a person's psychology is mature enough determines his life and future, life is full of challenges, a person with a mature heart will be more and more frustrated, a person's psychological maturity 6 manifestations.

1. Whether you have the courage to prepare for change.

People who are mature enough dare to challenge, can jump out of their comfort zone, to maximize the opportunity for growth, and there are a lot of people who are afraid of changing themselves, relevant data show that the vast majority of people with mental illness do not dare to change themselves, when a person lives in a comfortable environment for a long time, their skills will be stopped, will not be more effectively improved.

2. Whether it can be flexible.

People who are mature in their hearts will have flexible thinking, and they will also challenge their own inherent thinking, have the courage to find new ways of finding problems, will find gains in the events that have been hit, and argue with their psychological selves, and people who are mature enough in their hearts will not label others with any negative labels, because they will only look for the advantages of others, ignore the shortcomings, and only find places where they can learn.

3. Whether you can have a positive and optimistic attitude.

An optimistic mindset will make people healthier, more productive at work, better at studying, and less likely to suffer from depression. The reason why people with mental health have a certain degree of optimism is because they will pursue worthy goals, and then strive positively, but also have a negative side, just take this negativity as a driving force, and when they encounter difficulties, they can focus their energy on the range that they can control, and the reason why optimistic people can have a strong mature heart is because they change adversity in difficulties and will not veto themselves because of a mistake in life.

In fact, there are more than six manifestations of psychological maturity, psychological maturity can control their emotions, understand that there is no so-called moment in the world, will not be obsessed with eternity, will not care about the eyes of others, can have a moment of love to learn, and can always maintain a peaceful and happy mood.

1. Performance. 1. Understand that respect is mutual, and know how to control your emotions. There is no necessary link between psychological maturity and physical maturity.

Some people are already young and old at the age of 10, and some people are still innocent at the age of 40. Different upbringing brings different levels of mental maturity. Parents do not respect their children, impose their will on their children, and call me for your good, and even live to be in their 50s and wantonly interfere in their children's marital life.

In the workplace, leaders do not respect their subordinates, shout and dictate to employees, how to get the support and support of their subordinates? Emotions at work and life are out of control, crying noses or grinding fists to duel, how can you make nobles know each other, friends help each other, and lovers cherish each other? Respect yourself and others.

Maturity is based on experience and experience as accumulation, plus one's own comprehension, which cannot be equated with age.

Also, don't deliberately envy and pursue maturity, do what you should do at any age, as long as you experience it, you will understand and grow.