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Let's not talk about whether the relationship between you and your boyfriend should listen to your parents, first say that you are already an adult, you should have your own independent opinions and thoughts, you have to think independently and judge to make various decisions in your life, once or twice you may decide to be wrong, you have to pay for yourself, but slowly it will be exercised, your parents originally meant to love you, but they didn't respect you to the point that they didn't respect you, even to a very excessive degree, and you were obedient to everything, Your parents' hatred is not steel, and love becomes abuse, which is also contributed to your inaction.

If it goes on like this, okay, your parents will call the shots for you, and the result is that you love you or hurt you, and in the end, when your parents are old, who will call the shots for you, it's not too late for you to start exercising yourself, and the worst result is to pay for the wrong decision, and this payment is also within the scope of your responsibility, but in the long run, you can be independent, what do you think?

My teacher once said: everyone is an independent individual, you should have the ability to solve your difficulties, and you have this obligation.

Emotions are too big to be true?

Now is the era of free love, and it is normal for men to love women.

While feeling how great your relationship is, please also consider how your parents feel.

If your love is so sincere, please use your sincerity to move your parents.

To live well, you have to do a lot of meaningful things, and to do a lot of meaningful things, then you have to live well.

No, you have to live, you have to live to have a chance!

With fate, everything is possible

Intentional work, don't take it lightly.

Color, sex, too! What the confessor said!

It is the color of the person, and the nature of food is also.

In life, of course, society takes its own interests as the standard to do things, which is the most basic idea of the public. Friends who had a very strong relationship in the past, only in difficulties can you see through their essence. Everyone will give up others for their own benefit, as the saying goes:

The heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and the heart of harming others is not necessarily absent. So, the current society, false.

Hello, Human life is a process of constantly learning to let go. Many things, after you have experienced them, look back, the more you can't let go of those things, the more they often hurt you. Many times, if you still can't look away and let go, it's not because you're not smart enough, it's just because you haven't experienced enough.

All the attachments in your heart, reality will eventually dissolve them one by one, and every time you resist, what you get is the pain you feel... Life has seen through, but it is just ups and downs; Beauty is seen through, but it is only a shell; Life is seen through, but it is impermanence; Love is seen through, but it is just gathering and dispersing! There may be too many whys without answers in life, and there are too many answers without whys, everything in the dark is certain, all you need to do is to be in good times with kindness, and be content with adversity with a quiet mind.

This is the warmth and coldness of life personnel, we must learn to look down on it and treat it with a normal heart, face it with our own free and easy, and then love ourselves and our families with our hearts, everything will be fine.

A close friend, a wife, a daughter and a son, life is good.

Most people in life will think like what you said, but there are also righteous friends, which mainly depends on how you usually treat people.

Most people in life will think like what you said, but there are some true friends who just don't feel it.

People will encounter a lot of unsatisfactory people and things in social interactions, as the saying goes, to make friends with people, which people are not worth letting us interact? Maybe each of us has a ruler in our hearts to measure. Those who lack moral character, bad conduct, and no cultural qualities are not worth associating.

Those who are insidious, cunning, fickle, and scheming are not worthy of our association. Those who do one thing in front of them, one thing behind their backs, who serve the yang and the yin, and who tell the truth and wrong, are not worthy of our association. Those who treat others with hypocrisy, deception and lies are not worthy of our association.

Those who do not repay gratitude, do not know how to be grateful, are ungrateful, and have lost their conscience are not worthy of our association. Those who do not honor their parents and have no humanity are not worthy of our association. Those who are jealous of the blessing of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, and who eat inside and crawl outside, are not worthy of our association.

Those who walk away when you are in trouble and need help, and those who fall into the trap are not worth associating. In short, there are many types of people who don't need and don't deserve to make us pay for them, if you associate with this kind of person, it is easy to let yourself be deceived and deceived, and you will also let yourself be hurt inadvertently, maybe some remorse will be irreparable. Therefore, the best way to meet this kind of person is to keep yourself away from them, but it is best not to offend them, because they are filthy villains, they will be unfavorable to themselves everywhere, they will always calculate you, they will be your stumbling block, so they just stay away.

Will you be happy even if you get married?

Continue to date secretly, but the relationship with your parents must not be broken or broken, please them, make your parents very happy, feel that it is good to have your daughter, and often talk to your parents. You are what they say, they let you and your boyfriend say that you agree on the surface, secretly interact behind the scenes, and then slowly grind and soak slowly. When you speak, you inadvertently say a little bit of your deep feelings for him.

Parents will understand after a long time.

Just don't do anything to hurt yourself.

I don't know if you have seen "Sweet Honey" played by Sun Li and Deng Chao. Ye Qing's Mu please is a bit similar to your mother, they are both very persistent and want their daughters to grow up according to her wishes. If you have time, you can watch this TV series, and maybe you can see a little way from it.

Hehe, will your mother hurt you? If you can get along with him, your mother won't be able to see you?

Tell you, when you look back at this man later, you will find that it is too late.

If it is the biological parents and they do not agree, there must be their reasons. You have to communicate with them and ask them why they don't agree. You also need to think carefully about their concerns. Don't be impulsive, girl, a lifelong thing.

Besides, I think you should let your boyfriend come to your house with you to face your parents, after all, he is a man, no matter how difficult it is, you have to face it bravely, even if you go to it a few times and get kicked out a few times, you must let your parents know your determination.

In case they still don't agree, then keep your mouth shut, anyway, you're not very old at 23 years old, wait another 2 years, you both have jobs, (and it can also help you test your love,) and wait until then, you will face your parents together and see what else they can say.

The worst way is not to marry, and when no one wants to get old, they will definitely agree.

The premise is that at that time, your boyfriend still loves you very much.

It's better not to say it yet, don't make them sad anymore, what is your boyfriend's attitude? Parents must have a reason for doing this, after all, they are from the past, you still give each other some time first, and also give your parents a little time, maybe it will be better when you both work, this time may be very long, but see if you can persevere, this society is too realistic, see if you can stand the test. To be honest, I can understand you, I once had such an experience, just because his family was against (sick), he really had no choice, we had to give up, I have no chance, but you still have to persevere, but don't break your parents' hearts, think clearly about whether you can spend your life together, if you can be firm together, then go on bravely... Final blessings!

It's so pitiful, how can it be so unreasonable.

Brother, I also encountered the same problem as you, but in the end I still embarked on the road of breaking up, what belongs to you can never leave, why should you force it if it doesn't belong to you?? You love her so wishfully, can she understand your sadness, your sadness? What we met was the same result, let it go, if she wants to follow you, she won't leave you.

Hope, thank you.

It's a pleasure to meet you, I have the same experience as you, my adoptive parents are very violent, I have been beaten and scolded since I was a child, I felt that it was my fault when I was a child, and it passed after crying, so many years, I have always remembered, over the years, every day is either beaten or scolded, I am really tired, now that I have grown up, I am very emotional, I will quarrel with them, every time I am so angry that I am so bitter, a few days ago I experienced the first runaway from home, because he beat me, and snatched my mobile phone, I can't be angry, really tired, not biological to be like this? I'm very tired, I can figure it out, I can understand it, but I'm still so sad.

Without experiencing it personally, it may be difficult to understand your pain, and it can only enlighten you. I think it's not so important to be in person, it's not so important to be in person than to be born, in fact, it's not easy to raise, so it's good to know gratitude, as for you said that your adoptive mother is talking to people everywhere, I personally think that she is such a person in her bones, there are such people, I have them around me, it is really speechless, but this is their way of life, don't think about it, in fact, she is not malicious, on the contrary, it should be a manifestation of fear of that kind of situation, right? You tell me?

Anyway, you have grown up now, you understand all the truth, and you have learned a lot of knowledge, whose credit is it? So, don't worry too much about the things you can't change, and try to adjust your mindset and focus. Have a great day!

I can feel your pain, I have experienced it myself.

Your parents have never mentioned it to you, which means that they are not willing to let you have psychological pressure, do not want to make you have an inferiority complex, if you feel that this thing is very uncomfortable in your heart, you can talk to them, biological or not, is it important? How many unfilial sons are there in the world As long as they love you, you love them too, aren't you still the same family? It's not easy for parents to raise you so big, and you may only experience the hardships when you have children in the future, but now, since you love them, then repay them with your actions.

Gossip has something to do with you.

If the person who gave you life didn't let you continue to live, then why care about the face of someone who has nothing to do with your life.

Let's take care of the people who raised your life.

Since you can't settle it peacefully from your mother, adjust your mentality. Ignore the gossip that goes out of your way. It's okay to know that you're good on the team.

I don't know if I'm biological, but I think it's better not to give birth if I don't raise it, so I still have to thank the person who raised you, fate can't be chosen, so I can only accept it.

I'm not their own, your adoptive parents are good to you, but I'm different, my mother brought me to be 3 years old, and she didn't spend more than 1,500 days with me, and my father probably didn't even have 300 days. I still remember the parent-child activities in the kindergarten, the parents of the children in the whole school are here, but I don't have a person standing there and watching them have so much fun I have been told by others since I was a child that I was not their biological grew up Now that I have grown up, my mother is very panicked when she hears me mention a woman's name, and often tells me that the girl's parents want a boy, and the first one to give birth to a girl will be raised, and then give birth to a little daughter and give her away, they don't want you, why do you have to go back to recognize them in the future Why do you want to use me, when I was in the fourth grade, my mother asked me if I were not our biological son, would you recognize them in the future, I swore that I was your biological son, and now I don't have a very good relationship with my mother, but I will try to make our relationship better, although you are not their biological son, but you are very lucky.

You can take a look at the thirtieth episode, which has the whole thing that Zhou Jin told Qing Chu.

Zhou Jin pushed it, and accidentally lost his hand. But because of his future, he didn't stand up in time and made a shadow for a lifetime. Mai Dong was wronged, and the ten-year prison was extremely unfair to Mai Dong, so there was Mai Dong's paranoid revenge that everyone saw later, of course, Zhou Jin was influenced by Zhao Qingchu in the later period to face up to his own mistakes, and resolved the grievances with Mai Dong for more than ten years in his own way.

The cause of the incident: Yu Huan and Zhou Jin should be childhood sweethearts, Yu Huan urgently needs money but doesn't want to drag Zhou Jin down, because Zhou Jin has just been admitted to Tsinghua University and has a good future, Yu Huan reluctantly proposed to break up, Zhou Jin was young at the time and didn't understand Yu Huan's consideration for himself, thinking that Yu Huan empathized and didn't fall in love with Mai Dong, who was richer than himself at the time, and dragged Yu Huan into the water in a fit of anger, and indirectly pushed the sin to Mai Dong, who saw Yu Huan early in the same place, Mai Dong was unjustly imprisoned, and Zhou Jin's ten-year guilt and shadow, In the end, under the influence of Qing Chu, he redeemed himself.

Put it in 30 episodes. Miss.

At the beginning, Mai Dong met Yu Huan, Zhou Jin followed, and then Zhou Jin and Yu Huan, who missed and pushed down, but they were not saved, and they felt guilty for ten years and compensated for ten years.

In the end, Zhou Jin surrendered, but due to insufficient evidence, the court did not file a lawsuit, released him, and handed over all the deposits to Mai Dong for compensation.

The story belongs to the happy ending.