I m confused and don t know what to do, experts, please help me!!

The first floor makes sense! It is indeed possible !! Brother, you have to be vigilant!!

A few of you have a point, let it be, brother! If you have a fate, it will come naturally!!

1. A woman's heart is deep at the bottom of the sea.

Maybe it's because you're more honest, she feels like you're going to be her best friend

There's no need to think so much, it's better to go with the flow

Hehe, don't think things are so complicated, no matter what, just let it be. It's not easy to find speculative people, let alone in a company. In fact, it is very stupid for a man to try to guess the psychology of a woman!

Whether it's a lover or a friend, caring and understanding is always the most important, and it is also something that can be shared by both relationships. Don't deliberately mean anything, or do anything. If you think it's a good girl, don't miss it easily, take the initiative to chase it.

If you don't want to violate the general secular ethics and morals, you should obediently do your identity as not crossing the line. There is no absolutely pure friendship between men and women. But don't feel guilty because this friendship is not pure, "My Fair Lady, the gentleman is so begging"!

Odd! Let's wait and see how she performs in the future, but don't be too positive, enthusiastic.

Oh brother, this kind of woman is the most difficult to figure out, don't think about it, this kind of woman doesn't like you anymore but she likes all men, such a woman will only become very familiar with her contact, don't be confused by the illusion, you will be hurt very deeply, if you don't believe it, just say that you like her, look at what he performs, he must be surprised and ignore you hahaha.

Do you have a higher position than her?

1. She is new to a unit, and most people are uneasy and hope that old colleagues will help to mention it.

2. Your position is high, and you are scolded.

3, confidant? (Who said only men can be found).

4. Maybe I really like you

Lost in your career?

If you have a low socially recognized diploma, you must learn a skill or craft if you want to gain a foothold in society in the future. But what kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, and you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

"There is a pass, and if you don't change it, it's another pass"This is a wise quote from the old man Lu Kun, which is very useful to me, and I send it to you, I hope it will inspire you!

First of all, I think that since you can take this question out and let everyone think of a way for you, it means that you are a self-motivated boy, so I will also sincerely tell you: if one day, every corner of the world no longer accommodates you, and all people think that you are incorrigible, as long as you don't give up on yourself, this is the most valuable! You tell me?

You're only 18 years old, what's not to do? The time in high school is so good, and it is normal to have some good memories of youth, but in the eyes of your parents, you may think that you are a child who does not seek progress, but if you have a point of determination to change yourself, you can completely make everyone recognize your excellence. So, the main thing is your own attitude, and the perception of others is only a superficial phenomenon, if you are willing to accept that superficial phenomenon, you will always be a failure, what do you think?

So, there is only one thing you have to do: take out other people's opinions from yourself, let those opinions become just a name, then, you are successful!

Put aside those youthful and beautiful loves for a while, because your age is not suitable to think about love, that's not what you want to do! Love is a very complex emotion that requires a lot of basic support, first of all, what do you use to support your love? Even if that girl turns back and starts over with you, what are you going to do to love her?

You tell me? The society is very realistic, there is no culture, there is no certain ability, when you go to the society to survive, you will run into walls everywhere, just ask, you don't work hard now, enter the society, self-survival can not be guaranteed, what do you take to talk about love?

So, put aside everything in the past, if nothing else, just for yourself to survive in the future, start working your studies, and strive to make up for the missing schoolwork, this is what you must do well! Moreover, when you are an excellent man with virtue and talent in the future, I believe it will also be appreciated by all girls!

Second, when you psychologically let go of the shadow of the past, you will slowly put your mind on learning, which requires a process, don't worry, I believe that as long as you work hard, you will catch up, what do you say? And this process will also allow you to slowly come out of that state.

When your state slowly changes in your own hard work, your attention will also be diverted from some bad habits, and you will slowly get better!

Third, don't see yourself as a bad boy in the eyes of others, if you want others to change their opinion of you, you must first start to change yourself from your own thinking, only if you think you are excellent, it is possible for others to recognize you in the same way, when you have given up on yourself, what is the respect of others? Are you right?

So, as long as you have faith in yourself, you will allow yourself to change, and only you can change yourself, you say? Work hard, there is no unsuccessful thing, only an excuse not to work hard! Believe in yourself: I will make it!

The reason for confusion is that you think more and do less, which generally occurs when your inner emotions are unstable, which is mainly manifested as anxiety about the present and worry about the future.

The following questions should be clarified:

What am I going to do? What kind of person to be and what kind of work to do?

What does it look like?

Do in **? How long does it take?

How do you plan to do it?

What are the plans for the next three to five years?

You can start with the following questions and ask yourself what is in mind.

1. Ask yourself if you like it?

2. What do you think you are good at?

3. What are your plans for the next three years or five or ten years?

4. What do you need to do to reach the height you want to reach in the end? Is it consistent with the current path?

6. Finally, ask yourself what you can lose?

Follow your heart and hope it can help you.

Hello, you have a detailed understanding of your condition, and we are happy to answer for you. It is related to high psychological stress, and there may be mild depression, which needs to be carefully investigated and diagnosed by the mental health center of the local hospital. Quantitative analysis.