I don t know what to do, and I don t know what to do

Hearing what happened to you, I am sympathetic, but also envious. To paraphrase a chic phrase, it is called: As long as you have it, why bother for eternity.

I understand that you are very lost, frustrated, and unconfident right now. However, now you are a little blinded to yourself, in fact, you have accomplished a lot of meaningful things, but you are not aware of it, or now you have erased it. I don't want to borrow any more words like God closes a window and will open a door for you to comfort you.

Because it's been a long time, it's boring to listen to. I believe that when you try to accept the sunshine, it is your new starting point, whether it is high or low, it is worth fighting again!

Now in this situation, I suggest that you calm down and ask yourself, what exactly do you want, and why are you so entangled? Now let's not talk about how you fell, let's talk about why you are entangled: you have a strong personality, you want to succeed on your own, and you want to be recognized by others, these thoughts are understandable.

If you really want to struggle on your own, you can hide your house and car, turn a blind eye, and work hard, but you don't dare to face it, then what do you dare not face? Do you not want to struggle or "don't dare" to struggle! What you really don't dare to face is your nature of being easy and hardworking, if you think that now is the lowest point in your life, and dare not face it, then you must have a lower point, so ah, you have to be brave, take responsibility for yourself, drive a car and live in a house, work hard, don't encounter something and can't think about it, life is still very beautiful!

The lowest point also means that you can do something casually or achieve something, and it is a high point, don't worry, it's not a big deal.

Be optimistic, the days are passing day by day, what kind of trouble is this now, the business is bankrupt, the one who buys the ** jumping off the building, everything is much worse than you. If you have a house and a car, you can get married, as the old saying goes: start a family.

Once you've made your home first, you'll have real pressure and a sense of responsibility. At that time, you will find that there are many ways to make money, as long as it is legal. The key is whether you can think through and get past the current level.

There are some things that you don't regret until they are really over. Last night, our company's warehouse sent water, and all the goods were soaked, and the losses were heavy, almost back to before the liberation. You're not much better than me, at least you're young enough to fail.

As long as you want to open a point, it's OK. The sun will still shine tomorrow!

Keep looking for a job and don't get discouraged.

If you fall, you will get up there, and the most important thing for others to support you is spiritually, and the most important thing is to look at yourself.

If you are fired because of a crash, such a boss will not follow. People don't always look up, sometimes they have to look down. You still have a house and a car, and some people struggle all their lives without even a house.

Nowadays, people lack housing, cars, and money, and if people are calm in their lives, it is not life. Relax your mind, or you'll be tired.

Life is about big things and small things superimposed, and there are no things in life, so it's just that there is no life, and (life) represents movement, so you have to keep moving, and if you can't change the way, you won't go.

Life and peaks and valleys also have troughs, Saiong lost his horse and knew whether it was a blessing, think about how many people who became a big instrument are smooth sailing, there is an inspirational saying in Hong Kong: 10 years before Leslie Cheung.

Fate can't be changed, let it be.

It doesn't matter, there are troughs to have peaks. Your performance will be shown in your efforts in the future.

The extremes of things must be reversed, and good luck is the head.

There are always two sides to things, don't think that you are a failure, maybe, tomorrow will succeed.

Don't think of anything else, go your own way, and do everything well.

Hopefully, the book of secrets will be helpful to you.

Summary. 1.I don't know how to be good, it means that in a person's contradictory heart, some people have a cheerful personality, but some people are indecisive.

I don't know what to do. Dear, this is a troublesome matter, I don't know how to choose, left or right?

Nowadays, life is stressful, and there is often similar confusion.

Dear, this is the person you care about, the words of the person close to you, right?

Hello dear, I don't know what specific difficulties you are currently experiencing, so please describe them in detail? I'm the best listener, tell me about it, and I'll give you an analysis.

1.I don't know how to be good, it means that in a person's contradictory heart, some people have a cheerful personality, but some people are indecisive.

2.The person who said this, do you need to face the problem together? Is it that you already have the answer in your heart, but the other person feels very embarrassed? Is that so?

Dear, can you describe your problem more clearly Nowadays, people live under pressure, work hard when they should work, rest well when they should rest, and do something for life or work! To combine work and rest, a good lifestyle can help people prosper in their careers and make their families happy! The ancients said that there is a thrift in eating and drinking, and there is a regular life!

If you like it, share it with you: If you are a tree, other people's attitude towards you is gust of wind. That kind of rare friend. I succeeded, and she was not jealous. I am sluggish, and she does not despise it. It is enough to have a confidant in life.

Dear, what do you mean by this expression? <>

Who you off? I hope it's not me.

If you don't speak, I'm now, I just don't know what to do......<

<>Is there another situation where a friend is in trouble and doesn't know what to do, but he doesn't know what to do, and is asking for your help?

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The grass will sprout, the child will grow up, the train of the years will not stop for anyone, and the joys and sorrows of the platform of fate are instantaneous. Ordinary us, no matter how many vicissitudes and changes in the world, may the world be worth it, there are as many ways to live as there are sufferings, and how many changes there are, the sun will rise and set.

The best state of life is to wake up every day, facing the sun, with the corners of the mouth raised. Don't envy anyone, don't please anyone, work hard silently, and live as you want. Although you don't want to speak, then let's cheer together and welcome the sun tomorrow together

Hello: Under normal circumstances, building a house without approval is an illegal act, you can go to the local planning department or land management department to report, if the comrades of the relevant departments do not act in accordance with the law, you can report the situation to their superiors, so as to supervise and improve.

That can't be helped. When a man is rich, he becomes bad. It's unstoppable. Men are acting on the spot. As long as the family is solid. Even if it's small.

Three, there will be a second, a third. Your dad wants to be good at this, no one will use it.

Your dad hasn't lived to understand, family is actually the most important thing to him, looking for someone outside values his money, and it's your mother who really has feelings for him, and the family is like this, so that you and your mother will not lose too much, men are confused at this time, usually don't listen to persuasion, maybe your mother also has something to do not do well, you can only let your mother not be angry, look away a little, let your mother open the money, separate, save fighting.

Your boyfriend thinks that you don't agree to the marriage of the two of you, so he ignores you, and the two of you should get along well for a while before talking about it

Hey, habit is a terrible thing.

If you are not suitable, it is better to break up early to save you trouble.

I think maybe your boyfriend is a demanding person, so he always thinks that you are not good to him, after five years of love, you should almost be able to get married, but he doesn't even take your parents to meet, I don't think he pays enough attention to you, men are generally very possessive, will want to introduce their girlfriends to their important people, you should communicate with him well, the problem between you should be relatively small, after so long, you try to communicate with him, and care more about him, If you want others to treat you the way you would like to be treated, you will get more hey hey little advice.

First of all, be sympathetic to your situation, there is basically no one right or wrong in emotional matters, there is always something you can't satisfy him, and at this time you should look back and think about the happy days together in the past, which were always beautiful. Of course, ....No matter how old you are, no matter how much your family and friends urge, don't treat marriage casually, marriage is not playing cards, and reshuffling the cards will pay a huge price.

There is also the fact that love is a matter of two people, as long as two people can get along, I hope your boyfriend pays more attention to you and hopes you are happy.

1.To be honest, his parents' previous actions were indeed a little bad, and your feelings now are normal;

2.It may be that your boyfriend is under a lot of pressure right now and wants someone to share it with, and of course this person is, right?

3.It can be seen that your boyfriend is very motivated and filial, such a person will not be too bad 4Tell him your own grievances, and the two of you will consider solutions together5

The other party's parents are in your city, how much you should go to see the next 6If you think about the past and really can't love his parents, then keep the most basic etiquette and don't make it too difficult for your boyfriend.

It's not easy for you to be with your boyfriend for 5 years. It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. We can only make a few small suggestions.

If you love your boyfriend, don't worry about your mom. Your mom also wants you to be happy in the future. You can first reach out to his parents to show their concern.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. If the man's family can't accept you. How will you live with your boyfriend in the future?

This kind of thing is common: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally not good at first, and the son must listen to his mother, you talk to him more when he comes home from work, ask him if he is tired, you should know this...Then he often visited his mom and dad, and chatted with them about common things.

I'm a girl, the prerequisite for me to get married is that their family must like me, if the family doesn't like me, even if we are good, I won't marry him, after all, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, we must think about each other, not just think about ourselves.

If he loves you enough, he will find a way to let the family see you and say good things about you in front of the family. But, listening to you, he still loves his family more, and hopes that you will pay more, but he never thinks about what you want, where did he go when you needed him the most?

If you really want to be together forever and don't always give it yourself, then he will feel that he takes it for granted.

I hope you are happy.

My mom also passed away, I understand your feelings, I talked to my partner for 8 years, my mom passed away this year for the fourth year, and I am getting married this year. It's bitter! Be strong, be kind to yourself, and don't let yourself be wronged, so that your mother in heaven will also be sad!!

Be kind to yourself and don't bother yourself!! Everything will be fine!!

After reading your confession, I feel a little heavy, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. I can only bless you

I won't analyze which one you should choose, the choice is still to do it yourself, there are some issues you need to consider:

The first one is so good to you, why don't you want to be with him?

What part of the second person appeals to you, looks, family, abilities, or character?

What if the second boy you like has the advantages of the first one, but lacks the eye to find beauty? (Of course, if it's a look, and a family, this question is invalid.) ）

If you were with the first one, wouldn't he be doing as well as he is now? Or will you do everything you can to keep your relationship warm?

If you were with a second person, would you regret being with him if he was still like this?

Is the ultimate goal of your relationship to get married and start a family? Will their purpose be the same as you think?

The choice is greater than the effort).

Who do you like to be with yourself?