I m 20 years old, male, not strong, crying, and still feel na ve?

If you can feel about yourself and say it, it means that you are aware of your small shortcomings, which is a very brave act, after all, some people have done bad things all their lives and will not dare to admit it when they are old. You are a person who dares to do things.

When you feel like crying, take a deep breath and encourage yourself in your heart to 'be strong, a good man will not bleed and not get tired'

It's a necessary stage of growth! Everyone has their own definition of being strong, how to be strong? First of all, you must have a clear goal, cultivate your willpower, be good at thinking when encountering difficulties, and always encourage yourself.

Learn to say I can do it! Crying, to a large extent, is determined by the personality of the city

There are a few things you have to do regularly to train yourself! Don't avoid it when you encounter something, you have to knock down the difficulties, otherwise your life will be ruined!

In fact, if you are so aware of your own problems, it means that you are not naïve, and you will slowly mature as you grow older and your social training increases.

Why is childishness rejected? Is it the idea that shouldn't be naïve? You can't be strong by opposing weakness, that's false disguise.

It is only by fully experiencing weakness and then understanding it, and thus transcending it, that strength comes naturally. But these are not problems, the question is why escape from the original situation?

If you still have the opportunity, I suggest you go to the army, there is a song called "A good man is to be a soldier", being a soldier can exercise your body and strengthen your bones. In the army, you can exercise the strong temperament of men. Make you more manly!

Immaturity isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's still growing up when you're supposed to be growing up, and it's something you can't force it, or you don't have to think about it, just let it be.

Mix with society to make others cry.

First of all, we must believe in ourselves, and we should find the shining points in our bodies, and learn to work hard to improve ourselves, read more Huai Zeshu, improve our abilities, and go out for a walk.

Accept yourself. Childishness must be a bad thing, which means that it is full of innocence, as long as people are not naïve. Crying is not a shortcoming, it is a more emotional performance of guessing grandchildren.

You can participate in more activities that you are more good at, go to experience more things in society, and slowly you will get used to it.

Happy New Year, subject

The warmth of your parents has not flowed well to you since you were a child, which really makes people feel particularly powerless and helpless.

You are very unfamiliar with the fact that your parents can warm you, help you, and give you the confidence to face life, and even thinking about it feels like a luxury.

What can we do for ourselves in such situations and state of mind?

When we don't have a deep sense of our security, emotional breakdowns are common.

Actually, the answer is very sorry for you, please don't define how 'naïve' you are, okay?

The appearance of emotions is to tell us that we need to take good care of our mood first, and perhaps our past traumatic experiences have been influencing our reactions today, including emotional and behavioral reactions.

Therefore, if we say that we have not healed ourselves well, the overloaded emotions often overflow the body in the form of tears.

What can you do to help yourself in the current situation?

Take care of yourself and help yourself rebuild your sense of security. Behind being entrusted with children and being teased by classmates, you will have some destructive ideas, not only do you not feel supported, but also a feeling that you are not worthy of love. But this feeling will not disappear rashly due to the change of thinking, more we need to use the way of 'empathy', deeply connected with our own feelings and thoughts, only in this case, we can get the soul to fully relax and rest.

Once you experience a state of total relaxation, you can feel the warmth of your inner solidity and sincerity.

The energy that intimacy gives us is irreproducible, but we can grow another 'power of self-love' from deep within us. There was once a book about spiritual growth, "Don't be afraid, a person", if you are interested, you can turn to it. There's a quote in it that says:

The most inseparable love is always 'self-love'. Answer: The Lord has also relied on the touch of this sentence, and slowly experienced a lot of different levels, different time periods of self-correction and healing process, this is a long process of self-discovery, self-acceptance, tolerance, in different years to meet different selves, so that our life is colorful enough.

All the disappointment comes from us forgetting that we also have a strong potential and ability to grow strength.

For example, if you don't run 800 meters, it will be painful, hard and impossible, but if we train hard, we can build our ability into our muscles day after day. Over time, such habits will take root in our hearts, forming willpower and perseverance.

With the blessing of this power, our understanding of life will gradually be sublimated, and this is where the 'value of life' lies.

I hope that the respondent's sharing will be helpful to you, and I wish you all the best and all the best in the new year.