I have a little low self esteem, because I look average, and I feel like I m so ugly

I'm still a black and fat ugly pussy! The most important thing is to be confident and optimistic. It is undeniable that this society is discriminatory and sometimes full of malice towards average-looking people.

But if we give up on ourselves because of our looks, depressed and degenerate, then what capital do we have to compete and live? The most important thing is that appearance is genetically determined, and we can't change it the day after tomorrow. But there are many ways to make up for your looks!

For example, makeup, exercise, etc., as long as we have the perseverance to change ourselves, there will always be a way to become a better version of ourselves.

If you don't plan to engage in acting, media, hosting. and other professions that require good looks. Don't care about that face, most people in the world look average. If you really can't solve it, go for plastic surgery. Some are experts, some are methods.

I don't believe that all of China looks at appearance, and I once saw a very fat lady snuggling up to a handsome boy. Tanta, I feel that the woman is very confident and individual, even I want to be close to friends, and the man loves and respects the woman very much. If you deny yourself, no one will be sure that you like you!

People can't look at appearances, as long as you have an optimistic heart.

You can transform yourself by dressing, both men and women are the same, and you have to dress to make people feel that you are a very clean and exquisite person. Speaking with a little quality, women can wear light makeup, eyebrows, eyeliner, lipstick, BB cream. It's okay to take care of your own **, facial cleanser is a must for both men and women.

Toner, ** or something. Even if you look average, your skin tone will not feel so bad.

Many people say that because of the appearance of inferiority is because of lack of self-confidence, but the lack of how to cultivate self-confidence, inferiority is due to contrast, you are better than appearance, than height, than money, this you can never compare, because there are always people more handsome than you, more beautiful than you and richer than you, even if you are not ugly, but as long as you contact people who are more handsome than you, you will still have low self-esteem, because the outside is a hard condition, can not be changed, you can't compare at all, this is the reason for inferiority, the contrast is wrong, so you have to be more internal, than persistence, than self-discipline, than hardship, As long as you have determination, you can completely compare to anyone, and don't you feel more superficial than the outside, when you reach the inner height, what handsome guys and beauties, you can completely face them, and even feel their ridiculousness.

I always feel that I am ugly and have low self-esteem: face the reality and cannot change it, then "add color" to it, and do not deliberately pursue perfection, otherwise life will be very tiring and divergent.

1. Face reality.

No matter how much you strive for perfection, you can't get rid of genetic factors. If you think you are "ugly" just because of acne, freckles and other factors, which affects your appearance, then you can completely improve it through professional **. So you don't have to be so upset.

2. If you can't change it, then "add color" to it.

If it is because of congenital reasons, the face shape and facial features are not outstanding enough, then we can make some acquired changes on the original basis. For example, do some basic beauty, skin care, or exercise to make your complexion look healthier and rosy.

3. Don't deliberately pursue perfection, otherwise life will be very tiring.

Human life is limited, and we should do our best to do what we can do. As for what is beyond ability, don't deliberately pursue it, let alone force yourself to be perfect. Sometimes, flaws are also a kind of beauty.

Learn to face yourself, accept your ordinariness and imperfections, and fall in love with your imperfect self.

4. Divert attention.

Don't always focus on your looks, the more you care about something, the more likely it is to hurt you. That's why you feel that others are always discussing your appearance behind your back. Divert your attention, learn to downplay those negative evaluations of yourself, and learn to appreciate yourself.

Oscar Wilde said: Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. People who know how to love themselves will constantly look to themselves and make themselves happy.

It's not that looks can solve all problems, look at it, don't care too much about those, a happy life, what is inferiority, and not many people care about your appearance, everyone values your character.

This still depends on your experience and personality since childhood. It's not that ugly people will have low self-esteem, and good-looking people will not have low self-esteem. Self-confidence is still important.

I am 25 years old, male, 170+ tall, 65 kg in weight, but the older I get, the younger I get, and everyone who sees me says I am old. It's a good thing to be young, but it's a very distressing thing for me, and I didn't feel it this way when I was in high school and college, especially after graduation. Blind date several times, girls younger than me think I look too young and immature, all passed, during the period are all spikes, and the very straightforward evaluation is that it looks immature, and even more think that the matchmaker is simply joking with her, find a child to go on a blind date, this is not a question of beauty and ugliness, if you are rejected because you look ugly, you can still accept it, but the young man looks immature, the blind date girls are the kind that want to start a family quickly, and they feel that you are immature and will be killed immediately.

When you are working, it is the same way, the kind of leader who feels embarrassed when he looks at your appearance is often considered by others to be a post-90s generation. I can't dress up at all, even if I'm wearing an old-fashioned jacket like a middle-aged person, I can't hide my youthful appearance. The last time I went back to my hometown, my uncle hadn't seen me for several years, and he didn't even dare to recognize me.

Mental obscenity can also stimulate an increase in the body's hormones, prompting changes in appearance.

Anyone who has passed the period of youth and beauty will grow uglier and uglier, with more wrinkles and rough panels, this is the law of nature, I really help you look forward to it, there is no ugly, only lazy, cosmetics to the face, who is not good-looking?

1. Keep smiling every day.

2. Self-examination and self-love.

3. Wear ** points.

4. Put on makeup.

The lover wants to live, and the more she looks at her, the more pleasing it is to the eye, and the more she looks at it, the better she looks.

The hater wants her to die, and the more she looks at her, the more she hates it, and the more she looks at it, the uglier she becomes.

Subjective will can affect your judgment in the eyes.