Is it only people who are full of positive energy at all times who are liked?

In today's society, it is not always possible to recruit people with positive energy, because the three words "positive energy" have changed their flavor to a certain extent. Moreover, people are emotional animals, and only when they are emotionally properly handled can they be more likable. <>

First of all, what is advertised as positive energy has changed its taste. There are many words that can describe a person's character, but with the development of society, more and more things are described by the word positive energy, but the flavor has changed. Positive energy is not the original description, a person is positive and optimistic.

The positive energy that people like is the feeling that can bring sunshine to people in their bones, and if they deliberately use positive energy as their label, it will bring people an unnatural feeling, and it will not be liked. In addition, I can be liked by others because of the charm that exudes from my personality. There is no need to impose something on yourself to be likable.

Second, emotions need to be expressed. Around us, some people's personalities may be born optimistic and positive, but it is undeniable that everyone will be affected by their own emotional changes and produce some bad emotions, it can only be said that people who are full of positive energy in life will be better able to hide their negative side and not show it in front of people. Emotions are highly rendered, and individual emotions cannot be understood in such an environment.

I think that only being more positive and optimistic is the best performance, but I ignore the simplest expression of emotions as a human being. <>

Third, emotions need to be understood. Human emotions are also very complex as emotions, and the emotions that accompany people's joys, sorrows, and sorrows also need to be understood. And people who are always full of positive energy around them will better hide their emotions and rely on their positive energy to infect others.

But the easiest thing to overlook at this time is the emotions of others. Therefore, people who are full of positive energy all the time can't understand the emotions of others to a certain extent.

Generally speaking, people with positive energy can spread to those around them, but negative energy can affect others.

You have to know that the word "positive energy" is actually embodied most of the time now: 1Lack of reverence for the professional field (stupidity) 2

Lack of independent thinking about one's future path (blindness) 3Dare to act without a comprehensive understanding of the project under the docking (impulsive)4Forcing yourself to endure humiliation and burden to complete tasks that do not have the slightest sense of happiness and fulfillment (excess execution)5

Never let others see that they are unhappy (hypocritical) a person, if you interpret "positive energy" in these 5 aspects all day long, I can only think that this is a stupid x What is the living environment It is, there are good and bad, good places are good to use, bad places can be changed, if you can't change them, don't don't exist, don't pour chicken soup on yourself and others, it's OK for soldiers to block the water and cover the earth, it's like leading troops to fight, the enemy is originally very strong, but you fool everyone The enemy is vulnerable, Let everyone rest assured and rush boldly, but the whole army will be wiped out, what kind of positive energy is this? There are more imperfections in this world, which requires us to find a way to make it perfect, if you think that the world is perfect, everything is good, then what do you need to do? It's not a bad thing to understand the bad of the situation, the more accurate the information, the better the solution, instead of being out of sight - you see the world blindfolded, and you want the world to give you a good face?

Work hard when you should work, eat and drink when you should eat, drink and have fun, scold the street when you see what is unpleasant, help others when you can, and don't stay up late when you should have a good rest, this is the positive energy <

If you choose to be a strong woman, please don't take it for granted that choosing to be a housewife is unproductive and unambitious; If you choose to be a housewife, please don't take it for granted that strong women are "leftover women" who can't get married and no one wants; If you come from a good background and have a wealthy family, when you use LV, please don't despise the TA who posts outlet discount bags in the circle of friends, work hard to complete the wish list, and there is no shame in posting this happiness; If you are from a poor family and have played all over Europe before your second-generation X-generation classmates graduated, please don't think that this is pretending to be 13, and TA is just showing TA the most ordinary life; If you are willing to control your diet for the sake of daily fitness, please don't pretend to be positive with a sense of superiority, others have the right to enjoy food or have the right to share time with things they think are more meaningful; If you don't want to be so yourself, choose between freewheeling and self-discipline, and don't think that those who sweat every day and are willing to spend a lot of time exercising are positive energy; If you haven't experienced other people's lives and don't understand the story behind them, you can not understand the other person's choice, but please don't feel free to belittle and mean others. Respect for others is a kind of dignity that you leave to yourself. As long as TA is a serious life, it is a good-looking life.

There is only one kind of success – being able to live your life in your own way.

I no longer use meanness to hide my panic and weakness, because I began to want to look good too. I used to think that there were fewer and fewer people like the "tea flower" in college, but the girl at the beginning of the article made me realize that there are no fewer people, but the change of my own thinking made me unconsciously screen the friends around me, so that most of my close partners around me are people who have the same three views as myself. Time and experience have polished my edges and corners, making me seem "sleek and sophisticated", sleek and sophisticated did not make me a hypocritical person, which made me start to put aside the previous small pattern and learn to appreciate more life choices and lifestyles.

I always remind myself that the people around me are mirrors, reflecting our own limitations and shortcomings. I don't miss that thorny me at all, and I like me now that I don't judge the people around me easily.

I don't know how people who ask me for positive energy all day long can tell if a person has positive energy. What exactly is positive energy? It is indomitable and forbearance into steel and laughs at life.

I still never complain and endure my life, and I don't forget to inspire the people around me. Those who added me to WeChat every day hahaha233 said that I was a funny joker and a girl with a brain, and when I recently experienced some setbacks that I didn't want to get up, I asked me unbelievably: How are you different from that?

Why aren't you a tease anymore? I am a person who remembers that "family ugliness is not publicized". To be more specific, I'm a person who doesn't like people looking at my jokes.

I rarely babble about pain. Even if it's the best friend around you. Because I never do repetitive and useless things.

Don't talk nonsense, I can solve everything I can by myself. I couldn't solve it myself, so I turned to a friend. My friends couldn't solve it, so I asked my family for help.

I don't need to ask strangers at all. And what happened to me lately. But had to turn to strangers for help.

In reality, I live a stressful 9-to-5 life. So big that I can say one word to solve a problem, and I can't say two words. Since I don't have anything to ask for.

Then I don't have to bear what I shouldn't have to bear. I didn't care about it. Scold when you want.

If you want to block it, block it. You can do whatever you want. <>