Is it true that you have to experience pain to grow?

Not necessarily, maybe people can grow more after experiencing pain, but some small things that are usually easy to be ignored can also make people grow, but slowly growing up without attracting people's attention, sometimes without experiencing pain, people will suddenly grow up, I am like this, why do I have to experience pain? As we get older, so does our psyche.

That's right! There is progress where there is pain, and there is growth when there is progress!

Yes, only when you have to endure hardships can you become a superior person.

Some growth can also be happy

When we see the weak grandmother want to cross the road, we don't help the grandmother cross the road because we are afraid of touching porcelain, or shy, and then we will understand that not everyone has other hearts, and we don't have to be shy about what we want to do, we will feel very happy, then this is also a kind of growth, a kind of happy growth.

When we pick up something left by others, actively look for the lost person, when we return the thing to the owner, the owner thanks you and praises you, you will feel very happy, then this is also a happy growth for you.

And every time we get the pocket money given by our parents, the first time is not to think about how to use it up all at once, but to use the money in a planned way, when your piggy bank is getting heavier and heavier, you will feel very happy, you have saved so much money, which is also a happy growth.

Growing up can also be painful

When we desperately want something, such as a puppy, no matter what, we have to ask our parents to buy it, when you buy it back, because you can't take good care of your studies, and your parents can't take good care of it because of their busy work, and finally the puppy is sick and leaves you, at this time you are in pain, but you also understand that when you desperately want something, you often lose it because of your own inconsider.

It's like when you fall in love with someone in high school or college, you think you can't live without him, and it's painful when you break up, but then you will understand that two people have different personalities, different views, being together will only hurt each other, and love does not represent life.

If we want to become adults, we must experience growth, and there are joys and pains in growth, but no matter how it ends, you have learned a lot and understood a lot, which is also very worthwhile.

Dear subject, if the purpose of your question is growth, then I am also curious if there is a correlation between growth and pain? Will I grow through pain?

I have a friend A, two years ago, he read some books about self-discipline and thought that self-discipline and success are related, what did he think? What time do you have to get up early every day to exercise? It's 5 o'clock, what are you doing after exercising?

Read books, read some project management books, self-management books, and planning books. I've read a lot of books, but in the end, I feel more confident in chatting with my friends, and I don't want to breathe when I walk, and I don't seem to have any 8 improvements. He himself doesn't seem to be satisfied with himself, how can he not achieve the results he wants after doing so many self-disciplined things?

Every time the fat man asks other friends for a drink, he always says**, in the end, the fat has not lost much, but he is estranged from his friends. The fat man thinks that the gains outweigh the losses.

The fat man said this story to say, why does this friend feel dissatisfied, in fact, he also feels that he is self-disciplined, paying, self-discipline must be uncomfortable, I am so uncomfortable, I haven't reached what I imagined? Is it fair? Is it fair?

Is it fair? This friend must be manic inside. Again, as the title suggests, does pain necessarily grow?

This is also irrelevant.

Yes, one has to go through pain in order to grow. This pain can be big and small, light and severe, but all growth is necessarily not easy and happy.

When we are young, we are full of confidence in ourselves, and we feel that the old ways of the old people are useless, and the future belongs to our time. But it wasn't until I grew up and really shouldered the burden of life that I found that many of the things the old man said were both correct and practical. How did we find out?

It was discovered by hitting a wall in society and being hit on the head and bleeding.

There is also a saying that "the body is the capital of the revolution". Why is such a natural fact constantly and repeatedly emphasized? That's because people often don't pay attention to their bodies when they are healthy, drinking, smoking, staying up late and clubbing, young people always feel that they can be presumptuous and healthy, that's the old people's business.

Until one day I got sick and was hospitalized, or when I suddenly found that my immunity was getting worse and worse, or why did I grow gray hair at a young age? Or find that the body is not as good as day by day, and can no longer get up. It is only at this time that I will realize that health is such an important thing.

We always don't suffer and we don't get lessons. Some people themselves did not suffer themselves, but the lessons of those around them made him understand certain truths, and in the same way, the lessons of the past also endured pain.

Regarding growth, we have to study hard, we have to work hard, we have to actively improve our skills, we have to find a way to adapt to the rules and realities of this society, none of which is easy and happy, and it all comes with a certain amount of pain. I can only say, I wish you pain and happiness.

Growth is necessary to experience pain, many times we like to avoid problems, shirk responsibility, so when we avoid a problem, it will be accompanied by other more problems, and these problems will continue to make us suffer, in fact, we make ourselves miserable, whether people need to grow or not, they need to experience problems and setbacks.

What is necessary for growth is to think, not to experience pain personally. Some people have experienced a lot of winds and waves in their lives, but if they don't think about it, they have experienced it in vain. Some people have not experienced any winds and waves, and they have lived smoothly all their lives, but they will experience it indirectly by reading books or observing other people's lives, but the most important thing is to add their own thinking and grow up.

Therefore, pain does not necessarily make people grow, and pain is not a precious asset, the key is to think.

Moderate suffering can indeed improve one's motivation for achievement. However, it is not necessary for a person to grow in pain, in fact, the right difficulties are enough, and the chance of pain destroying a person is far greater than the opportunity to achieve a person.

People have to go through pain to grow, when you start to learn to walk, you will fall, but if you don't fall to never walk, when you want to participate in competitions, you usually have to train hard to finally win the game, when you can't beat your friends in a fight, you also have to endure the pain, go home and train hard, you can beat him. You keep getting stronger, you become better, you become the person you want to be, but it takes a lot of pain!

Not necessarily, in fact, no one can run away, it is necessary, we have not been bitten by a tiger, and we must know to run when we meet a tiger. People can imitate, and they are born with the ability to empathize, and they have seen enough things, or experienced enough things deeply as a spectator, that they don't have to suffer themselves, but they can also grow.

People have to experience failure, then reflect, and then grow, when we are young: failure, we don't feel pain, we reflect subconsciously. (For example, when we were 2 years old, we tried to draw a circle and ended up drawing an egg, but we were not discouraged and not painful)

We have more and more things, we are afraid of failure, we are afraid of losing what we have, we are afraid of being embarrassed and ridiculed, so we are more and more afraid of failure. But we should tell ourselves rationally: when I do this for the first time, it is inevitable to make mistakes, and the key is how to reflect and grow from mistakes.

You will definitely encounter painful things, but how to face them is a sign of a person's maturity, and this is exactly what everyone has to face and learn. Everyone's definition of suffering is different, some people live a prosperous life, and the death of a pet at home feels very painful; Some people are stingy with their belongings and have a lot of money, but they feel miserable because they lost 10 yuan; Some people are in senior management, but they feel miserable because of the external transfer. The above so-called pain may be a heavenly life in the eyes of those who do not have enough to eat.

Happy things are liked by everyone and can be handled by everyone; Pain is something that everyone hates, but it must be faced, so one of the lessons that determines people's growth is how to face pain.

No. Some people can prevent problems just by thinking, plan ahead, and live smartly.

Some people are born without entanglement in their hearts, they are free to make trade-offs, conform to nature, and live freely.

For example, such a person, although he has been growing, can not experience much pain.

The rest tend to experience more or less pain.

Those who do not reflect, do not accept, do not act, and rely on all kinds of crude and naïve psychological defense mechanisms to live, just stand still, and growth really has nothing to do with them.

It is not necessary to experience, understand and analyze the pain of others in order to grow.

Everyone wants to grow up, but they are afraid of suffering a lot, so they still choose to live in a very stable state, as if it is not painful, but it is actually a kind of consumption of life, and finally becomes a person who seems to have no quarrel with the world, in fact, he has not grown, just waiting for the tenderness of life, and he is most afraid of the cruelty of real life.

Growth is painful, and the reputation for every growth is silent, but growth is only for those who work hard, cheer on, and strive to seize the opportunity to grow. Those who are very powerful, it's not that they heal their scars and forget the pain, but they face difficulties and have the courage to challenge themselves, in the process they are not afraid of the pain of cramping and peeling again and again, they just want to be a better self.

A better self is to find the ability to survive in this cruel real life, and to have the ability to face the changing times.

Every life is wonderful, and every growth process will eventually bring a sense of happiness.

Hard work needs a reason, and the reason for hard work is that I want to be a warrior, no matter how life ravages us and bury us, we still live with respect and dignity.

Learning is your own thing, growing up is also your own thing, and what kind of person you want to become after many years is also up to you.

Time is in a hurry, we are in a limited life, why not let ourselves live this life vigorously? The principle is that we should not hurt others, but we must have the courage to create our own value for the world.

Growing up is painful, how we want to live, I depend on my own choice, although there is no right or wrong life, but there will always be a valuable difference between people.

Strive to grow, follow your own path, strengthen your beliefs, and shine in the field you love.