How to choose a lifelong partner? How to choose the right lifelong partner?

From the perspective of mate selection alone, the following points need to be noted:

First of all, the fit of each other.

The same is true for each other's family conditions, so that they can understand and tolerate each other.

The integration of husband and wife is important.

In family relationships, the focus is not on who is right and who is wrong, and there is no absolute right or wrong. The ancients said: It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

It's all about whether you can adapt to his life and fit in. Either the two sides are harmonious and everyone is happy. Either you have to endure more, if you can't bear it, give up as soon as possible, and don't end up in a dilemma.

Secondly, you need to understand his family, family factors have shaped his upbringing, and his upbringing has shaped his character and way of behaving in the world.

At the same time, how his family is will also affect your relationship after marriage.

Sometimes, the deliberate misery of his relatives (including his parents and frequent relatives) can also hinder the harmony of your marriage.

Finally, you need to understand the attitudes and thoughts of him and his parents and friends towards your future children, which will affect your life after childbirth.

In addition, judging from your specific situation, the difference in your education is indeed a problem, while the problem of rich and poor can be changed by making up for it the day after tomorrow.

If you are sure that you love each other, have the same outlook on life and values, and the habits of life can be combined, then you can marry him without any scruples.

I think you think it's love for life, not love for love.

...This old husband and young wife seem to be very nervous about you.

This question begins with the consideration of four main aspects of imitation: materiality, character, values, and appearance. With careful consideration to determine the right partner for life, here are some suggestions:

First, the material aspect. The first thing to consider is to make sure that your partner has enough work capacity to support himself and his family, both financially and in life, not only to make himself happy, but also to provide a stable environment for the family.

Second, the character of the land. After the financial situation is secured, it is also necessary to consider the personality of the partner, such as his personality, optimistic, positive, willing to share, attentive, coordination, etc. In this way, you can ensure that your marriage is more stable, and a partner who gets along well will make your life happier.

3. Values. In terms of values, partners need to have a strong sense of family, equality between men and women, respect for each other, sharing family responsibilities, sharing family obligations, and supporting and protecting each other.

Fourth, appearance. Finally, appearance is also an important part, whether your partner is in perfect shape or not, to a certain extent, appearance can also add some warm colors to your future marriage. Although appearance is not the most important thing, it is also an important part, so it is important to pay special attention.

In marriage, materialism, personality, values and appearance are all very important factors, and through careful consideration to choose a lifelong partner, in order to ensure a harmonious and happy marriage. When you think about these aspects, make sure to make the best choice and finally find the right partner for you, so that you can have a happy love and a happy life with your partner.

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With the passage of time, people will get old, things will change, and memories will become memories! However, we can always have a lifelong partner by our side.

When I was a child, reading made us wander in the strangeness and beauty of Hans Christian Andersen's Fairy Tales; When we were in middle school, reading allowed us to walk in the breadth and profundity of knowledge; Growing up, reading seems to have become our spiritual sustenance and our cherished companion. If you want, the old man of time can't take away your feelings.

Reading is an art to enjoy life. Tao Yuanming in ancient times: good reading, not seeking to understand, whenever there is a will, he happily forgets to eat.

When your mood is sad and sad, reading will make you calm and peaceful; When you are impetuous and bored, reading can make you calm and stable; When you are afraid of being lost, reading books will help you find strength and direction. I think this is what Goethe meant when he said: "To read a good book is to talk to many noble people".

With the progress of human civilization, we no longer need to "hang the beam" and no longer "chisel the wall and steal the light" to obtain the environment for reading. Precisely, as long as we want, we can enjoy a comfortable reading and teasing the spa in a quiet afternoon, with a cup of tea in hand.

I am a person who loves to read, and I am also willing to choose books as my lifelong companion. From the *** in childhood, to the classic classics in high school, to today's inspirational books. I've been wandering in a sea of books.

Whenever I meditate on a book, it's like I'm listening to someone else's story. Some of them rejoice, some of them are sad, some of them are supernatural, some of them are wonderful. It was reading that made me see Du Fu's poverty and destitude, "I am often a guest in the sad autumn of thousands of miles, and I am sick for a hundred years and I am on stage alone"; It was reading that made me realize that Bai Juyi "is the same person who has fallen from the end of the world, why should I have known each other when we meet"; , it was reading that made me see Li Bai's "Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun's gift of love".

These are just a few of the waves in the ocean of knowledge, and the more spectacular scenery needs to be enjoyed by yourself!

When I go to school, I don't have some shoulders that I can rely on, and sometimes I will be confused, anxious, and helpless when I encounter difficulties and setbacks. Usually I choose to put down everything I have and read it. There are so many stories in the booksSome.

At that time, I seemed to find my own shadow, and I would smile happily at the success of the protagonists in the book, and I would also shed tears for their unbelief. Laughter or tears, I feel a sense of comfort! All these memories are my own and reading, like a ray of sunshine in the morning, which may be short but has a moving beauty!

When I read, sometimes I will exaggerate the tears, maybe I am too fragile, but I like the process of tears, that self! Because I know that it is my true self, and I also have a spiritual fit with the author. Seeing the tear-drenched title page, I gently said to myself that reading is like this, and so is He's life.

Choose an appropriate time, maybe just a moment, pick up a book and read it quietly, you will find that reading is so seedling, reading is so beautiful!

Life partners are really important, some people achieve you, some people consume you, really good love does not need to be consumed, but nourish each other, grow each other, fulfill each other, and make each other better people.

A good partner can really make people optimistic, cheerful, and positive, and all sensitive emotions can be expressed willfully without worrying about whether the other person will accept it.

Two people are similar and complementary, encourage each other and make progress together, you can feel that you are being **, and you can feel that you are slowly getting better because you are loved.

A good relationship is not to transform her into what you want, but to let her live her best life; It's not who has changed whom, but after facing up to the differences and imperfections, they still accept and support each other.

A relationship that has achieved positive results usually goes through a period of passionate love, an independent period, a run-in period, and a flat period, sometimes not because they don't love each other but in the peaceful stage, only if they really care about each other, they are willing to communicate and solve problems.

In the end, Yuanla, love this thing is never a choice, not to break up if it is not suitable, not to change it when you are tired of it, but to make people feel brave and gentle, and it is a loyal choice after avoiding countless freshness.