Should I be sociable or should I study at university? A girl who is not very sociable asks for help!

Let's say this to you. Even if you know a lot of people. But you still have to be able to do it yourself.

To use an analogy: Let's say someone you know has a company. The company needs a manager, it's short, it's hiring, you know him, but you think he can let you go when you're not qualified for that manager's position?

Definitely not. So don't bother with it now, learn what you need to learn! If you have the ability, you are not afraid of running out of money.

I don't know what your family situation is, but since you exclude the wealthy, the family economy should be average. Since they are classmates, it means that they are destined, and classmates are valuable resources and wealth in life. It may be uncomfortable to say that you are simple, but that's how I came to be, and I used to dream of living like a scientist and not caring about the world.

But I later realized that a lot of our pure thinking is the so-called education of fools. If your intelligence is not outstanding, then there is no need to think about going to graduate school, it is just blind, and the graduate school entrance examination is not a guarantee of success. On the contrary, 80% of a person's success is interpersonal success, followed by professional and technical success.

With so many resources in front of you, but you don't cherish them, it's really stupid! A small help in their opinion can save you a few years of struggle.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", I understood what to do.

Simplicity, of course, is important to learn. But you don't have to hang out with them, but you can reach out when they need your help. In later life, we should always consider what is right and what is wrong, and only if our judgment is correct will we not become a scourge to society.

If you have to correctly grasp the "degree", you will become a person who is needed by society. Don't care about the world of flowers in front of you, today will be a thing of the past, and only tomorrow awaits you. Today's efforts are for the invisible tomorrow.

I hope you can be a pillar of society!!

The choice of whether you should socialize or learn is not us, but yourself.

Let's say this to you. Even if you know a lot of people. But you still have to be able to do it yourself.

To use an analogy: Let's say someone you know has a company. The company needs a manager, it's short, it's hiring, you know him, but you think he can let you go when you're not qualified for that manager's position?

Definitely not. So don't bother with it now, learn what you need to learn! If you have the ability, you are not afraid of running out of money.

I have a roommate who is very similar to you, studying is compulsory, making friends is optional, you don't need to cater too much to others, occasionally you can send charcoal in the snow, everyone doesn't care too much about the person who usually helps you, when you pull him when he is in danger, he will be grateful, and you will have one more friend from then on. Study hard, and if you succeed in the future, those so-called friends will naturally come to you, and only if you succeed don't need to ask anyone for help, at that time, others will look for you. However, you have to make some friends once in a while, after all, you haven't succeeded yet, and sometimes you need the support and help of others

In modern society, it's no longer that IQ is taken very seriously, but the level of a person's emotional intelligence. I am also a student who has not yet left university, and I know that it is even more important for me to enter and exit society. But learning can't be left behind. I wish you every success.