What makes you feel like you re waking up from a big dream?

I used to see the word "awakening from a big dream" a lot, but every time I only knew a rough idea, but I didn't understand what it meant. <>

When I understood it, it was more than half a year after I broke up with my first love.

I have a good memory, but I don't remember my birthday, I don't even remember my own birthday, but I remember his birthday, ten days after the Dragon Boat Festival. We didn't talk for a while after we broke up, but after a few months we added friends back, and it was me who took the initiative and said that we are friends now, and I know that we are just the kind of friends who know each other. I hadn't been in a relationship in that time, and I think I still couldn't let go of him.

On his birthday, I messaged him saying "Happy Birthday" and he replied "Thank you", and there was nothing wrong with this reply, I knew that he could only reply to this and only to reply to this. But when I saw a girl who liked him in the space posted "You don't know anything", I suddenly felt very sad, I knew that the girl was talking about him, and I felt empathy with her at that moment. At that time, I just felt sad and nothing else.

I felt that the "first awakening from a big dream" was a few days later, and the comb he gave me suddenly broke, which he gave me when I was not together, and I had fallen before, and it was not broken. I used to see ** say that combs, jade and other things are broken, usually something bad happens, but I didn't ask him, I think he may not remember to give me a comb at all, and it's embarrassing to ask this. Three days later, I saw him posting that "the stitches have finally been removed" and realized that he had really had an accident, and I asked "What's wrong with you?"

It took three days for him to reply "it's okay", and I looked at the four words he replied on the chat record, "thank you" and "okay", and suddenly understood what it meant to "wake up from a big dream". <

Everyone will compare love to a fire, to burn vigorously, and it is true. But have you ever wondered what your state looks like after a breakup? I think it's very appropriate to wake up from a big dream.

In love, especially in the initial stage of love, both men and women are in a state of almost fanaticism. As the saying goes, there is something in the eyes of a lover, this is true, you look at the other party and think that he is good everywhere, and even the shortcomings can be regarded as advantages. What I feel the most like waking up from a big dream is my first love, when I was really in the second year of junior high school, I was still an ignorant child with my current eyes, and the feeling of love at that time was how he was so perfect, I couldn't get tired of being together every day, we were so compatible, and I found that we still had so many similar experiences in the chat, and it seemed that it was really like **, and it was destined to meet him.

But then as the relationship grew, I found that he also had a lot of small shortcomings that I couldn't accept, and I began to gradually doubt whether he was really the person I wanted. Am I really going to go with him to the end? As the number of quarrels continued to increase, the disappointment accumulated little by little, and finally we chose to break up, when we first broke up, I was very confused, and I felt as if I had suddenly lost something, but one day, I suddenly felt as if I had opened up the second pulse of Ren Du.

I suddenly felt that there was a clear picture in front of me, it turned out that he was not as good as I had thought before, and he was not so important.

We can't take love as a necessity of life and go with the flow to lose ourselves in the pursuit of love, it should be a condiment to make your life more exciting.

When you fall out of love.

Falling in love is like a sweet and somewhat absurd dream, and when one of them decides to leave, the dream wakes up. Let's tell the story of my first love, my first love happened in the fifth grade, which is relatively precocious, and I have a hazy yearning for love under the influence of soap operas, and the object is a senior who is one level higher than me. We met on the basketball court, they were playing, I passed by, just like the scene in **, his ball hit me, and it smashed out a love.

From that time on, and every day he waited for me at the door of our class to come home from school, and the laughter between my classmates also made my cheeks warm.

Later, he went to junior high school and became the eldest child in my eyes, and I was just a naïve elementary school student, not even developed, and our relationship became weaker and weaker, and in the end there was not even a decent farewell ceremony, and we broke up in a hurry. At first, I was still very sad, but suddenly one day, when I saw him on the street, he was not hoarse in crying as I thought, but like a basin of cold water falling from the sky and waking up the flames around me. I woke up at that moment.

The next time I saw him was during my summer vacation at university, when I went to learn to drive, and he was working on the construction site next to him, and although he was no longer the green he used to be, I still recognized him at a glance. I greeted him, and he looked at me in disbelief and said, "Long time no see."

Yes, it's been a long time since we were apart, our lives have long been very different, and we have gone to two completely different lives, if it weren't for that past, it's hard to think that there would be a relationship between us. Two parallel lines, somewhere intersect and stagger, this is probably our love.

When I was a child, I often ate spicy strips and couldn't tear open the bag, and every time I bit it open with my teeth, then my brother helped me find the gap in the package, and it was easy to open.

When I was a child, I heard my mother say, "I'm tired of eating this thing, I love to eat, you can eat it" At that time, I really felt that my mother didn't like to eat, and when I saw the leftover bones that my mother gave me, I had the feeling of waking up from a big dream, and my heart was sour.

Life is like a kaleidoscope, with different changes happening all the time. Each of us is in a different industry, and there are very strict differences between these industries! As the saying goes, "30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi" Sometimes, you feel that this industry is very good, maybe in a few years, other industries will prosper!

And your so-called good industry will be in a very bad state! That's what we call making everyone feel different!

The profession I chose is a teacher, because although the salary of the teaching industry is not high, the teaching industry is very easy and there are weekends, as well as winter and summer vacations, so when I choose this industry, I am full of confidence in this industry! With the development of society, my monthly salary is about 3,000 yuan, plus performance and provident fund, I can get nearly 5,000 yuan a month, and I am in a very good mood! I thought that our industry was a very happy industry in society!

However, recently, I suddenly feel that our industry, compared to other industries, is not even as good as the status of lifting the heel! Because our income is terrible compared to other people's income! When I was in junior high school, I went to Weinan Putian College to learn to cook because of my poor studies, and I chose to go to a secondary normal college because of my good studies!

When I graduated from work, my salary was about 500 yuan a month, and when he just left the apprenticeship, his monthly salary was about 400 yuan, but he didn't need money for food and accommodation! And I need to take care of my own food, sleep, etc.! In this way, I basically have about 100 yuan of money left in my hand a month, and a net loss of 1,000 yuan a year, while my buddy will lose about 5,000 yuan a year.

16 years later, as a teacher with a great sense of accomplishment in the teaching industry, I was rated as a district teaching expert, and a provincial teaching rookie, with nearly 100 awards for various honors, but the salary is only more than 3,000 yuan, and I need to repay the mortgage for about 1,000 yuan a month by buying a house with my own loan, and I need to pay about 1,000 yuan to buy milk powder for the baby, and the expenses in the family are about 1,000 yuan. I work very hard, but my income seems to be very meager!

And my buddy has now become the owner of two stores, with a monthly salary of about 30,000 yuan, not only bought a house at one time, the housing area is about twice as large as mine, but also bought a car, and now life is very chic! Seeing the development of others, and then looking at my own few achievements in the police academy in recent years, I have a feeling of waking up from a big dream! It is better to rely on your own efforts than to rely on national wages!

If you want to talk about the things that make me wake up from a big dream, I have to mention the things I wanted to study back then, the thing is like this, every year, in the month, various colleges and universities will begin to interview students in the third year, after the interview, you can wait for the student's university to release the research quota, this research quota is common throughout the country, that is to say, as long as you get this research quota, as long as there is another school willing to accept you, you can graduate from the bachelor's degree and continue to graduate school, without taking the postgraduate entrance examination.

At that time, I especially wanted to go to the fire laboratory of USTC, which is a better institution for us to continue my studies, but at the beginning I still knew what level I was, and I watched a few top students in the class prepare recommendation letters and transcripts, and then went to the interview together. The interview is back, the first batch of 65 people to go to the University of Science and Technology admitted 59, the classmates in the class brought back the news I was eye-catching, I had a bold idea, 65 won 59, my strength is not stable, I also began to pretend to prepare a letter of recommendation, print transcripts, register in the online system and wait for the second batch of interviews, and also take the trouble to invite the students who have participated in the interview to eat and ask for interview skills. But I waited left and right and waited without notice, so I called the ** of the University of Science and Technology Recruitment Office to ask about the situation, and the recruitment teacher of the University of Science and Technology asked me which school and the ranking of my major and directly said, do you want to come to the University of Science and Technology or take the postgraduate entrance examination, you will not be admitted with this score 100%.

At that time, I woke up, and I completely understood that strength is strength, and any opportunism and luck are just self-comfort, and there can be no return without paying, and there can be no return at all.

After graduation, I saw those classmates taking the admission letter to report, only to find that I woke up a little late in this dream.