I like him, he doesn t have a lot of enthusiasm for me

How much you give and how much you get cannot be equated, as long as you are not completely uninterested, then there is still a head. Some people have a personality, sullen type, haha, they may be enthusiastic in their hearts, but they can't show it, it's up to you to dig out.

Then find a way to make him enthusiastic about you.

Cast on his liking and attract his interest.

boast of what he loves, and make him his confidant.

As long as you can strategically start with his hobbies.

There's always something to excite you.

Good luck!

Does he like you? If he likes you, he will be sincere to you, cherish every minute and second with you, he will not let you feel that he loves you very much, he may want to give you one surprise after another that you can't think of. If he doesn't like you, you don't have to "hang yourself from a tree", you have more youth, more opportunities, and there's no need to waste time on someone who doesn't like you.

I was enthusiastic about him for a month, and then suddenly I wasn't very enthusiastic... Psychological tactics!

Two options1Be warm to him and his family, and touch him.

2.Ignore him, every rotten grass at the end of the world!

Be patient with him, and if you really like him, then keep watching over him. If he doesn't hate you, you'll one day impress him and end up with him! Come on, I wish you happiness!

Because he doesn't like you.

This kind of love will not succeed in giving up, and it is best to give up.

The main reason is that if you can't get the other party, you will want to conquer the other party, and in this case, you will want to use your own sincerity to move the other party, so the other party ignores yourself and wants to pursue the other party, and the other party is very enthusiastic about yourself, so you will feel that such a person is very boring, so you don't like it.

Because the more active the person is, the less attractive you are, but the more active and unenthusiastic you are, you will feel more attractive and will be curious about everything about him.

Because everyone is cheap, the more active others are to you, the more annoying you will feel, but people who are very indifferent to you, you will feel more interested and like each other.

This is typical of the unobtainable eternal commotion.

People often don't cherish things that are very easy to get, but they cherish things that are very difficult to get, so we should never let others get them easily when we get along with the opposite sex.

This shows that you are cheap, others are good to you, you feel that you should be, others are bad to you, you will feel that this person is particularly interesting and attractive to you.

This is a common psychology of many people, what you can't get is the best, what is too easy to get is the cheapest, to be precise, there is no self-knowledge and do not know how to cherish, it is completely vanity and a sense of conquest.

Because people always care about what they are about to lose, maybe this is your nature, so you must correct it.

Because what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear.

Summary. Hello, dear.

If you like someone who is not very welcoming to you. This situation is divided into two situations!

What if you like someone and he's not that passionate.

Hello, dear. If you like someone who is not very welcoming to you. This situation is divided into two situations!

1.He doesn't like you.

2.He doesn't care so much about feelings, so he treats feelings coldly.

Personally, I think the probability of the first case is relatively high! So, if that's really the case, let's get together and disperse! After all, feelings can't come barely.

You're too contradictory, that is, you can crack it yourself, and I can only give constructive advice. I think people don't necessarily like you when they're good to you, you may take your liking Qiqing too seriously, or confuse the original meaning of liking. If someone shows favor to you next time, then try to show favor to others, but keep a proper distance, plan your own bottom line, and don't cross your bottom line, you won't have such a big sense of disgust.

This can only mean that from the bottom of your heart, you don't like it very well and like it. Person. Because of the trouble, many people have to talk about their eyes when they fall in love.

And you have to praise each other for a lot of conditions, because some challenges can't hit your mind, and you definitely don't want to ask for them. But if he doesn't do that in the future, you don't feel like that.

Treat it with a clear heart, neither to show ambiguity, nor to stay away, and to tell him clearly that you are just friends. Sometimes, once you make your position clear, things are settled.

Since you don't want him to have an affair with you, you have to have a normal life.

As long as there is no physical contact with the language, most of them will not like and feel good.

Like you said, when he says he likes you, you're afraid he's going to fall in love with you.

But love can only be achieved if you love me.

Otherwise, it's all that's left to refuse.

He is cold and hot to you, and he has obvious intentions for you.

Because you don't know how important it is for him to take the initiative.

That means that you are a person who is very self-conscious, you must always understand that people who like you always have feelings for you, as long as you have a trace of relaxation, he will mistakenly think that you are giving him hints, and will pursue you, so that you are delaying your future love life, and as long as you reach the age of love, I think you should not refuse your favorite pursuit of balance, of course, you can't abuse it, otherwise you will be hurt in the end!

There is a saying that what you can't get is always in turmoil, for him, when he showed that he liked you at the beginning, you felt that you could take it at your fingertips, and you didn't care so much, but when he ignored you, and because he used to care about you, and now he doesn't care about the sense of distance, you care.

It's because you're not ready to fall in love, but you don't know how to reject Lao Tong's rejection of others, so you subconsciously murder the other party, in this way to express the attitude of refusal, you can try to communicate with the other party, when you encounter this situation again, you will euphemistically refuse to serve the other party, and tell him that he just wants to be friends with him, just say it.

I'm the same way, if someone tells me that he likes me, then we are destined to not even be friends, I hope that the boy who pursues me will never show a good impression of me, or even hit me, so that I can make friends with him with confidence, and only on the basis of friendship can I slowly rush which high and slow into love! I don't know if that's the case with you.

Others are good to you and closed, you have to learn to cherish, anyone's contribution is not in vain, you have to look at the impulse or to others' pay, don't wait until others ignore you, you will regret it later, cherish the present.

This is a common trait of human beings. I don't cherish what I get, I want to get closer to what I get away, there's nothing to get tangled upon, the characteristics of human nature, there is no need to twist it. If you really have a good impression of him, you shouldn't treat him like this, as you said, you just want to be an ordinary friend with him, then it's good to communicate with him, talk about it, and have a better attitude towards each other.

This is a common trait of human beings. I don't cherish what I get, I want to get closer to it, there is nothing to tangle with the side ruler, the characteristics of human nature, there is no need to reverse. If you really have a good impression of him, you shouldn't treat him like this, as you said, you just want to be an ordinary friend with him, then it's good to communicate with him and talk about it, and you can just miss a little bit of each other's attitudes!

In fact, you want to play the method of Huai Que Mu to get away with it, but it is self-defeating, and it will be so old that others will think that you dislike him, but you like him in your heart, women, many of them are like this, you might as well accept him generously.

It's because you don't feel too much for people and don't get close, and at the same time, there is also a habit of being high. How to deal with the disadvantage of having no wilderness and how to deal with it all over the world.

Because others just like you, there is no malice, and it is better to be friendly and contain some.

You may not have thought about what kind of person you need to be buried in, and the person who happens to appear catches you off guard, and your first reaction is to run away. And when this slow silver man gradually drifted away, he felt that his own things were quietly slipping away. First of all, be clear about the type you like; secondly, be bold to accept, understand in contact, and better analyze yourself when you have more contact; Finally, keep self-summarizing, and at the same time learn to disturb the training banquet to protect yourself.

There may be someone in your heart who has not let go, which makes you very conflicted. When others are good to you, you are disgusted, and when others are not good to you, you are disappointed. Adjust your mentality, let go of what you should let go, live in the moment, and cherish the people who are good to you.

There is nothing to dwell on, the characteristics of human nature, there is no need to reverse. If you really have a good impression of him, you should also hail to celebrate that you won't treat him like this, as you said, you just want to be an ordinary friend with him.

Others like to talk about you, you feel that people are not worthy of you, or you don't like this person, and you can't treat other people with emotions, then you will definitely not be enthusiastic about you, and stay away from you, inevitably.

Everybody has this mentality, and you can try to put yourself in your shoes and think about how you would feel if somebody else did the same to you.

That's when you are in the midst of blessings and don't know how to be blessed, and it's too late to figure it out, so cherish anyone around you who is good to you.

Others, like, yours, friendly, when you want to be good and lead away from him, are not enthusiastic about you, and you don't want to be like that, which means that you don't know what you need. Shelter.

You have to know your heart and follow what you really think. Don't follow the crowd.

Others like you because they look up to you and appreciate you. If you are fierce to others at this time, others will think that you are not so good, and they will not be enthusiastic.

That's what you do, you don't cherish it when you get it, and you don't know if you regret it when you lose it, it's too late.

This is normal psychology, if you don't cherish it, you regret it when you lose it.

You must listen to your own heart and your own heart, judge the direction at the beginning, don't be cold and hot at the beginning, and don't think about it, but others have already left the lead disturbance.

I knew you before.,And then I'm very careful to help you.,If you like it, you're not sure what you say.,But you definitely have a good feeling.,It should be a lot better than a stranger.。 If you want to know, you can pay more attention to see if he is so enthusiastic about other girls. Besides, even if he likes you, he didn't say that we can't do anything, so I think it's a little embarrassing to ask you directly if you like me.

Don't overthink it, just let it be.