The story of his first love. What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    His approach is indeed hurtful, and his ex-girlfriend's approach is even more despicable.

    What do you do pestering other people's husbands all day long?

    You chose him wrong, and he mistreated you.

    But you're in the right mindset, just treat him as air.

    He loves to be her trash can, so let him be a good one.

    Do what you love, whatever it is.

    Having a good time first is the most important thing at the moment.

    That's it, if you're happy, everyone will be fine.

    If you're not happy, you can use him as a punching bag.

    If you feel uncomfortable, you will use a dim sum scheme to make them have a conflict, and you will watch the play on the side.

    If you meet someone who understands you and loves you, kick him off again.

    It will be time to see who is more upset! Who regrets it more!

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello landlord. As a listener, I can feel the pain in your heart. First of all, I would like to remind you that happiness is in your own hands.

    This is said to your lover. If you want your husband to keep a certain distance from her, you are the key. It's up to you to do it.

    You have to tell your husband what is on your mind, but don't quarrel. Explain to him what you think of her. What do you think of their behavior like this.

    Your husband is disrespecting you by doing this. After all, it is a person who has a family, and he must think about it later. He is just bent on accepting the past now, and you have to make it clear to him that they will only harm two families if they continue like this.

    I don't know if you have children or not, but I want to remind you that first of all, you have to win back your husband's heart, and you must maintain a good mentality and not be impulsive. Don't file for divorce lightly. Divorce will only harm both parties, children, and family.

    I hope these words of mine can help you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Take a look at "Adolescence Meets Menopause", it will be inspiring.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't love him, say goodbye to him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try to be separated from him for a while, maybe when you are not around him, he will think about the bits and pieces of your marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Landlord, your love is just an illusion.

    In this world, few people will truly love, and few people want to receive true love.

    In the same way, being respected and loved is also an illusion. A lot of people are depressed because they don't get these things. What you get is a fake.

    People are all in the morning and evening, a face for a while, the landlord, you yourself are the same.

    If you see yourself in the eyes of another person, you will feel loved for a while, and you will feel abandoned for a while, and you will also feel that this person is actually erratic. And don't react based on real facts. The words that were said at this time, the vows made, and the wishes expressed were repented at the next time, as if there had never been such a thing.

    How can this kind of thing just happen to someone else? It's the same myself.

    A person who is jealous of someone else will say that the other person has no morals. A person who thinks he is righteous will ridicule the other person's lack of fairness. A victim will store resentment in the name of righteousness.

    Does the morality, justice, and love of these people really exist? Or are they just apparitions to be exploited, and they think they own them?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Talk to him once, whether you live or die, death must be understood, and if you can't get what you want after talking to him, leave! I think children are actually the most sensitive, don't say that children don't understand anything when they are young, in fact, they just look at it in their eyes and don't say it. Also, we are not children, there are some things that don't use your own concept to think that children think like this, children are an independent person, but they are also part of the family.

    Could it be that a divorced marriage and an unhappy family are really what children want? Talk to your child about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Believe in your inner feelings, feel a little annoying, annoying, and prove that he is not suitable for you.

    The relationship should be pleasing to both sides!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no need to live in someone else's world every day, even if that person is your husband. Cultivate more of your own interests and hobbies, show different selves in front of him, travel more, relax and relax, and think more about yourself. Don't worry about whether he loves you or not, whether he loves her or not.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, learn to be self-reliant, it's better to love yourself more than to complain that others don't love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When he graduated from junior high school, he knew that I liked him, and I knew that he liked me.

    Just when I thought I was going to start a sweet relationship with the boy I had had a crush on for more than half a year, he told me that he was going to study in the UK, because he just got his passport out.

    Faced with such news, we could only stand there and watch each other ......Between us, we have not held hands, we have not hugged, and the most intimate contact was after asking his consent, I kissed him on the right side of his face with my hand behind my back.

    So it's going to end before it begins?

    But how can there be an end without a beginning?

    I turned away, swallowing all the words I wanted to keep.

    When I look back on that period many years later, I'm glad that my first love ended that way.

    There is no vigorous beginning, no miserable separation, no hope, no disappointment, there is only youth and beauty, mixed with a touch of regret.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Here is a little story of first love:

    Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua are high school classmates, and their friends know that they have a good impression of each other, but both of them are relatively shy and have never had the courage to confess.

    Once the school organized students to visit a science and technology exhibition, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua happened to be in the same group. Halfway through the exhibition, Xiao Ming plucked up the courage to invite Xiaohua to eat ice cream at the small shop outside the exhibition hall, and Xiaohua agreed with a red face.

    The two sat together in a small shop, a little shy at first, but soon began to talk. Xiao Ming watched Xiaohua eat ice cream, thought she was very cute, and plucked up the courage to say: "Little finger with flowers, in fact, I liked you a long time ago, would you like to be with me?" ”

    When Xiaohua heard this, her face was as red as a little apple, and she lowered her head and said, "Xiao Ming, I have liked you for a long time." ”

    The two are finally together, and the first kiss follows, sweet and green. This is also an unforgettable first love memory in Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua's lives.

    This short story describes the process of a young and lovely first love between two high school students. First love is like the first spring in life, warm and fragile, bringing sweet memories. The fact that two people overcome the shyness and anxiety characteristic of adolescence, have the courage to reveal their hearts, and finally walk hand in hand, is also the inspiration of this story to love and be loved.

    The memory of first love, whether it is successful in the end or not, has become an indelible beautiful scenery in life. I believe that this little story has also awakened many people's memories of their first love time, and they miss the innocence and sweetness of youth. Life is short, so try to find and hold on to the best spring in our eyes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have many sisters, I am the youngest in the family, the fifth among the girls, and coincidentally, the first love is also the fifth. The window of my boudoir was facing the window of his house.

    Because my father had me after he was in his 50s, my parents doted on me even if they were now only children, and they probably didn't enjoy my treatment.

    Although the whole family spoiled me, they went to work every day, busy with their own affairs, and I was free to eat and drink well, and I spent my salary at work, but the family education at that time was basically to ensure that food and clothing were worry-free, and I didn't pay attention to ideology.

    Some of my colleagues at work are older than me, and they are all falling in love one after another, and I have a heart for adolescence.

    Because my first love was with my sister at work, and because of the neighbors, I had more contact with him.

    The handwriting of the first love is good-looking, I hate writing, this problem knows that I can't change it now, and I am often embarrassed because I need to write and see my own font at work.

    Slowly I found myself liking him, and finally one day he broke the window paper.

    We're in love.

    At that time, I didn't know how to knit, and I was afraid that his writing hands would be cold, so I knitted fingerless gloves for him. I guess my interest in handicrafts was cultivated at that time.

    When I was 18 years old, he said I was too young and would marry me when I was two years older. My heart was filled with love.

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