Tell us about how difficult you were when you were at your hardest? How did it get better in the end

What could be more painful than the ideal getting farther and farther away, more and more unattainable? I have been working for more than a year, and I am still very confused.

In the past, I had a boyfriend who contracted projects, and he had at least tens of thousands of yuan per month. But there were unforeseen circumstances, and there was a problem with his new project, and the people under him cut corners. He completely lost it, and basically gave him all the wages I paid during that period, and I had three or four hundred yuan left in my hand to eat, and I didn't see meat every day.

In the end, he climbed up with a rich woman, and he broke up with me, and my life was better.

I didn't do well in the college entrance examination, and I cried at home all day long. I didn't go to dinner after graduation, and I didn't go to my friends to go out to play, and I always felt that people looked down on me. Later, when I went to college, my good friends were all at home, far away, and I always felt very lonely, and I had to do everything by myself.

Those years or two were the hardest times. Later, it got better...

When I was going to graduate school, I was under a lot of pressure to prepare for the exam, it was winter, the weather was very cold, I covered myself tightly, and every night I went back to the dormitory with tears in my eyes. Later, when we met Jingjing, we went to the library every day to study and went back to the dormitory together. Now that I have found a job I like, looking back, the hardest days have finally become the most beautiful memories.

Originally, the job was not very good, I partnered with friends to do business, went to a small city that I had never been to, my credit card was quickly maxed out, and finally I was cheated and didn't make any money. I can't go home for the Chinese New Year, I have no job, no money, no place to live, I found a dormitory with a rent of 280 yuan, and in February in the Northeast, I have to sleep in a down jacket! It's the worst time!

Now thank you for persevering through all the hardships...

At that time, the most difficult time was to do it by myself, and I didn't dare to promise that I wouldn't do it in the future, and if I didn't die, I wouldn't die.

After the most difficult time was the third year of junior high school, after failing the diversion exam, I was very inferior, and then I walked with my head down every day, and my mother picked me up from school every day, I was afraid that I couldn't think about it, and then it took half a year to slow down, but it took a year to get really good.

I owe a whole bunch of credit cards....Later, I slowly returned it! I didn't put too much pressure on myself at the time, and before I knew it, I came over little by little!

When was the most difficult time you've experienced while wandering outside?

Everyone has had an unforgettable experience when they first came back to work and wanted to prove themselves.

No matter how tired you are outside, you don't want your family to know that you are enduring all the hardships and grievances.

When you are poor, you come here.

Yes, there are too many people who share the same wealth and wealth, and too few people who share the same joys and sorrows.

There will be ups and downs in life, peaks and valleys!

When you are at a low point, you also need to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and you can't let life beat you!

How did you survive when you were at your poorest? Here are some netizens' experiences:

When I was the poorest, I was in a strange city with my husband now, and the two of them only had 10 yuan in their pockets, and they bought a flatbread, and he said that he was not hungry, and I ate it all without heart or lungs. Later he said that he was actually hungry too? I bought a lottery ticket for five dollars, but I didn't win!

Later slept on the road for two days and got a job? I have been with him for 11 years, and now I have a son and a daughter. I also bought my own house, worked very hard and was very competitive, and I plan to buy a car next.

When I was the poorest, I didn't want to spend 5 yuan for a week, I didn't eat breakfast every day and walked to work, and I ate the boss's meal in the store at noon. In the afternoon, I went home to cook my own food, and in short, it was a week without grocery shopping.

When I was poorest in '06, my daughter was less than 1 year old at the time, and her salary couldn't be paid, and she didn't have any money to buy milk powder. I borrowed 50 yuan to buy two bags of milk powder, and I ate steamed buns for ten days. I was reluctant to take the bus to work, and I was an hourly away by bicycle, and I remembered that tears flowed back then.

When we were the poorest, when we were pregnant with the eldest child, my husband didn't get a penny to work, and he took five coins in the piggy bank for lunch. After ten years, we now have two daughters, two apartments, and an Audi, and cherish our current life.

At that time, I had just graduated from university, and I had to pay for the shared house, and I had to rely on the relief of my friends who shared the house. I ate noodles for a month, the kind boiled in clear water. I carried ten yuan on my body for a month, and then went to work as an hourly worker, ten yuan an hour, four hours a night, dreamed of washing dishes, gritted my teeth and went to do illegal online sales for two months, and then took the money home for the New Year, I can't forget those days for the rest of my life!

When I think back to the time when I was at my poorest, it was probably half a year after graduating from college. At that time, I had just moved from the dormitory in the school, and I only had a salary of 1,400 yuan per month for the probationary period. Remove the rent of 400 yuan, but also to pay back the 700 yuan to find someone to do the graduation project, the answer to the university is a computer scum, the graduation project to find a junior, 700 oceans, the answer did not dare to ask the parents, feel too embarrassed to speak, so gritted his teeth and decided to pay back when the first salary was paid, so there was only 300 yuan left, yes, 300 yuan to a month, don't buy clothes, even eat is not enough, right?

That's right, the respondent only eats one meal a day at noon, in order not to let everyone see the embarrassment of an intern's life, the respondent and everyone ordered the same dish, about 10 yuan per meal, fortunately the work is 22 days a month, not 30 days, you know? At night, the respondent only dared to eat instant noodles, and it had to be when he was hungry and could no longer hold on. In this way, the answer is from the big fat man who has just graduated, and he has lost fifteen pounds in a month, and then one day he met a college classmate of mine, and the boy said, wow, you lost so much weight, I knew that I would chase you in college, fuck you, stay away from my sister and me.

You must want to say why not like your parents to borrow something, hum, because the answer feels that since he has graduated, he should be independent, and he must not use his parents' money again, and he will go to the ocean of 700 yuan, and his heart is really much easier, and he must say that the rent of the answer at that time was so cheap at 400 yuan, okay, it is a plug-in, and the point is that there is no window, you know, how miserable it is, that is, when you come back from work, there is a kind of dark rush. But the good thing is that as long as you survive the most difficult moments in life, everything will be fine.

Stay at home, I don't have any money and no friends to ask me to hang out or anything like that. Watch movies, watch anime and stuff like that, **watch too.

People who eat wild vegetables, moldy steamed buns and chaff nests grow up to eighteen years old pass by! Eighty-three years old bachelor passing by!

If you are poor and have no money, how can you survive, then spend less. There is no other way but to save and save, and that's my way.

When I was most impoverished, when Dabao was very young, my husband went out to work, and the monthly living expenses were only enough for expenses.

At that time, Dabao had never drunk milk powder and was all breastfed. I haven't used diapers, all of them are diapers made from torn sheets. This will save a lot of money.

I have to take care of my children, and I can't go out to work, so I can only save every penny. Even meat and fish are reluctant to eat. Buying once a month is considered to improve your life.

Thinking about that time, it was really bitter. I know that saving is not the way to go, but I can't go out and make money.

I cried and asked my husband to buy me a computer, I thought I could open a ** store and make some money. Or post online and make some money. But my husband's hard-earned money went to learn a driver's license.

His theory is that tuition fees will become more and more expensive after learning a driver's license, and buying a computer will only get cheaper and cheaper.

I have no choice but to save my life like this.

When I was most impoverished, I guess it was when I didn't have much money in my hands at that time, and the house I lived in was cold in winter and leaking rain in summer. And at that time, my work did not develop particularly well, so it can be said that I couldn't open the situation at all, and I felt very difficult in my heart.

In retrospect, I don't think there was any particular way, but I just worked hard day after day. Although life can be said to be very harsh on me, I have not given up anything, and I have not given up the hope of being reborn, believing that I will always live well in the future and have everything I want. When it's time to study, I still study hard, and when the opportunity comes, no matter how hard it is, I still do my best to do it well, and I think it's OK to be able to do these things.

It can be said that everyone's life is not so smooth sailing, everyone may not be poor, but there is always their own low, right? At this time, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality and don't complain.

When I was at my poorest, I relied on instant noodles to survive.