How did you survive the most difficult times?

How did you survive the most difficult time? In fact, I feel hopeless about life many times, although many times I read books, or after listening to other people's advice, it seems that I have some changes in my view of life, but after that, I still habitually feel hopeless about the world. The kind of person who can't rely on others when he is in difficulty, of course he can face financial difficulties, and he still has to face his own spiritual difficulties even after being comforted by others.

When I was a sophomore in high school, my grades were so poor that a lot of my studies were wasted, and at that time, I was addicted to the Internet, playing games online all night every day, and then I went to class the next day to sleep, and I didn't have much interaction with my classmates. Finally, after I went to sleep, I was dragged to the office by the head teacher and said that he wanted to expel me, but in fact, I knew that the head teacher could not expel the students, so he could only humiliate me with various words.

After the humiliation, he began to follow the temptation, both soft and hard, and tried to persuade me to drop out of school, and I did not disappoint him, and I didn't want to go to school in my heart. So he did as he wanted, dropped out of school and left.

After dropping out of school, I went to work in other places with a classmate who didn't go to junior high school, and I went to Wuxi at that time, and I found an electronics factory at random, and we went in. Which electronics factory is a twelve-hour working day shift and night shift work, the usual work is to check some parts on the assembly line, the work is very boring.

At that time, I saw that there were people working on the assembly line around me, all of them were old, there were young people in their twenties, middle-aged people in their thirties and forties, and there were students who had just dropped out of school like me.

I sat next to the assembly line, looking blankly at everything around me, the huge factory, the workers in their work clothes with indifferent expressions on their faces, the smugness on the faces of the leaders and the sound of the machines constantly operating, and suddenly felt a sense of fear.

I was only eighteen years old that year, and everyone else took the college entrance examination at the age of eighteen, and then went out to celebrate with my family during the summer vacation, and then chose a good university with good grades, met an ordinary girlfriend, and then graduated and worked, and there were girlfriends around to live a happy life. I turned around and looked around me, and I was really scared, what about my future, did I just stand on this assembly line and do twelve hours a day?

But I'm not reconciled, I'm so desperate, I also want to go to school and take the college entrance examination, get into a good university, find a beloved girlfriend, and then meet the challenges in society.

When I made a choice in the face of such difficulties in life, I finally chose to go back and continue studying, and I didn't survive much, but that was the most difficult time for me, and I cried many times.

The most difficult time so far should be the third year of high school.

In others, I have mentioned that I only started to study hard in the second year of high school, so my foundation will be much worse than others.

I didn't have much pressure to work hard for the whole year of high school, because my parents didn't expect much from me at that time, and I thought that I could go to a better second book.

But with the improvement of my grades, my parents' expectations for me are also rising day by day, from the first two, to one, to 211, and then to 985

They didn't say anything about the class, but I could feel their expectations.

When I was in the third year of high school, the school said that it was divided into two experimental classes, but I don't know why, it was only divided into one that year, and because I didn't get into the top 50, I didn't enter that class, but entered the so-called key class, and my student number was No. 2.

If it is the last place in the experimental class, maybe my pressure will not be very great, because I don't have to worry about my regression, as long as I move forward one is a successful performance, but in the second place in the key class, although everything is blocked by the first place, the psychological pressure is still very great, and if I am not careful, it is a regression, and it is more difficult to progress than to ascend to the sky.

Facts proved that my worries were correct, and in the first monthly exam of the first semester, I became the ninth in the class, and many dark horses rushed out of the class at once.

So I started all kinds of efforts, I was the first student to arrive at school every day in the third year of high school, and at noon, I often didn't go to the cafeteria to eat in order to sort out the knowledge points in the morning, and I didn't talk to my parents on the way home, but memorized the knowledge points in the small book by myself.

But it's just so hard, I still didn't get the first in the next few exams, I remember one time I couldn't stand the review, one buried in front of the desk and cried, and I recorded a paragraph for myself with ***, and continued to cry and endorse after recording.

I survived the entire senior year of high school, and in despair, I relied on the recording to encourage myself, and ushered in June.

On the day of the college entrance examination, I answered all the papers very calmly, and then silently went back to school to move my things.

Long after the results came out, when I went back to school to get the file, I realized that I was the first in the class, the only time I was first.

Now that I'm in college, sometimes when I can't persevere, I will listen to those recordings of my senior year of high school to encourage myself, so the difficult time has passed, what is this bit of difficulty now?

The most difficult time for me should be when I graduated from the college entrance examination, and the time when I cried the most should also be at that time. It was also at that time that completely changed me and made me an increasingly sensitive and insecure person. The difficulties at that time were not economic difficulties, but the difficulties and collapse of a state of life.

Every year during the college entrance examination season, I will think of my own time, in addition to infinite emotion, it is the catharsis of tears.

I wasn't a very good student in high school, and I could even say that I was one of the best poor students. Usually in class, I play on my mobile phone, watch TV, sleep, and when I take exams, I cheat all kinds of things. I didn't understand how this would affect me later in life, but now that I think about it, I was really stupid.

But I'm not stupid yet, so in my third year of high school, I suddenly woke up, every day I was endorsing books, practicing questions, and even I felt that I had changed a lot. Although it was only a short period of hard work, I really pulled my usual score of just over 200 points to more than 400 points. Even my homeroom teacher said that I did well in the exam this time!

I was really happy with the result. <>

However, in the hearts of my family, they can't see my efforts, they only know the level of grades that can determine whether their future support is strong enough, and whether they can show off in front of relatives and friends. They don't know what I'm trying, they don't even know what level I'm at. So at that time, in their hearts, I was no longer their daughter, and even my grandfather, who had always supported me, began to waver.

At that time, I was really helpless and didn't know how to move on with my life. During that time, my tears were almost dry, and I really felt that it was so difficult to live.

Later, I still came strong, otherwise could this be? When you don't have something to rely on, you have to be strong and let yourself be your own support.

For me, the most difficult thing is the monthly exam in the third year of high school, which I should remember for the rest of my life, and the tears that time were also the most painful.

I still remember that monthly exam, I didn't play very well, but I comforted myself and felt that my grades didn't fall so much. I remember that when I was studying at night after the first day of the exam, the head teacher silently brought the transcript into the classroom and pasted it in the most conspicuous place on the wall, but I also joked with my classmates: "The teachers are also very fast in changing the papers."

After that, I was faintly uneasy, I picked up my schoolbag and silently stepped forward to look at the results, and saw that I had changed from twenty to forty-two in the class, and the whole person was stunned, and I was stunned, and I was stunned, and I stood in a daze, I didn't know how many minutes later, I eased up, and tears had flowed down my face unconsciously, in order not to let the classmates see, I immediately ran out of the classroom. Since I was a day student, I went to the garage to push the cart, rode home, and cried while riding along the way, and the tears kept flowing down, I thought a lot along the way, and felt that I would definitely not be able to get into college with such a grade, how could I have the face to face the ...... of my parents who worked hard to raise meWhen I got home, I held back my tears and went back to my room to cry silently again. When I woke up in the morning, my eyes were badly swollen, but the tears seemed to be pouring out again.

This is the worst grade I have ever had since high school, and I feel very uncomfortable, and I haven't slowed down for the next two days, and finally I think that I have worked hard for so long, and I can't be defeated by a failure, I want to come back to life, no longer be tormented by the results of a monthly exam, I want to continue to work hard, restore the previous honor, and even reach a higher level, this is what I should do the most. Finally, the next few monthly exams did not happen again.

That monthly exam was the most difficult thing I have ever experienced in my life, and it was also the time when I cried the most. But in the end, I turned my grief into strength and passed the college entrance examination.

<> my hardest time, so far, was probably in my first job.

Before I went, my salary was paid truthfully, no matter how busy it was. It was the first time I took over the work, and I ended the busy work in the morning, and every work went so smoothly, and there was still a little joy in my heart, and there were no mistakes in the first work. While I was still waiting for the staff to give me the salary scale, I was still full of excitement.

Time passed little by little, seeing that the bank was about to close, but the payroll had not been delivered to me, I couldn't bear the joy of paying my salary for the first time, so I went to get the payroll myself, and went to the bank when I got the payroll. Who knew that to withdraw a large amount of money, you have to apply a day in advance, and the bank no longer has that much money. I went to another bank, who knew they had left work early, I started to panic, I ran so hard until I couldn't breathe, let the cold wind blow on my face, and I didn't seem to feel any pain.

I ran to the next bank with all my might, and somehow they left work early, and then I was completely flustered, and my mind went blank as if it had been washed. I knew that the situation was already like this, and I couldn't change it, and my tears seemed to be frozen by the cold air. This is the leader wanted me to ask about the situation, I told him truthfully, the leader told me to go back first, and the company has something that I need to deal with.

I really wanted to find a place to hide right away, but I knew I couldn't do it and told myself not to cry and to be brave.

After I went back, I took care of everything, and people passing by would ask me when I would pay my salary, and I said that I couldn't. At this point, I told myself I couldn't cry, but I seemed to cry inside. Everyone knows this news, some people are angry, and some people are tolerant.

But my heart could not be at peace for a long time. I apologized to everyone in the work group, but I didn't make my heart feel better. So much so that I hardly slept that night, although I was dreaming about paychecks for the next two hours I fell asleep, and finally woke up.

At night, I blamed myself for having so much trouble breathing.

The next day, I hurriedly went to the bank, but the way to pay my salary was still not smooth, but fortunately, everyone got their wages in the evening, and the stone in my heart lightened a lot. At that time, I seemed to be just gritting my teeth and getting through, and the most rare thing was not the tiredness of the body, but the tiredness of the heart.

Although it has been a long time since the incident, I still feel so guilty when I think about it now, and I can only look at it with a normal heart. Avoid such mistakes in the future and let yourself grow faster.

In the midst of mistakes, you will grow the fastest, and no matter how difficult it is, you must face it bravely.

Each of us will have a difficult time in the long journey of life.

When it's tough, how do you get through it?

1.In difficult days, you can only rely on yourself, and others can't help you.

When you enter the society, when your life is the most difficult, in the eyes of others, you are worthless, you know, most of the relationships in the world are based on the value of interests, just like a beggar on the street, no matter how good his heart is, no one wants to make friends with him.

The poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This statement is applicable at all times. So this difficult time can only be overcome by yourself, and others are useless.

2.In the hardest time, don't stand still.

Most of the time, people's potential is forced out, and in this most difficult time, you have to be clear about your goals, cherish this time when no one cares, and you have plenty of time for self-cultivation. When this time is already the most difficult, there is nothing to be afraid of, only to keep going, when you improve yourself, you will find that the difficult time has quietly slipped away.

3.In difficult times, we must learn to be self-disciplined and self-reliant.

Some people feel self-pity in adversity, some people are ready to go in adversity, when facing the trough of life, don't give up, self-discipline and self-improvement, and improve yourself.

Sima Qian. Speaking for Li Ling was Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty.

was angry, under the palace punishment, and his face was disgraced, but he did not sink there, endured humiliation and wrote the book, and completed the "Historical Records" with all his efforts

After all, the name will remain for eternity.

Therefore, in the difficult time, we must take care of ourselves, and the body is the capital of the revolution.

Insist on exercising and improving yourself, and you will eventually see the blue sky through the dark clouds.