Do you have anyone around you who has never married in your life, but has lived a good life?

Yes. Earn your own money and spend it yourself, one person eats enough for the whole family and is not hungry, you don't have to worry about oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you don't have to work hard, you have to worry about your children, you can come and go freely, you can live in a nursing home when you are old, and it's good to live alone without fighting or making trouble.

Yes, everyone's life pursuit is different, you don't need to compare other people's life tracks, pay attention to your own inner needs, if you want to tie the knot, you don't want to tie the knot, the outside will always put pressure on you, but if you can't be yourself, how can you talk about happiness.

My classmate's aunt is such an unmarried family, she is almost fifty years old this year, but she still looks like a beautiful woman under thirty. She has her own jewelry store, she dresses up very beautifully every day, and in her free time she will run around the country with the tour group, not to mention how comfortable she is.

There is a grandmother in the neighborhood who is such a person, when she was a child, she thought she was a divorced person, and she felt that she was quite lonely when she lived alone, but after chatting with her, she found that she enjoyed such a day, and she bought a few houses when she was young, and now she can support herself by collecting rent, and she often travels alone, and she is very envious of her carefree and unfettered life.

The high school teacher is about to be 40 years old and has not yet married, and his hobbies are particularly prominent, opera and dance, and now he is learning to cook every day and is meticulous in class. Although I don't have a daughter-in-law, I live a happy life.

There is an aunt near my house who is not married and does not plan to get married. She has a house, dividends and other benefits, doesn't go to work, sports and dances every day, lives very comfortably, and has the best security when she is old.

There is a ** teacher next to me, who is not married, only in love, very good at dressing up in beautiful skirts every day, and very profitable in training classes, and lacks nothing. ‍‍

It's all superficial scenery, made for people to see, and you can know how many tears there are at night. I have a 40-year-old girlfriend and female colleague who are not married, and I am very happy to travel around, but what about the reality? Women are afraid of loneliness, and there will definitely be really chic people, but more of them are helpless and pretending to be chic. ‍‍

I'm a staunch celibate, I'm 32 years old, I've always been good, free, and clean, no one is babbling all day long, let alone how cool. ‍‍

There are no people around me who are not married, but those who are not married are not doing well, it seems that marriage has a decisive impact on a person's life!

Unit nearly 50 single female colleagues, every holiday must go out to play, the country has already traveled all over the country Now specializing in foreign countries, just went to Greece a few days ago, that scene is called a beautiful yo, to us envy to death. ‍

One of my high school teachers is about to be 40 years old and unmarried, and his hobbies are particularly prominent, opera and dance, and now he learns to cook every day and is meticulous in class. Although I don't have a daughter-in-law, I live a happy life.

There is a T around me who doesn't get married and doesn't like men, but I don't want to upset my parents yet.

Although it looks like an easy day on the outside, the loneliness when you are alone and the desolation of no one to take care of you when you are sick can't make up for it.

Here are a few reasons why I'm single and don't want to get married.

1. Purely for freedom, if you think that you are single, you can come and go freely, unrestrained, you don't have to worry about family affairs, you don't have to worry about all the affairs of your parents, and you don't have to work hard to raise your children.

Second, influenced by the ideas of Western countries, it is believed that singleness is more free and easy, and more avant-garde.

Three. , The fear of the marriage of the previous generation, I am in my twenties this year, a few years after graduating from college, and now I am focusing on my career, but I am always a little afraid of marriage. Parents often quarrel and even move hands at the slightest disagreement.

I was a young child, and all I knew was crying when this happened, and as I grew older, the relationship between my parents became more and more cold, and I even thought about divorce my parents, and he was only afraid of their marriage. Now I am single and work hard outside and rarely go home, I feel that I am very happy when I live alone, and I am even more afraid that my marriage will be like my parents' marriage, so I don't want to get married.

Four. Each of us has had our own fantasies, perhaps looking for our handsome Prince Charming or the beautiful Snow White, but some people have gradually given up this fantasy in the process of life, and some have been silently waiting for her to appear. A person's life seems to be quite long, and I hope to find someone who suits me to go through a long life.

Maybe I've given up too many choices in my life, but I hope I can do more than lack in my life's events.

The unmarried people around me, the older I get, the more lonely I feel.

There are also some benefits to being unmarried:

1. Reduced life risks.

One of the most obvious advantages of not getting married is that the cost of living will be greatly reduced, a single person, he only needs to be responsible for his own food, clothing, housing and transportation, as well as providing for his parents, and a person who is married, in addition to his own life, he also has a spouse, children, elders, and the pressure of life can be imagined.

Therefore, single people have a strong ability to resist risks, they can be satisfied with a salary of tens of thousands of dollars a month, and occasionally go out to travel, but once people get married, they will be restricted everywhere, and they don't even dare to change jobs.

2. Be free.

Another advantage of not getting married is that you are free, no one restricts your personal freedom, you don't have to worry about buying a house, you don't have to be depressed about your children's education, you can quit your job and find a new job, because you don't have to worry about losing your job, and the family can't live.

Of course, not getting married brings freedom, but it is also easy for people to lose the direction of life, and there is no place for life, after all, home can always give people warmth and dependence when people are low, and give people the power of rebirth, and when you are single, all things need to be borne silently by yourself.

Marriage is just an experience in life, and it is a small probability that you can find someone with a very high rate of compatibility with you. In fact, everyone wants to have perfect love and marriage, but when they really enter marriage, in the end, all the beauty will be defeated by the firewood, rice, oil and salt in reality, and in the end most of them are improvised. And marriage may bring people a lot more harm in the end than being single, if Liang Mengqi is not icing on the cake, then it is necessary to consider whether it is suitable for marriage.

Marriage is no longer an irrelevant thing for young people today. The old consciousness was that people must get married, and when they are old, they must find a partner to marry a wife and have children, and then live a step-by-step daily life. But now, the mindset of the younger generation has gradually changed, especially young women, who don't want to let themselves live the kind of thrifty daily life of the family, or leave the free and free daily life of a single person to have children and take care of the housework.

1. Not wanting to get married does not prevent you from living well when you are old.

For people who don't get married, getting old definitely won't really be living a very miserable life, and not wanting to get married doesn't prevent them from living well when they're old. The prerequisite is to save enough money for pension services. As long as Tong Duan is rich, he will not live a bad life at any time.

Every dignified person in this life has a high probability of having nothing to do with the people around him, and whether he gets married or not, and has nothing to do with having a few children, but has something to do with money. If there is enough money, there will be enough decently. That is also a key reason why more and more young people do not get married, but only want to bow their heads and earn money.

Second, living miserably when you are old has nothing to do with getting married.

Or that sentence, living miserably when you are old has nothing to do with marriage, and it has something to do with poverty. Of course, some people live very well with the help of their children when they are old, mainly because their children are especially more than expected to prosper and have good development prospects, so they can ensure "mother's love and filial piety".

3. If marriage is not the finishing touch, it is not as easy as appearing.

For today's young people, if the marriage is not the finishing touch, but for their own life, it is a matter of adding fuel to the fire, then this marriage is indeed not as difficult as it is to appear. Work hard, save money well, and be more secure than anything else.

No, it is not much harm for oneself not to marry Jianla, as long as you live regularly and live your life happily, it will be very easy to judge when you live; I think it's okay not to get married, as long as you live a very good life, and you have a good job and a good career, you will make money, so it doesn't matter if you get married or not, marriage is just a kind of shape, not a way of life.

No; I think that without getting married, you can still live a good life, a person can be chic and free, and a person can also experience the beauty of this world.

I don't think this Zheng You will have a bad life if he doesn't get married, in this life, I think that if you meet someone you like, you can get married, if you don't meet someone you like, then you can live a life of a Cong banquet by yourself, and you can live a very delicate life.

The people around me who are not married are doing well, including myself, and they are also a member of this group, and they are also very happy. There are many benefits to not getting married, let's take a look.

1. Save money and the expenses of falling in love, and the expenses of getting married and having children, not to mention the expenses of milk powder diapers and so on after having children. The biggest advantage of being single is that it is provincial, one person is full, and the whole family is not hungry. You don't have to worry about your family and children not having anything to eat, and you don't have to worry about zero income today.

Anyway, a person, life is always passable, and you don't have to work hard, if you don't have children, you will be sleepy and your wife, you don't have to think about children's study, your wife's beauty maintenance, and you can save a gift expense.

2. Save time to fall in love must take time to operate, serve with a dull heart, and have to walk around with you on rest days. If you are single, you don't have this trouble, you can sleep until what time you want, and you can arrange it however you want.

Even, even if you play a holiday game at home, no one cares about you, and no one will chant in your ear. Of course, you can also have more time to do the things you love, such as reading, writing, drawing, etc. As long as you have enough self-control, you can learn a lot of skills and accumulate more knowledge during this period.

3. Quarrels and contradictions are indispensable to save energy and fall in love, which is a very energy-consuming thing. People's energy is always limited, and if you invest too much in your feelings, you will decrease accordingly in life and work. The achievement of life often lies in how much you give, and whether the amount of accumulation has reached the critical value of qualitative change.

It's not for nothing that single people are always annoyed and energetic.

It's relatively boring and lonely, I don't feel too much when I'm young, and when I'm older, I will slowly emerge that loneliness is the norm, and life is more boring than that of married people.